Fetish finding?

[amelieknows]

How does one know their festish?

[MrOracle]

Not everyone has a fetish - in fact, a lot of people who THINK they have a fetish really just have an interest or preference. A fetish is something you MUST HAVE in order to feel sexual satisfaction, and I'd say that most people's interests don't quite meet that threshold, though some certainly do.

Really, you're just asking how to know if you have any kinky or unusual interests - and, well, the only way to know is to think about, read about, or watch them, and see if it does anything for you. If it's something that interests you, there won't be any question about it - you'll definitely know, because you'll find that you're incredibly turned on by whatever it is even if you aren't exactly sure why. Otherwise, it will be "yeah, that's sexy, but no big deal."

Whatever does it for you is what does it for you.

[AustinMan]

Probably from doing research on the various classes of fetishes and kinks. What are your sexual fantasies? That might give us an idea.

[ShedZJ001]

I don't know, I'd rather not try to find mine. Normal guy wants his balls kicked (Apparently a fetish), Normal guy wana stick his tongue in any asshole he sees. To think of it they like the taste of shit, stinky shit. Also a fetish...

[Gwenhwyfar]

It’s whatever turns u on. I knew I liked teasing and being teased since I was 12 (technically that’s a kink, but close enough).

[MrCommodore]

I imagine by accident, one day your having sex etc, and realise something particular really turns you on. I'm sure in most cases its not enough to be classified as a fetish.

[DrippingHoney]

I think they start as curiosities and develop over time as the link to your sexuality builds.

[wankiam]

you see it and you like it... or not as the case may be. i have a panty fetish and i know i have because if i get to see them or even here the actual word i get an instant erection

[TeeSquare]

through experimenting and curiosity.

[justaguy5612]

It captures your attention and tickles your sex drive.

[Jamie05rhs]

Amelie knows. Ask her.

[jahaims]

Not sure I feel like I just knew

[Dare38]

For myself I knew when I found something out of the ordinary.

[Valnac]

Whatever makes you wet.

[amelieknows]

Water?

[Valnac]

If that works sure.

[abc--123]

Its just something you discover. Try watching lots of different types of porn to see what really turns you on then try it out with a partner

[LOGESHKUMAR]

The fetish which turn you most & make you wet so much...

[Yellovv]

My one is coming from childhood memory..

[gandolph3]

something may just come as a thought, it may be something you see or hear about it. but you never really know till you try. sometimes what turns you on in thought doesn't live up to it in real life

[gandolph3]

Do you have fetishes