Fetish or preference?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been attracted to white men as a black woman. I don’t have any issue with my own race of men, but we have nothing in common as in I’m into a lot of stuff that many black men aren’t into and I’m very classy. I get turned on easily with white men in bed and more wetter. I see other races of men as attractive too , but I prefer white men as a dating preference. There’s no lust with me towards white men , but it’s like a temptation when I’m around an attractive white man.

[t-8900]

Well no there is nothing wrong with it. Nor should you be shamed for it. I prefer women outside my own race too and I'm white. However I do still date women inside my race and find them attractive as well. Just a bit less so in the cases of blondes and red heads. I'm basically drawn to dark eyes and hair if i'm being completely honest. I have a preference for latina women because they imprinted on me when I was young as I grew up around many in Avondale and Kennett Square, PA. My affinity for black women came a little later in my late teens through some sexual advances by black women.

They were extremely aggressive and while at first I found it repulsive I soon started to like it and liked women approaching me. If there's one thing about black women I love it's the fact they got the spine to chase what they want and are highly, sexually competitive. That's actually something I like. I wish my woman would be fighting to keep me around and fight other girls that get to close. Some guys think that's a turn off? To me its a deep honor to know a woman cares that much for me. And black and also latina women are not afraid to throw down for their man's honor against other women. Again something I love. Not that I want it to come to a fight, I'd be holding them back tbh lol. But I just like that they care that much about me.

[andy530]

It’s a preference we all have them there is absolutely nothing wrong with it

[Anonymous]

Sucks for you. White men prefer Asian girls or Latina babes more

[Asker]

My ex husband was white sucks for you - lol 😂 not every white guy wants a Latina or Asian woman

[Asker]

Granted some of them do , I’m on with mixed guys too.. preferably mixed guys who have black moms and white dads - mixed guys who have black fathers have a certain mentality I’m not attracted too.

[Asker]

Ok “

[buddysboy16]

I think if it only sexually turns you on it's more of a fetish. If you are attracted to them in other ways as well its a preference

[Asker]

No I’m not turned on by white men for sex. I actually like and adore other things with white men too.. I let that be known down below

[buddysboy16]

So then it's more of a preference

[Asker]

Yes 👍 100 I don’t want to just bed with white men like that. Eye color , hair color, personality , character, and white men are better and romantic lovers to me

[Asker]

Also I’m into figure skating, wine tasting , and the arts - compatibility and I like the fact white men are adventurous

[Ironic_Method]

I suppose it depends on WHY you prefer white men, but ultimately it doesn't really matter as long as you're happy and not hurting anyone. Sounds like preference from what you've said, but I dont know your kinks.

[Asker]

Eye color , hair color , character , personality, better lovers in bed, romantic , and adventurous - I’m into figure skating , cooking , the arts , and wine tasting

[Ironic_Method]

Seems like preference to me, not a fetish. You do you, girl.

[Asker]

Thanks sorry I didn’t make that clear in my details

[Yourfriend2021]

It's your personal preference , there's nothing wrong with that.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Yourfriend2021]

You're welcome you can like who you want in the world. Good luck

[convo_king89]

I think fetish is something you really like vs just a preference.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Depends on my mood

[Asker]

I met some white men who want to experience the black woman - I know what this means lol: not my cup of tea , but ok 👍

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Oh, I only read the title. I had royals/monarchism on my mind

[In_Trance]

preference

[Pterodon]

Preference

[Hanrej]

I'd say it's a preferance rather than a fetisch. It's weird though how you say that you're more turned on by White men but there's no lust between you and White men... That part has me confused.

[Asker]

Sexual attraction

[Hanrej]

I know what it means. I just find the two statements contradictory.

[Luckycharms12]

Can't help what you find a turn on

[LaMiSch]

I think it's just a preference. I know it too, I'm white myself, I've had white women too. But I get a lot hotter with black women, even if I only had that pleasure once 😁🙈

[YalancıBahar]

Why are u hidden? I like also black women

[YalancıBahar]

Heyy

[Asker]

Hey I just put myself out there

[YalancıBahar]

So how can i see you?

[Asker]

I’m hidden because this dating world is crazy

[YalancıBahar]

Wanna see you black woman. lol

[CubaPirate]

I'll be your classy older and sophisticated white guy

[Asker]

Thanks

[Seppel]

I like black women. But I would never dare to talk to these godesses

[B4852]

Preference, not fetish.

[jimmy2]

Wow love you

[Asker]

Love you too

[jimmy2]

wish you like older men lol

[Asker]

I know right, but older to me is 38-early 40s as I’m 33.

[ando90]

I like black women 😉

[Asker]

Thanks 😊

[ando90]

I'm a white guy too 😉

[Asker]

Yes lol 😂 how tall are you and eye color as these things turn me on

[Asker]

Tats and pericings

[ando90]

I'm 6ft 1inch with green eyes and dark brown hair

[Asker]

How adorable see this turns me on 😩 and your talk

[Asker]

Tall too dark brown hair is it long or short?

[ando90]

I'm slim too 😉

[ando90]

You can private message me 😉

[ando90]

My hair is short

[Asker]

Nice ok

[ando90]

Can we private message?

[Asker]

Sure

[ando90]

You'll have to send me a message first

[Anonymous]

There's not many good looking black women to be honest but there is some. I could only date them if they don't listen to rap or use words like fam, lit, bruh. I won't even date a white girl that uses those words.

[Asker]

Sorry you keep meeting trashy black women.. immigrants ghetto or ratchet / to say there’s not too many good looking black women ouch! No one is beginning you and I’m attractive and classy

[Asker]

Classy black women exist were not out there

[Opinion Owner]

I dunno. I live in the south, majority of girls are about the same here. I met one pretty black girl here but she talked too ghetto for me. She believed in the mentality that if you don't subscribe to black culture, you're somehow a traitor to the race. I find that odd and close minded.

[Asker]

I’m in the south and I didn’t mean to say immigrants sorry

[Asker]

I would never date a white man or non black man who acts black or trashy

[Asker]

A lot of black women aren’t classy and they never been exposed to decent quality men and that speaks volume about black men not treating black women like women

[Asker]

As a black woman I don’t claim or acknowledge black men as my equal part they have really destroyed and tainted the black woman’s image and they will do the same with other races of women

[Opinion Owner]

I feel sorry for black women then.

[Asker]

Thanks I appreciate that , but there are different types of breeds of black women we exist

[Asker]

Our standards are high and we’re different

[Asker]

Black culture is toxic and unhealthy

[Asker]

So those black women you’re meeting have been conditioned

[Asker]

I’m embarrassed for other BW and BM to say this as a BW

[Opinion Owner]

That's true. I agree. It would be nice to meet a nice black girl

[Asker]

Yes I’m open for the right man / I always have an attraction and interest in non black men dating outside my race makes me happy.

[Asker]

I want the right man in my life if he’s white , Mexican etc etc

[Asker]

If he’s outside my race that’s fine !

[Anonymous]

“Very classy”? I think “classist” is the word you’re looking for.

[Asker]

Yea my phone types for me

[Anonymous]

It's a preference.

[Anonymous]

Ok its ur own preference. I am white but im totally into black men they suite me better too and i am physically attracted to them as well their body type style and all that not to generalize i know black men differ but all their types just attract me to each their own.

[Asker]

Enjoy I could never date a black guy - we don’t sync

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know how you sync with white guys either 😂💀

[Asker]

I do I guess I’m classy and soft spoken a lot of black men don’t want that - they figure you guys are easier so a lot of black women don’t want that issue of Tyrone.

[Asker]

We don’t have to worry about stds or unwanted pregnancies what the majority of black men do

[Opinion Owner]

I am classy, soft spoken, and feminine myself. Black men truly appreciate that and i appreciate them🤷‍♀️ How are you gon a throw a “tyrone” joke 💀💀

[Opinion Owner]

I never got an std or pregnant and i only date black men. I am also in a relationship since 4 years with a black guy and we are doing just fine he even proposed 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Girl BM don’t make BW feminine just overweight and angry at least WM encourage and love thick BW. So thank you for dealing with Tryone - he won’t propose to a BW after 4 years- BM don’t value BW at all

[Asker]

I’m glad you’re doing just fine us BW too away from BM

[Opinion Owner]

Gurl i-

[Asker]

I want all BM to date outside their race

[Asker]

I haven’t dated BM since I was a teen lol now they have access to WW and they think their winning

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think they think so. I am sure they appreciate BW.

[Asker]

No ma’am they flock to WW and mixed women and spread their haterd for BW/ I want BM to date outside their race BM aren’t my property : Saves us BW the headache

[Asker]

When they get tired of WW they run back to BW lol no thanks we send them right back to you guys

[Opinion Owner]

If that’s true i am sorry

[Asker]

What you apologizing for lol BM are weak and evil towards BW so if they don’t appreciate us what makes you think they’ll appreciate you

[Asker]

Girl Idc where BM go my kids are mixed from my first husband who is white

[Asker]

Majority of BM are gay too / BW like me don’t care where they go