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KINK DEFINITION: In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities.
(NOTICE: Take the "KINK TEST" at the end of this myTake)
Do not proceed if this category of post is not for you ...you have been warned!!
Here is one of my previous myTakes on...
Now you will know the answer to...
You're going to just love this music video, after all ..."You're My, You're My, You're My Fetish!"...
(GAG Moderators ...there is no nudity or sex of any kind in any of these videos, I promise)
The Submissives Song ...why do I like this one so much? :) Click the "Watch on YouTube" link...
Here is "THE MISTRESS" (for Lesbian Submissives) ...OMG!
(WARNING: SENSUAL EROTIC LESBIAN KINK ...enter at your own risk!)
Five kink movies infinitely better than "50 Shades of Gray"...
If you are new to BDSM kink, then this is the video for you! ...
How to almost immediately recognize a Submissive ...yes, you read it right! ...are you one?
I confess, I am, but don't tell anybody :)
Here are 5 of the top 10 Kink Movies...
When did you first realize that you had a sexual kink? Listen to what others said...
And would any post about Fetishes and Kinks be complete without Rihanna's S&M music video? Answer ...NO CHANCE! :)
If you have kinks and fetishes, that means you're on the "BOARDERLINE" ...yes, it's true, you can no longer hide it! :) Listen...
Why do guys have this kink ...OMG! ...yes, you know who you are, and so do I, Listen ...
Now, take the...
Don't tell anyone please but :) ...
Now take the KINK TEST and post your result link, or results, in your comments.
What Girls & Guys Said
17 6588% Swinger
78% Rigger
70.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean
70% Primal (Hunter)
69% Daddy/Mommy
68% Voyeur
65% Degrader
62% Experimentalist
62% Master/Mistress
58% Dominant
55% Findomme
55% Sadist
46.5% Non-monogamist
44% Ageplayer
42% Pay Pig
40% Owner
38.5% Brat Tamer
36% Vanilla
33.5% Masochist
30% Exhibitionist
26% Degradee
22% Brat
13% Primal (Prey)
9.5% Slave
9% Girl/Boy
9% Switch
5% Submissive
4.5% Rope Bunny
4% Pet
Im representing equality big time, 46.5% submissive 47% dominant.
I think this is almost the same test, right? It seems accurate in my opinion. I've been into bondage (including ropes) for the past 4 years. Also, I've been collecting many S/m accessories as a dominant. I'm lucky my girl enjoys them as much as I do.
Yes, it looks the same. Wow, you have some totally high domination percentages! I have seen some amazing rope scenes at the Citadel in San Francisco. There is some real art work to what some of those rope master are able to do, not to mention the Eroticism... OMG!
it seems interesting, and I'd be glad if there were shibari workshops in my area
http://bdsmtest.org/r/2377008
www.kinktest.org/result/5fc5a13441e22b63bd978d12
92% Master/Mistress
90% Daddy/Mommy
86% Degrader
85% Dominant
84% Owner
84% Sadist
73% Rigger
69.5% Brat Tamer
63% Primal (Hunter)
59% Experimentalist
56% Exhibitionist
55% Findomme
53% Ageplayer
52.5% Non-monogamist
45% Primal (Prey)
26% Degradee
26% Voyeur
24% Vanilla
21.5% Masochist
16% Brat
15% Girl/Boy
14.5% Pet
12.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean
12.5% Slave
11% Switch
9% Swinger
8.5% Submissive
4% Pay Pig
4% Rope Bunny
added the other well known test and results for you
would have helped if it had a full range on percentages to choose from instead of 0 10 30 50 60 80 100
I'd prefer to show you rather than just writing BUT #1: I think you have excellent taste in literature and film.#2 I've always considered a kink to be something tried once with whomever you are having sex with and becoming a fetish when you realize that you enjoyed some particular kink to the extent that you want to include it in every sexual act from then on.
My fetish happens to be Swedish blonds with lovely asses showcased in a blue swim suit. Let me know if that fits the description of anyone you know
I doubt I've got a link but I most definitely have an ass fetish I also have a secret fetish
Oh my! ... :) How secret is it?
Hmmmm it's one of the most watched porn categories by straight men but one that many men would probably never admit to watching
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Starts with an S end with a e
Or starts with a T and ends with a Y
I am running into so many posts tonight that anyone but a blonde could figure out... lol OK, I think I've got it and if I do, that is actually one of my girlfriends favorite as well, although I know it is almost exclusively males that like it. I found some images that I PM'd her that she went crazy over if I am right. She said it is the best of both worlds... am I close? ... :)
Ding ding ding and that's why it turns me on so much it's definitely mostly males who watch it which surprised me cause in reality many males have such a negative reaction to trans woman
But I've definitely seen some very very sexy looking trans girl and it was a pleasure to watch
But then people start questioning your sexuality and shit especially as a man when I don't think it makes you gay or bi but that's just me.
https://www.kinktest.org/result/6050b0f041e22b17df35e7ce
i don't know what half of this stuff is though
Well im into thick ckicks... big booty, chubby legs and pale skin...
I realized that when I was 15... until today, I dont know any other guy who is into fat chicks like me... so, im a kind of outsider if you wanna call it that...
But the role fits...
Sometimes its kinda hard because I dont like the fact that its more easy for me to get a date from McDonald's than from a club or bar... but thats a community produced problem since fat chicks almost never get some attention...
It depends partly on the outfit... dark jeans with primary coloured shirt looks most times pretty hot to me...
87.5% Submissive
86% Girl/Boy
84% Degradee
76% Brat
68% Pet
67% Masochist
64% Voyeur
62% Ageplayer
62% Experimentalist
61.5% Slave
50% Cuckold / Cuckqean
49% Rope Bunny
48% Exhibitionist
46% Primal (Prey)
45.5% Non-monogamist
39% Swinger
33% Vanilla
30% Pay Pig
18% Switch
15% Dominant
15% Master/Mistress
14% Degrader
12.5% Brat Tamer
10% Owner
7% Primal (Hunter)
5% Daddy/Mommy
4.5% Sadist
0% Rigger
0% Findomme
Wow! ... I love finding other submissive girls, and kinky too! ... lol Thank you so much for sharing that! :)
This is me! 😁🤔
50% Voyeur
45% Switch
39% Vanilla
38% Daddy/Mommy
36% Non-monogamist
29% Dominant
27% Owner
20.5% Submissive
19% Experimentalist
17% Girl/Boy
16.5% Master/Mistress
13% Ageplayer
12% Exhibitionist
11.5% Slave
11% Brat Tamer
11% Degradee
9% Pet
7% Rope Bunny
6% Degrader
3% Masochist
3% Brat
2% Rigger
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Cuckold / Cuckqean
1% Primal (Hunter)
0% Findomme
0% Pay Pig
0% Swinger
0% Sadist
Uh oh
Oh Wow! ... you really are kinky! ... lol
Nice to see someone "else" who knows the difference. LOL Basically put, a kink is a preference, a fetish is a necessity with varying degrees or levels, so to speak, that is required. The word "fetish" is constantly used improperly. I'll hear a guy say " I have a fetish for long hair on girls" and I'll ask " does that mean you can't possibly get off UNLESS she has long hair?" Then they say, "well, no I just like it better". Well, dude... that's not a fetish and because it's so common, it's not really even a kink.
Yes, you've got it too :)
I've been saying this for the last 10 years !
90% Rigger
82% Dominant
80% Degrader
77% Master/Mistress
76% Daddy/Mommy
75% Experimentalist
74.5% Brat Tamer
71% Ageplayer
64% Owner
61% Girl/Boy
61% Primal (Hunter)
59% Switch
56% Exhibitionist
55% Brat
54% Voyeur
54% Sadist
51.5% Rope Bunny
48% Degradee
46.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean
46.5% Submissive
43% Vanilla
35% Findomme
32.5% Masochist
32.5% Non-monogamist
31% Primal (Prey)
30% Pay Pig
29% Slave
26% Pet
15% Swinger
Wow, that's pretty comprehensive... lol
🤣🤣🤣 Imagine a guy giving you this kind of list.
Pay pig?🤣
@laurieluvsit The list or the image?
@Primrose21 Yeah, I've got no idea what that's even supposed to mean...
that's a fun list. You find it on kinklist?
@Primrose21 @ad240pcharlie pay pig is about getting off on paying or getting paid for sex. Some people are sex workers or hire sex workers partly because this is their kink. But you don't have to actually pay (but I think it helps for it to be real). like you could play with a partner and just roleplay you are hiring her for a couple thousand dollars and shove the cash in her face and demand sexual favors. but at the end of the play put the money back in the bank. I dated a girl for a while who also did some escort type dates with 'sugar daddies" who would take her out, spend money on her, and she still had the choice about if she wanted to have sex or not. It was free stuff for literally going on a date, the focus of which was to buy her stuff. Not a bad gig, plus she had a bit of a "pay pig" fetish. She wanted me to do some roleplay with her but it never actually happened, not my thing. I would have done it for her, but there were some other obstacles in our relationship.
@zeitgeist057 wow. Didn't know that. I guess that kink falls at the bottom of my list. It's okay for couples in relationship to do it. But outside? Not my thing. You will never know if you are paying a girl or a guy product of human trafficking.
@Primrose21 @zeitgeist057 Yeah, I think it would be the same thing for me. In a roleplay scenario, it would be fine, but I wouldn't be comfortable doing it with an actualy prostitute or escort. But that has more to do with the fact that I'm not comfortable having sex with people I don't know.
Honestly, I feel like women make a bigger deal out of kinks than men do. To me, sex is sex.
I have a panty fetish
Here it is: https://www.kinktest.org/result/5fbf2f7841e22b63bd9765c9 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Oh Wow, it says you are more dominant, I didn't know that :)
I am a surprise. 😏🍪
Yes, a nice one :)
Thank you.
You're welcome
My only kink is to eat pussy in a submissive manner without expecting anything back from it
You are not alone
Here are my results, they make sense since I like sexting and SPH:
89% Experimentalist 78.5% Masochist 74% Voyeur 70% Submissive 69.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean 67% Degradee 62% Exhibitionist 50.5% Rope Bunny 50% Brat 36.5% Slave 31% Girl/Boy 25.5% Non-monogamist 24% Switch 19% Degrader 16% Primal (Prey) 16% Pet 15.5% Sadist 15% Ageplayer 15% Swinger 11% Vanilla 5% Rigger 4% Dominant 2% Master/Mistress 1.5% Brat Tamer 1% Owner 1% Primal (Hunter) 1% Daddy/Mommy 0% Findomme 0% Pay Pig
Yes, you are definitely the Kinkster! ... lol
I guess I’m not too kinky
That's a good one :)
Thanks
Only thing I am into is lesbian porn.
And lesbian love stories...
That's ok, thank you so much for participating!