Fetish, white guilt, or both?

I'm a little confused why I feel the way I do. Basically my fetish is to be used and dominated by black people. Men, women, couples, I have several places I go regularly to get tied up, fucked and sexually degraded by black people. Its what I get off on, what's always satisfied me.

Post George Floyd, post Breonna Taylor, and minneapolis, and all this horrible stuff, I feel like something has changed in me and I'm satisfied more and more with being degraded than what i thought was just a fetish for how beautiful they look. I've always felt ashamed for how racist this country can be, and always called it out when I see it, but now it hurts me so deeply and sometimes I cry during sex. Not in a bad way its just because I get so emotional. Ask anyone who knows me I've always been emotional but not crying during sex and feeling so guilty.

I'm never sure about anything, am I just an emotional fetishist? is this white guilt? Can white guilt be a fetish? What do you random people think of me?
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  • Im 36 yr old southern married but recently separated white boy from Tennessee that isn't ashamed to admit that most white people have fetishes and perverted cravings of being degraded and dominated sexually by black men and women, its alright to have these sexual feelings and I don't know if they come from our white guilt or our feeling of being the inferior white race and we submit to thier superior black race because we can give them what we think they deserving of ourselves, and I think they deserve to do anything they want to do with us, im a direct decendant of a southern white anglo saxon English imigrant who bought and sold black African slaves and practiced forced breeding to get the most physically mentally and emotionally dominant and completely masculine big bad buffed up go to super born and bred to have the power and sexual superiority over our weaker more feminized little dick white bois and they give what our sexually unsatisfied white trailer park trashy wives the kind of sexual pleasure that we could never give them, all southern anglo saxon weak skinny super feminine looking white bois and girls im related to here in Tennessee by my genetically feminized anglo saxon weak white trash inferior inbred race wants to be sexually degraded and dominated by a big black alpha thug n** more than anything else i promise, it's just a very dirty minded thing to think about much less to go through with at first, it was the most humiliating and perverted thing I ever up to that first time, i think my white guilt helped me to give up my manhood to my black thug daddy but i also feel that i deserve to pay for my evil ancestors decision to be a slave trader and breed his slaves by force to breed him some superior black slaves to get rich off of, these dark black very dominant and muscular dirty south thoroughbred alpha thug real men that we are living side by side with down here don't have any kind of problems with emasculating and feminizing a pale porcelain white complected skinny weak white trailer park trashy little bitch boi that wasn't a man compared to his type in anyway and our white women don't have to be sexually unsatisfied now because of these real men that are here because of slavery, its our white guilt and our sexual deviant needs we have that we have to push us into submission so it doesn't matter what reason we are getting into and given this opportunity and gift so just don't worry about it and just do what you need to do and get what you want to with all of it

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  • Yeah it sounds like these fetishes come from your white guilt/shame.

    What do I think of you? I think you have problems. You've been taught to hate yourself and your own people, and that you're somehow responsible for the actions of others when you're not, and that's the root of it.

    Women seem to be especially susceptible to this, developing pathological altruism. By nature women are sympathetic, and in general want to make sure that everybody is treated well, fairly etc. It becomes pathological when you go to the extent of putting other people before yourself, putting yourself at a disadvantage.

    You might not see it as that, but that's what this is. I can guarantee you that these people, if this is even true, do not respect you at all. And you don't respect yourself either.

    Some people will argue with me on all of this too and will call it a harmless fetish, but they'd be saying the same kinds of things if you were black and they were white, and you were enjoying being degraded for being black. They'd see then that it's a result of low self-esteem and that it's self-destructive. But most people have this anti-white mentality which you have to varying degrees.

    • Well I disagree that the people I have sex with dont respect me, they very much do and they would never do anything to me that I wasn't specifically asking for and ok with. We're all good friends. I can see my fetish coming from low self esteem or a not normal sense of compassion, but I dont see it as destructive in any way. Its just roleplaying and sex and fun. We're all consenting adults who care about eachother and understand what we want no matter where those wants ultimately came from. I agree that it'd probably be a lot more controversial if our races were reversed, but society itself would be very different if you reversed the race relations throughout history. All in all i appreciate your thoughts

    • Actually one more thing. Do you think feeling guilty about history or having a different sense of compassion is the same as being anti white? Why do you think im anti white people?

    • I'm into BDSM myself, so I understand kinks and fetishes. I'm a Dom. The reason I say that they don't respect you is that there are certain kinks and fetishes which are self-destructive. They come from a bad place, bad mental health. A responsible Dom will not engage in these kinks with a sub where he/she knows it comes from a bad place, because all that does is fuel it further. Yours come from a bad place. That's why you cry when it happens. I know you say "not in a bad way", but it is. Sex shouldn't make you cry. Your side is fuelled by white guilt and self-loathing. Their side is fuelled by anti-white hatred. Deep down, you engage in this because on some level you feel like you're "making up" or "paying" for racism. On some level they feel like they're taking revenge. All of you will deny that that's the reason, in order to maintain the pretence that it's just adults who respect each other engaging in perfectly healthy consensual sex. I think it is anti-white, definitely. Everything you have to say about white peope is bad. If you have anything good to say, which you might do in response to this, it will be something along the lines of "no I don't hate white people BUT (insert reasons for why white people are bad and why you feel white guilt/shame). In order to think that way you have to look at history in a one-sided way through the lens of white people: bad, non-white people: good. We're taught a one-sided version of history, and this is no accident. White people are being attacked psychologically, and you're a victim of that.

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  • There is no white guilt. How about this. Give up everything that white men have invented, from transistors to representative democracy (republics). I know, try this. Be a commoner in any Islamic country.

    • Give up the Atlantic slave trade? Give up the trail of tears and occupation of india? Ok cool. If thats the line of reasoning you choose to use, you have to at least be consistent lol.

    • At my age, I have taken part in none of those things. Have you?

    • Did you take part in the invention of the transistor and democracy?

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  • look like white guilt

  • If you cry with ohteri also Maybe it's one of your fetishes but if you cry with them only maybe it's just white guilt (do you enjoy the sex while crying? Or you just think how bad they are getting treated?)

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  • Maybe you need double vaginal sex, that is also another fetish..

    • I've tried it, its intense😁

    • Are they both fit inside your hot pussy?

    • Yep, but the stretch wasn't all that pleasant.

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