Sexual Relationships 
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If you have a partner, why not spice up your sex life by acting out a fun and sensual erotic fantasy? It's a sad truth that often at times sex with the same partner can become quite monotonous, but it doesn't have to be so! There are a wide range of ways to spice things up a little, from erotic games to role playing. Have some fun together and find out which fantasies you can try with your partner that are sure to please both you and your partner. Don't miss out!
The secret of the trench coat
If you want to make your partner's jaw drop, try coming home one day wearing a coat down to the knees...and nothing else. The idea is to appear at home, as if nothing's going on, and then take off the coat as you talk to him. He'll be speechless!
If you don't want to go completely naked, you can choose to wear a set of sexy lingerie that fits you properly and flatters your assets.
Banish the bed
There are plenty of places around the house without always going to bed. Be creative and find original new places to unleash your passion. The bath or shower, for example, is an exciting place to have sex; there's also the kitchen counter, the balcony, on top of the washing machine or even the floor. Making love in unusual and different places is a great way to shake things up. Why not give it a go?
She's in charge
A common sexual fantasy for men is being subjected to the domination of a woman. This domination can be gentle or it may develop into sexual play in which she takes on the role of a dominatrix. To put it simply, this is about the woman having control in bed: setting the pace, suggesting sexual positions, giving orders to her partner or even handcuffing him so he can't move.
If you prefer sexual fantasies that involve bondage, the women could try becoming a dominatrix. This involves dressing up in clothes that convey her sexual persona and using sex toys like whips or handcuffs. For a more toned-down version, a woman can remove his tie after a long day's work and use it to blindfold him or tie him to the bed.
The mirror
Another of the fantasies that you can do with your partner is using a mirror. This is a simple but very exciting fantasy that may well unleash your wildest side of all. Place a mirror next to the bed or wherever you go to have sex, and then make love whilst looking at your reflections. The result is spectacular: you'll see how your inhibitions will fly away, leaving you both to enjoy truly passionate and exciting sex.
Roleplay
This is one of the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women. Roleplay involves taking on a completely different character and pretending that you and your partner have never met. This game can be played with traditional erotic fancy dress (schoolgirl, fireman, cowboy, nurse, etc.) or simply by meeting your partner in a hotel bar and pretending not to know each other. If you want to surprise your partner, you can greet them at the door wearing a sexy costume and begin playing out the fantasy.
The key to this erotic game is to fulfill a sexual fantasy that involves making love with strangers or with specific characters. For the game to therefore be successful you must both be completely submerged in the role and ready to play it through to the end: it's best to invent a name, a profession and a completely different life to the one that you have. It's also best to talk about it before hand.
Having sex in public places
This is one of the boldest fantasies but its worth a try for the sole reason that the excitement and adrenaline that comes from the risk of being discovered or caught is extremely arousing when having sex. The danger, adventure and excitement makes for truly wild sex. If you want to know what fantasies to play out with your partner, we say: be as daring as you can and surprise your partner with a burst of passion in a public place!
The most exciting places to have sex outside the home include the changing rooms of a department store, a public bath, a park, a beach or a car. Try this only if you are into it otherwise you can skip this one.
Starring in an erotic video
Another bold fantasy that you can try with your partner is to star in an erotic film. Start by dressing in sexy clothes, and create a sensual atmosphere in the room with scented candles, petals and any props you might use in your sex play. Then, switch the camera on and start recording! This fantasy allows you to become the protagonists of an erotic sex video that will only ever be seen by you. It's exciting! The most important thing though here is to trust your partner completely while making the video otherwise the whole act can become awkward and also make sure you permanently delete it after watching a few times so that it never gets leaked or caught in wrong hands in this era of technology.
Sex toys
Use of sex toys are great especially if you want to spice things up. There is literally a sex toy for everything. For him, for her. For his penis, for her clitoris and ofcourse for the anus of both sexes.
Using sex toys during foreplay is great for getting each other hot and well turned on before sex. They can also be great if used instead of sex and during sex as well.
But if you solely rely on sex toys, then things will inevitably start to get boring and routine.
A good way to view sex toys is seeing them as a spice or a starter, not the main course. Imagine using a vibrator on her clit while you thrust her inside with your manhood. Also i think most women won't mind fucking her man's rear hole by using a strap on.
Sexting
You can begin foreplay before your partner even gets home! Send them sexy text messages throughout the day, leaving them filled with desire for you. There are sure to be fireworks when you two see each other at the end of the day!
Sext messages to turn her on:
"You are a living, breathing sexual fantasy"
"Your body always looked great, but it looked phenomenal last time"
"When you lick your lips, I see a sex goddess moistening her perfect pout"
"When you bend over, even just a little, I lose control entirely"
"I’m curious as to what color panties you have on, but I really don’t care because they’re coming off as soon as I come over anyway"
“I am dying to see you naked. I want to be inside of you so bad"
“I want to taste every inch of your body, exploring it with my tongue and make you moan loudly"
"I’m aching to run my tongue along your pussy and get you wet. I’ll make you grip the sheets with pleasure"
"I love the sound of your moans when am eating you out. They make me so hard"
" I want to f*ck you in every room of my apartment, including the kitchen"
"There’s something really sexy and amazing about the way you look when you’re orgasming"
"You’re not going to be able to move after I’m finished with you tonight"
Sext messages to turn him on
"Do you think I would look better in a skirt or tight jeans?"
"I’m gonna wear my f*ck-me lingerie tonight"
"I just got out of the shower stark naked and am trying to decide whether to wear pink boy shorts or a black, lacy thong"
"Tonight I want you to undress me slowly with your muscular touch and kiss every inch of my body with no inch left untouched"
"I have my hand down my panty right now, and just the thought of you touching me has me so wet. I can’t wait until you strip me of my clothes and have your way with me"
"I’m soaking wet right now and it’s all your fault. You really need to be here right now to bend me over and take care of me"
“I hope you rested well, because you are definitely going to need your energy later when you walk into my bedroom"
"I am going to take in every inch of you and make you moan in pleasure. You’ll love all the things I can do with my lips and mouth"
“I couldn’t focus all day long today because I was just thinking about how badly I wanted to get you naked and ride you"
"I don't think there is anything hotter than looking at your face when you're working out on top of me"
"I’m going to drain every last drop of cum out of you later"
"Your c*ck is going to throb and pulse with complete pleasure tonight"
Watch porn together
I totally understand if a woman hates pornography and want to avoid this tip completely.
There is a stereotype than men love porn and women hate it. This is not quite true.
Most women hate ‘conventional’ pornography. I mean the pornography that’s degrading to women, where men treat the women like sex objects and cum on their faces at the end.
However, if you search for it, you will find female focused and erotic pornography where the ultimate goal is to achieve a mind blowing mutual orgasm for both the partners. If you are not sold on the idea of watching porn with your partner, then please don’t feel like you have to.
I addition to these fantasies, couples can also enjoy their most forbidden pleasures together by acting on any of their sexual desires as a couple. But don't forget that mutual understanding is the key to live out any of your kinks or fantasies with your partner and thats achieved only through proper communication.
What Girls & Guys Said
16 22But I don't have a sex life
love all you talked about. my late wife and use to have sex in the garden shed after we had worked in the yard,
great my take
early dinner tonight.. lol poor guy
best early dinner not on a menu!
Interesting Take
Y'all extra and these are pretty basic. If my husband were to sext me, I'd block him. Come at me like you're a man, not a 12 yo boy.
says the girl who deactivated her profile, not much an hour or so after she created it
Nah too much line S. G. her word ain't honorable
Thanks a lot this is really a good Take that involves fantasy. But you failed to describe how to get to the big explosion:
There is a technique to get a girl orgasming really fast:
First put two fingers in her and go up to 4 Fingers you need to get deep to Stretch her Out a bit. Then Finger her really fast, Its complety painless. With the other hand you stimuli her clitoris by patterns of oval rotations and while doing this talk to her sorry. (You like that little dirty slut? Hm? You want me to go faster? I won't stop now)
How to make a man cum really fast:
Before giving blowjob, make sure to get a lot of Salvia before, give him a wet and sloppy Handjob. Then go slowly up and down with your mouth. Look him in the eyes when you make it, use your hand to stroke his dick while playing with his balls. After 3 minutes, Go fast like i'ts hot summer and you want to suck icecream really badly. ( Enthusiasms) Going with your sloppy hand up and down with your mouth as combo, and you're other hand für the balls. You also can try to reach his anus with the thumb of the hand you massaging His Balls with. I called the big 3 combo it get's him orgasmic real hard. Before He cums, take one Ball complety in your mouth, also you can massage His balls and make dirty talk.
You are an expert, awesome
Awesome tips!
I don't hate conventional porn because it's degrading. I dislike it because it's so fake and plastic. Women have more eye for detail, and those obvious fake breasts, think layer of makeup but most importantly fake enthusiasm are the mood killer for me. I love me some good BDSM porn, it's raw, it's real emotion, none of that bored moaning on automatic. Just like I like amateur couples or vixxen stuff.
I feel the same way about porn. You described it well. Most female porn stars look like cheep prostitutes and the guys act like pigs who don't even like women. But I've seen some pretty arousing stuff featuring amateur women. You can tell their authenticity.
Let me text my man real quick... be right back! Got me all happy and stuff!
Good take and great gifs to go with it.
Dang... this is all good shit.
Thanks mate..
That's some good research that you have put in your MyTake. You have done a lot of homework on sexting I guess lol. Well done.
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well, that was fun :)
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