Guys, Find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave?

Question

I am happy to spend the rest of my life single but I still want to have at least one child. in my life but sperm banks are expensive, so I was wondering if it was weird to want to find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave? In a way I would be using the guy who would willingly get me pregnant. I don't want any information on said guy other then health wise the less I know about said guy the better. My goal is to get pregnant.

fashionguy17 · Accepted Answer

I never understood why women do this. Do you ladies just give up on men so easily that you just want a baby and no partner? I've known THREE women who have done this.

-Girl number 1 was 21 and she was sick of men. She said she can never find the right guy (her ideal man was 6'5", black, and someone who was street). Yes, she was a white girl. She met someone who met part of her criteria, so she got pregnant by him and the guy left. She is now a single mom and okay with it.

-Girl number 2 is 23 and she was sick of the behavior that men displayed towards her. So, she got pregnant by a random guy and is a happy single mom. She always rants about how much she hates men.

-Girl number 3 is 35. She always had trouble finding men who were her type. She met a random guy, got pregnant and is now a single mom and says she's okay with being single forever, just as long as her child is happy.

None of this is a man's fault. It's the woman's fault. Some of y'all are too choosy and don't know what you want in a man, so you settle for the stupidest things.

markscott · Accepted Answer

You can't really know what the guy is like health wise, unless you get some of his medical record. He would have who knows what disease, and hide it from you, just to get in your pants. And legally, if you use him to impregnate you, he has legal rights to the child. You can't make him just walk away and stay away. I guess you could advertise, making it anonymous, never letting you know who your really are, get his medical record, and have sex at some anonymous place. But that could also set you up for rape or worse, as you wouldn't know the person, and you would have a very difficult time proving rape under the circumstances.

Tyme1313 · Answer

Yea, I wouldn’t mind getting a woman pregnant and then leaving.

i1T2daty · Answer

You should give criteria

Berethor · Answer

It's called natural insemination, and you are not the only woman who is looking for that.

Adam1978 · Answer

If it wasn't for laws and the risk of that coming back and majorly screw up a guys life. There would be no need for sperm banks. There would be plenty guy willing to help women out in your situation.

Dargil · Answer

There are moral issues but they are between you and The Creator. I I we're female wanted to do this, I wouldn't want the cost and creepyness of artificial insemination. I also wouldn't want to "trawl" (like a fisherman) in clubs. You would look at your son or daughter later on and remember how be/she got started. So what to do?
Plan this out. Get into the best shape you can. You want to become a guy magnet. Then plan a cruise vacation and have a "fling". Guys who go on cruises alone look for a two week intense romance. You will likely have sex one or more times every day if you want it and then make a clean break at the end.
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This kind of setup is likely to expose you to STD less than the club scene but you can't expect a test. If you do this, you have to plan it around your period/estrus. You should familiarize yourself about that.
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Even if it doesn't "take", you will have a good time and good memories. You're 36. Don't put this off.

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

Well now, that's a first. No, I'm intent on having a family myself, and even if I wasn't I'd never bail on a woman who carries my child, there's too much of that already.

Landshrk0068 · Answer

First thing you should do is get an attorney to write a contract for the guy to sign outlining what you are both responsible for. And then search the internet, I used to see things like this when I would go on craigslist years ago. Other than that I wouldn't know where to look. Maybe you could start a FB page just for this.

6lacier · Answer

Kids aren't an accessory.

genericname85 · Answer

maybe you should walk though some black neigboorhoods xD those are the professionals when it comes to knocking girls up and then mysteriously vanishing.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

As long as the guy knows what he is for fine! If not them is super wrong!

Thatsamazing · Answer

Wow. Gross.

bangyourhead · Answer

Why would I help you ruin a child’s life?

skittles2017 · Answer

Its perfect normal what you are asking for. And most men will do it for you as long as you don't know anything about anyone no names no addresses , no nothing. Some men will say that they will give you their sperm in a condom. I would, like... its safer for both of us std wise.

Tztop2006 · Answer

I think most guys would be willing

mikeylarcj · Answer

I don’t mind doing it lol if you sign papers that am not responsible for child support in the future or any legal obligation

HereIbe · Answer

In the USA, only a truly stupid man would go for this, because nearly every state will let you hit him up for child support and no prior agreement to not hit him up has any legal standing.

Straight_Shooter · Answer

I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that would do that.

Valnac · Answer

I’ve had 2 female Engineers ask me the same. They work 10 hrs a day and don’t have time to date. I refused both, I’d like to know where my children are...

Voruund · Answer

Im sure many guys would be willing. But i wouldn't unless there was something saying I'm free from all responsibilities in caring and paying for it.

grega239 · Answer

It's highly irresponsible to raise a kid without a father.

Sabretooth · Answer

this will end bably. but just find an immoral guy-should be easy enough-though, degredation might be required.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Where are you located, if it's Ireland I can help

masterkamasutra · Answer

there are more easy trick for that.

ummmonya · Answer

Hey I'm down to give you a child. It's awesome you want to bring a life into the world!

Justwonderingidk · Answer

I’m down

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't agree with it. The guy might have mental health issues that you don't know about. A verbal agreement doesn't get him off the hook for child support and he'd have to be a kook to agree to it. And do you really want to bring a child into the world without a dad present? And I don't mean to sound mean, but if you can't afford a sperm bank, how can you afford a child?