Finding guys who want to settle down with a trans woman who has plans to go post op, do they really exist?

I am a trans woman with plans to go post op.
It seems like all the guys interested in trans women only see it as a fetish and only want trans women who will use their penis. I can’t use my penis because I hate having one in the first place.
Does this mean my chances of finding a guy who wants to settle down with a trans woman who is going all the way, are close to zero?

Where do I find guys who are okay with dating trans women romantically and who are also okay with trans women who intend to go all the way ( with vagina ) ?

Do such guys even exist, who will consider loving a girl like me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • male and female created he him ( God ) male and female created he them ( God ) ! a male has a penis and a female has a vagina ! If the male cuts off his penis to become a female , he will die ! if a woman sews on a penis it will not work ! there is no such thing as a transgender anything ! You are a male with a penis forever or a dead man with a cut off penis ! A female has a vagina and can have children and you can not change it ! Thanks

    • 👏👏👏👏👏

    • what a wicked old bat you are. you should be ashamed of yourself, you witch. And those comments coming from you are hilarious, considering you actually look trans yourself... I hate Jesus Freaks, the most hypocritical and horrible people that just won't let people live in peace.

  • My niece is trans & she gets more guys than I do, seriously! And I have real boobs.. Smile. There's a fit for everyone

    • Aww thanks, sweet :-) I have real boobs too by the way. Sounds like guys prefer the silicone ones 😂

Most Helpful Guys

  • Love is something you build, not something you find. It's going to take you a while to find what you're looking for. Instead of looking for potential partners, engage with life. Allow that connection to develop and grow. If the person is a soul mate, he'll also be into you, so if you both pay genuine attention to each other then something will develop. Whatever your gender, love will find you, just be patient.

  • Weird, I personally do not see myself settling down with a trans woman if she isn't planning to go all the way. I assumed that was the goal for most. Now I'm confused to learn that some specifically won't.

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  • I'm sure there are plenty of trans-men out there willing to date a trans-woman or gay guys.

    • Gay guys don’t date trans women. Why would a gay man date a woman?

    • They wouldn't but they would date a man.

  • Well to be completly honest, I'm probably one of the guys that sees it more like a fetish.
    Look I'm curious about dick but I dont find men attractive, so a sexy woman with a penis sounds appealing.

    I'm not against adoption but I'd rather marry someone who can have a baby.

    What would we do till you had the surgery? Just anal? You see how a guy that likes vagina might have a hard time waiting until you have a vagina right?

    Most guys dont date someone they expect to change, we date someone we like.
    So it will probably be hard to find a guy that wants you too have a vagina but is also willing to wait months or years for you to get one.
    Or it's a guy that excerpts you with a penis but you dont like him being interested in it and when you get rid of it, or chang from the way he liked you he may loose interest post op.

    It's hard to be attracted long term too someone transitioning, you dont know what their goals are.

    I didn't find the one I was talking too super attractive, so what I stick around not attracted now in the Hope's she's a beutiful woman later?
    Or I like her how she is, and as she changes to what she wants to be I loose interest, do I stay in relationship with no attraction at that point?

    I am sorry you feel like a sexual fetish object, that's not my intention to make any trans person to feel that way but I do want the experience.

  • Yes, I think such guys exist. Obviously your dating pool is going to be smaller than most. Gonna have to get aggressive I guess.

    • Disturbing thought. Yikes!

    • @Dchrls78104 Why disturbing?

    • Tranny "women" (ewww!!) being aggressive about dating guys=highly disturbing =yikes!

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  • Because it’s more frequently encountered as a fetish than a true neurological construct.

  • If you were not born female, you're a guy and you'll never be a woman. What else could you expect?

  • I do exist.
    And others like me too.

  • No they do not exist.

  • Us guys are out there. I have dated a transgirl (preop) in the past. It was just like any normal relationship i have had. Sex was the same with subtle differences of course, we both enjoyed it. Youve just gotta try and find the right guy who loves you for you and pray he's not a chaser of some sort. They may be rare but trust when you find one, he’ll be special. Good luck girl

  • I’m Trans in my brain and stopped transitioning for many reasons. I’m fine with MtF women post it pre. No fetish interests. You’ll understand the hell I go through each and every day.

  • I would. We're out here, just be patient.
    ~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

  • grown man wanna be female smh...

  • I wouldn't even mind it even if they have a vagina and I also like girls and herm

  • Nope

  • I don’t know alas 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve been postop since 2019 and the pandemic didn’t help. I’ve had partners who are happy with my new equipment but none who wanted to settle down, so far…

  • Yes I be more than happy to be with a trans woman who has gone the whole way to change she is a female no different from a byologle female in most cases they more beautiful than a woman bone female.

  • I dont know love. I gave up long time ago