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No matter what your size, do you ever wonder why you can't seem to get a good fit of the ol' rubber? Do you get that uncomfortable grip from it when you're doing the deed, like your dingdong is literally being choked? And does it even make it hard for you to nut when you're doing it?
You've tried everything. Large, X-Large, XX-Large, even a different brand altogether, and you still seem to run into that same uncomfortable problem in the bedroom. It's now either too big and slippery, or not big enough and your willy feels nowhere near free. What the hell? What gives? Well, my guys, I'm here to help you out with that.
What the condom companies don't tell you
The first thing you guys need to know is that the condom companies will tell you every 'large' size rubber is large when they really aren't. Even for 'average' size guys, the so-called large and even X-Large do not cut it. They still feel tight and uncomfortable. The companies just want you to feel confident and convinced in buying the product, and really wanna reel you in with all those wonderful, dreamy, nice-sounding things like "bare skin," "ultra thin," and "sensitivity."
You may also have noticed - if you're like me and you've stood in the store forever reading over packages trying to find the size specifications - that on most products, there isn't one! And that's the crucial thing to know. They only want you to take their word for it that it's really a large or X-Large rubber.
Few condom companies actually list the millimeter measurements on their boxes. But even when they do and you see numbers like 53mm - 60mm, you might feel like you're in the right direction, but still end up getting in the bedroom and putting on a tight condom that even makes it hard for you to cum! While trial and error of those numbers helps you get an idea of how much bigger you need to go, it's still not the complete answer.
But here's where we crack the code...
Finding out your size
It's not exactly the easiest thing to do for a guy, like how a woman can get her chest measured and know what type of cups she needs for a bra, but it can be done. You may have even tried looking at the condom size charts and felt confused about what exactly you're looking for in those millimeters. Here's the trick: give yourself a hard-on and literally measure the circumference of your ding dong with tape measure, the kind that tailors use. Sound crazy? Yeah. But that measurement is what you need in order to get a comfortable condom, because it's actually the girth (your dick's circumference) that is the key to getting it right. The length of the condom is the least troubling. Most men don't have 10in. "elephant trunks," but if you do, targetting a good condom length is where you want to focus.
The size of a freshly rolled out rubber is not the actual size of your hard penis, and isn't supposed to be. It has to have some kind of grip to stay on you, but getting an idea of the rubber's width will help you in finding one that is more comfortable.
Let's say the width - not the length - of the condom is 2in. To find out how big the circumference of it is, you simply multiply that width x2. Which will be 4. Is that a close enough size to your hard penis? If so you're good to go. This mathematical trick is what you need to know and will help you make a better selection for better pleasure, for you and her.
Take a look at all the condom products
Don't be afraid to branch out. Some guys will just go with brands like Magnum, Trojan, and Durex just because these are popular names on the market and are supposed to be trusted. I will be the first to say that I have never had a good experience with any of these brands. They are actually the most uncomfortable condoms I've ever used, so I go with brands people have pretty much never heard of but are more than likely to be what you need as well. Try brands like Lelo Hex, Kimono, or Hustler. Even for guys who are 'below average', these can work for them as well.
Here is a link to a wonderful page that expands on understanding condom sizes, as well as listing some good brands you've never heard of along with the popular ones. Some of what I talked about is also in this link: https://www.ripnroll.com/blogs/sexual-education/118070213-condom-size-chart
Now that we've had this very important man-to-man talk, I hope from here on you no longer have any discomfort with d*cking her down good in the bedroom.
Namaste, and good luck!
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