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Fingering and hair down there?

Ok so this is super embarassing to ask but anyways, here it goes: I was making out with my boyfriend and one thing led to another and he basically put his hand in my panties and fingered me. It was cool and everything, but I was terrified at what he might think about my pubic hair! Now, I absolutely do NOT have a jungle, I keep it neat and trimmed but I don't feel comfortable with shaving it all off, mostly because the process scares me (I hate blades and I only really wax the rest of my body). So it's not a jungle, but there is hair. He's a very sweet guy and at the moment I didn't even think about it but now I'm wondering whether he doesn't mind it or is disgusted by hair... What should I do? I forgot to mention he acted totally normal after that, holding my hand and being sweet as always, and he didn't stop doing it once he was in
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  • I'm sure he doesn't mind if he's continuing to do it. It's really up to you and if he does have a problem with it tough cookies. But you could always ask him how does it make him feel.

    Oh and I couldn't deal with waxing it hurts to much. I personally don't like my puioc hair so I shave it all off. You won't hurt yourself at the most you might get a razor bump or if you do scratch yourself with it it won't hurt I swear. Well as long as you don't accidentally cut your labia or anything. Shaving goes by pretty fast because the trick to it is cutting it with scissors as low as possible and then shaving the rest off.

    But it's up to you not me, your boyfriend, or anyone else.

  • If he is not a virgin he will be fine with it Im sure he is familiar with a womans body and he probably doesn't care so dont sweat it Im sure he isn't super shaved down there

  • Some dudes don't mind a little bit of pubic hair, sounds like he's one of em.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There is nothing in what you said to suggest he was unhappy about what he felt there. He likely has no preference either way. So forget about it. I mean really forget about it. If he ever brings it up, or if you want to change and get his opinion first, you can always ask him. Bet everything seems cool right now.

    • Thank you for MHO :-)

  • Sounds like your guy really loves you for who you really are, which is a good thing for both women & men to have on each other.

    • It is :)

    • Yep.

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  • It's just hair.
    You are thinking far into this.

  • I don't think you have anything to worry about.

  • trimmed is nice. dont worry about it.

  • He doesn't care and even if he does that is his problem not yours.

  • Trimming ought to be sufficient.

  • Trust me when I'm down there fingering a girl
    i hope she's all natural hairy to me it's a turn on ;)

  • You can always ask him what he thinks about it, chances are he doesn't care based on his reaction afterwards.

  • I wouldn't give that a second thought. You do not have to "measure up". Only adult children think pubic hair is "disgusting".

  • if he wasn't worried, i wouldn't panic over it.

  • Do you have hair, growing on your private parts? Is that normal? Have you asked your doctor yet?--------------
    Why do girls think, they have to be bald down there?

    • I feel, nothing, to very trimmed and we'll kept feels more fresh and is less of a hassle. Although I think that it's also an expected social norm now days.

  • Nothing wrong with pubic hair.

  • Until and unless you have a biflg bush down there shouldn't be any problem... Just trim it a little bit...

  • tell him "hey baby wht do you think of this" but some like full shaved, landing strip (like me), trimmed. it all depends on his preferance.

    so what kind of panties did u have on?

  • Don't worry about it. Actually, hair can be very sexy. It is only recently that shaving there became the in thing.

  • There is guys who like that. It's totally normal and you have nothing to be ashamed of.
    Like personally, usually i'm shy too but if you don't get any signs that he didn't like it i think you're totally fine :)

  • Sounds like he didn't mind at all
    Don't be embarrassed to ask what he likes if you are unsure

  • He was probably like, oh hairy kitty!

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