Fingering yourself vs Having a guy finger you?

[Anonymous]

Girls, whats the difference? Does it feel way better when a guy fingers you or when you finger yourself? Probably when a guy does it, right? But why? I'm a virgin and I haven't had a guy finger me but when I finger myself it kinda feels good but not that good, I have a feeling it could be better. Do you get more pleasure when someone else is doing it for you?

[mixedmadness]

It's waaaaaay better when a guy does it. lol I don't know why but guys just seem better at it. They make the whole experience fun and exciting. And I think it's a mental thing, knowing he's pleasuring you, all his attention is on you while he's fingering you -- that's a huge turn-on in itself

[275153]

Because when you do it, you have to rely on your own imagination for fantasy. When a man does it, all of your senses are being serviced. He is not just touching you. You smell him, taste his kiss, see his body and face. And you also make an emotional connection.

[bombamboum]

It's extremely different. I have way more pleasure when my boyfriend does it. First, it's a huge turn on. You get turned on by the guy, he usually turned you on already because he kissed you, touch you. It's unexpected because you don't know what he'll do next.

[Kunami]

It feels waay better when you have your bf do it. You don't know when they're gonna add more pressure or when they're gonna give that bit of twist.

[Anonymous]

I don't like doing it myself at all. I prefer a guy to do it.