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Fingers in butt holes?

My husband came to me the other day and said he had a "nightmare" that I pinned him down against his will and stuck my finger up his butt hole. Ever since this "nightmare" he's been obsessed with my butt! So I asked him last night "why the sudden obsession? Do you WANT me to put my finger up YOUR butt?" He laughed and said "no, I don't want you to put your finger up my but... [starts to walk away and quietly says] I want to put my finger up your butt" And he disappeared for like 5 minutes... We're very comfortable with each other, we have been together for 8 years but we've never gone there before! I honestly cannot tell if he is joking or being serious... Or if he really wants me to do it to him?
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Weve never done any anal activity. Him to me or me to him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think your intuition is correct , I think he does but because he respects you and loves you it is a very tough thing to ask for. Do a little on line research into prostate massage. Many guys would like their butts played with and don't know why, they think it's gay or could make them so. I know all this because we went through exactly the same thing. Now anal play is a very big part of our love making. Having your prostate massaged it jus about the most intimate and giving thing a woman can do for her man. It takes time to learn and as a guy you have to trust your woman and let her do it. However when it's done well the orgasm is exquisite. Twice as much come and twice as many orgasmic spasms. It's also very relaxing and bonding.

  • Just go and talk to about it. He probably thinks your not taking him seriously. He is probably confused about the whole thing himself, sometimes dreams can afftect us on how we feel about things. I had a dream about a girl, who was a friend, and suddenly I had a crush on her for a while, its very strange. But thank god, the crush went away.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have had two boyfriends whom I fingered their butt while giving them blowjobs, and they liked it very much. My current boyfriend included. We have just talked about taking it further. It sounds like he is very curious about doing it with you but is shy about telling you. He may think you will think he is less of a man. There is abloslutely no doubt, my boyfriend is every bit a man's man and he likes it. You may have to take the lead and start doing it when you guys are fooling around. I think the best way is to start rubbing his butt hole when you are blowing him, then if he is receptive, slowly ease a lubed finger inside. Maybe you both can experiment starting with fingers.

  • Lol thats kinda funny, does kind of sound like he wants it.
    My boyfriend told me he had exs try to do that to him and he wouldn't let them n I better never try it.
    One night we were drunk n I just started tickling his butt while I was going down on him. He seemed to like it n seemed like he wanted more so I fingered his ass lol.
    And a lot of times when we have sex he wants it.

    • he must be luky to have u :P

    • Lol yea we have some fun. I fucking love him!!

  • First off, I must admit that I love the wording of this question. It's hilarious.
    It seems to me like he wants to give it a try. He is subtly introducing the idea to you. So take matters to your own hands! Pun sort of intended.

    • into*

  • Give it a try! I was dating a guy that liked to lick my ass and it was the first time I had anything done to my ass it felt weird at first but I warmed up to it. I'm sure you will too.

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  • First off, I love this question.
    Second off, maybe he's suddenly very curious.

  • Wait until he's just about to come and insert 2 well lubed, nails trimmed fingers up his ass. I used to love taking a couple of ice cubes that had partially melted and were soft and just as she was coming, push 2 or 3 deep into her ass.

  • I say give it a try. You may like it, but he definitely will. The issue is a lot of guys (and girls) think that if a guy receives anal play, he's somehow gay. This isn't reality, but is something to contend with.

  • before looking your age i thought you were 35+

  • The title of this question is my favorite ever.

    • This whole question is my favorite ever.

    • New to the site. It said something catchy lol

  • It's a good feeling. My ex did that to me and she was just messing around whole we were having sex and Wow. . It felt good, lol

  • Try it but make sure you use lots of lube you both might like having something up your anus one of you might or nether of you might but have fun with it and shower before and after.

  • I don't want any fingers in my butt and I don't want my fingers in anyone's butt

  • Sounds like he wants to do it to you. Like he said.

  • saw the title

    was not disappointed

  • He probably has been watching anal p*rn videos and now desires to try to get you into anal sex. Look if he's not ready to take fingers up his ass than why should you?

  • I love anal fingering with a HJ or BJ.

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