First BJ ever, please give advice?

[Anonymous]

First BJ of my life tonight, and I'm excited and nervous. He cleard his very busy schedule to see me tonight. He said I love you, but it was unclear if he was ready or it just spilt out. I love him, and ended up on vacation on his birthday so I missed that opportunity too. He tried to give up his Superbowl plans to see me, but I had a wedding shower to go to, so it wouldn't of worked. Anyway I'm intimidated, and a bit nervous/anxious. I want it to be amazing, but even just good is enough for me, I just don't want to be horrible.

[kittycat119]

Well u must know don't use your teeth. I think the best thing I could tell u is b comfortable and breath out of your nose. Make sure his penis is super wet (even if u have to lick and spit on it) the spit keeps from hurting him. Try slowly licking the tip and flicking your tongue over the hole at the top, then after he starts to enjoy it slowly start to take him n2 your mouth going deeper every time u pull out, but make sure u r using your hand to slowly jerk him off as well. But don't forget to every so often to just pulll out completly and then start to slowly lick each side this way u make sure to get everywhere and it keeps him wet. And if u r feeling daring take each of his testicles n2 your mouth and gently suck on them while slowly stroking his penis or suck him off while gently rubbing them guys love it. Also before u even start 2 blow him, u could start by slowly trailing kisses down from his chest 2 his stomach. And then eventually make it 2 the inside of his thighs, making sure to not touch his penis just yet. Make him beg for it and want you. The idea is to make him need you to touch him. And when he's panting and wanting it all of a sudden take him into your mouth. That'll definitely shock him and excite him. Then slowly lick up the sides of his penis to get it nice and wet, and make sure to hold eye contact while doing it and make little moaning noises. He'll love it. Then just continue to slowly take him in your mouth while gently stroking his penis as you go in and out. And if you're comfortable with it take his testicles in your hands and play with them. Or take one in your mouth and gently suck on it while stroking his penis. And just very the speed you do this at depending on his reactions

That's my go to and it makes my guy cum everytime. If u need more advice feel free to message me

[ok359]

Yea most important dont use teeth OUCH XD lol

[Asker]

^This thank you

[kittycat119]

Welcome

[MlleCake]

So, this is your first time, and there are some things that come with practice and experience that you won't be able to do. But he'll appreciate your efforts.

The most important thing is, you need to control the action so you can keep from gagging and scraping with your teeth. You can go really slow and it still feels fantastic.

You may not have the stamina to complete it, so have some silicone lube on hand to use if you want to switch to using your hands. Your jaw will ache, and you can stop when it gets unpleasant for you, and do some hand work, then come back to the BJ when your jaw is feeling better.

You do not have to let him shove your head. He can use his words and ask if you can take him deeper.

You do not have to let him pull your hair or try to control your head with your hair.

You do not have to deepthroat. (And anyone who would expect that in a first BJ is an idiot.)

You may both find you want to have sex. It's not uncommon. So, have some condoms with you just in case.

[Asker]

We probably will, as that is usually how our nights we plan like this go. He has no idea I wanna give him a blow job. We are prepared with our birth control routine.

[MlleCake]

Oh, and the both of you should have a shower before hitting the sheets. His crotch probably gets a little ripe in his pants and underwear all day.

[KatherineJ]

Communication!
Have fun
Play with it
If you start being uncomfortable stop

[prosciutto]

Treat his dick like you are absolutely enamored by it. Give long, caring licks. Rub the underside of the head on your lips. Let it rest against your face while you tongue and suck on his balls. You don't have to go crazy with the deep throat. Really draw things out. When you want him to cum, grab the base of his dick, squeezing firmly but not too hard. Then synchronize your hand and your head bobbing as if you are fucking him with your mouth and hand. Guys aren't super complicated. We appreciate when girls enjoy themselves giving us head though. Finally, do your best to swallow. It's super hot, and it feels a lot better to cum inside a girl than outside of her. If you're scared to have him shoot his load down your throat, let him cum on your lips then lick them clean. Men are incredibly visual, so the more stuff you show him, the more impressed he will be

[Toronto92]

sounds like you’ve done it before 😭

[prosciutto]

No, my girlfriend just takes care of me. I know what I like lol

[Toronto92]

rite..

[Asker]

^All I wanna do is take care

[Toronto92]

then go balls deep 🤣

[Asker]

I don't know if I can, I mean he is a huge person 6'5" and his hands are the size of my face... balls deep I'll be happy is I manage to keep teeth out completely, don't gag or some other horrible thing, and satisfy him

[Toronto92]

honestly just give it your all any guy will go ham for that, he’ll probably wanna flip you around after 😏

[prosciutto]

As I said, don't worry about going crazy with deepthroating. Ignore this guy. His blowjob experience is probably limited to porn. Good head doesn't have to involve you gagging and drooling with runny mascara.

[Steve37]

My advice:
1. Be careful with teeth... use your lips to keep your teeth away from his dick
2. Lots of tongue, especially around the head
3. Light suction
4. Moderate lip and tongue pressure
5. Use your hands... up and down his shaft and if he responds favorably, on his balls
6. Don't try to deepthroat unless you've practiced with something first... choking isn't sexy. But if you are able to deepthroat, DO IT!
7. Have a plan for the cum. Decide what you are going to do before the moment of truth. Swallow, spit or have him shoot somewhere else, but it will go smoother if you know what you are going to do beforehand.
8. Have fun and follow his lead. Hopefully he tells you what feels good to him.

Hope this helps... have a blast!!!

[Asker]

lots of help.. I don't want to ask him where he wants to cum, should I just prepare to swallow and go with whatever he choses?

[Steve37]

I've never known a guy to complain if a girl swallowed. If you are willing, go with that. Be prepared though... some guys shoot more cum than your mouth can hold. You may need to take more than one gulp to keep it from coming out of your mouth. By the way, I think it's so awesome that you care enough to prepare for this so he's pleased. You're pretty awesome!

[Steve37]

I forgot to mention eye contact. If you can make eye contact while doing it, it will drive him crazy!

[Asker]

Aww you guys are so nice, like who wouldn't want to make your partner happy?

[Steve37]

With their first time, I think more girls are worried about how it will taste or if they'll choke. Not as many are worried about making it awesome for their guy.

[Asker]

Well I'm worried about choking, but it's not the end of the world.. I can't imagine it could taste that bad.. and it's not like it's a chore.. the whole point is to make it a nice thing

[Steve37]

Just don't take it too deep and ask him to tell you when he's going to cum and you shouldn't have to worry about choking. To take off some of the pressure, just know that from a guys perspective, even a "bad" blowjob is fantastic!

[AustinMan]

Blow jobs tips from a deep throat queen ↗

[AlexDelux]

Avoid the teeth

[Slayer119]

It's a BJ he won't complain

[Asker]

What if it sucks (not in the good way) What would make it bad/good?

[Slayer119]

Well, first, that's what a BJ is, sucking, and second I don't think you can give a bad one

[Anonymous]

Uhhm what about talkin with him while doin that i would say do it like this and that when no complains im Silent and enjoy
Aww that is cute how important it is for you to please him

[Asker]

He is special, and I want him to feel that way

[Opinion Owner]

Yea just talk like this and lmao i love when a girl has my dick in her mouth and tries to talk

[Anonymous]

Honestly it's hard to be bad at a BJ lol, just keep switching up yo style ya know, add some rotational motion don't just go in and out, throw in some tongue play and spit and some eye contact and your off to the Olympics honey.