First date is this too slutty?

First date is this too slutty?
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Guys he called me a slut today after i msged him is that slutty?
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Superb Opinion

  • Depends on what you are going for. If your goal is to have sex, then obviously not. If your goal is to tease him, then it would work. If your goal is to have him thinking about sex as little as possible because you want to get to know each other, then yes.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I've never seen that style before. Personally I don't think so, but there will be some that do. There will always be some. Not going to make everyone happy lol. If you don't want to risk it, maybe for the first date wear a "normal" top and get a feel for the guy. Then maybe on the second or third date try that one.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well one thing for sure, the guy will be expecting sex when you wear something like that. By the looks of it you may be looking for that hookup too.

  • I would say so yes. It would give the guy and others the impression that you want sex, and it will be those guys that you will attract.

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  • The underboob is a bit much. But I'm sure he won't complain. Lol.

  • Do you want an actual relationship with this person or are you fine just being a sex object?

    • I wanna lose my virginity.

    • Well then that's the right outfit for that. Makes you look like you have nothing to offer other than your vagina.

    • Oh k :\ so too late to change tho

  • Yes, especially for your age. The boob window is very slutty for a 16-17 year old. Where's your parents at?

    • Her date was probably her dad's buddy.

    • They probably left her at the altar all right that's enough jokes out of me. And Daniela I should disagree with you cuz you are a angry feminist but actually I've seen that pattern play out a few people have confirmed that statistic.

  • Girl, you're under 18 🤣

    • And?

  • I hate the "slutty" characterization.

    The top is very sexy. Maybe too sexy for most settings. My recommendation is to consider what other women would be wearing in the same setting. If you're going to a club, dancing you may be fine. If you're going to a restaurant, I'm sure you'll be the only one wearing something that glamorous. In that context, it isn't difficult to imagine how the other diners will react. That attention may not be welcome. Particularly on a first date.

  • No that's super cute!

  • Ideal for a date on a street corner.

  • Not appropriate top for a girl who's under eighteen to be wearing.

    • Sorry :/

  • Just be yourself. If he isn't happy with that, than he's not the man for you.

    You look fabulous.

  • Mmmmmm. Not exactly slutty, but it is risqué for a first date, and for your age, yeah.

  • It's none if that's what you're comfortable wearing, if I was sitting across the table from you on the first date, the only thing I'd be looking at your tits

    • Is what slutty

    • Meh msging him for rounds 2

    • Why would you want a date a dude that said you looked slutty unless that's a turn-on for you

  • Nah too shitty.

    That sort of casual wear is not a good first impression.

  • If you have to ask, your instincts have already given you the answer.

  • If you feel comfortable, then don't worry :)

  • It looks like you really want this guy well that's the way to keep him thats the way they're doing it nowadays. hey Mom can I keep this one?

  • I said no, but it depends on the venue.

  • For a first date, maybe

    • Okay.

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  • Yes it is too slutty

  • No I love that top❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥you look good girl

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