First date is this too slutty?

[Anonymous]

[Godsvengeance]

Depends on what you are going for. If your goal is to have sex, then obviously not. If your goal is to tease him, then it would work. If your goal is to have him thinking about sex as little as possible because you want to get to know each other, then yes.

[Anonymous]

I've never seen that style before. Personally I don't think so, but there will be some that do. There will always be some. Not going to make everyone happy lol. If you don't want to risk it, maybe for the first date wear a "normal" top and get a feel for the guy. Then maybe on the second or third date try that one.

[Daniela1982]

Well one thing for sure, the guy will be expecting sex when you wear something like that. By the looks of it you may be looking for that hookup too.

[Passion_Devil]

I would say so yes. It would give the guy and others the impression that you want sex, and it will be those guys that you will attract.

[OpenClose]

The underboob is a bit much. But I'm sure he won't complain. Lol.

[Prettygurl12]

Do you want an actual relationship with this person or are you fine just being a sex object?

[Asker]

I wanna lose my virginity.

[Prettygurl12]

Well then that's the right outfit for that. Makes you look like you have nothing to offer other than your vagina.

[Asker]

Oh k :\ so too late to change tho

[MCheetah]

Yes, especially for your age. The boob window is very slutty for a 16-17 year old. Where's your parents at?

[Daniela1982]

Her date was probably her dad's buddy.

[yofuknutz]

They probably left her at the altar all right that's enough jokes out of me. And Daniela I should disagree with you cuz you are a angry feminist but actually I've seen that pattern play out a few people have confirmed that statistic.

[Prettygirly26]

Girl, you're under 18 🤣

[Asker]

And?

[SamIam96]

I hate the "slutty" characterization.

The top is very sexy. Maybe too sexy for most settings. My recommendation is to consider what other women would be wearing in the same setting. If you're going to a club, dancing you may be fine. If you're going to a restaurant, I'm sure you'll be the only one wearing something that glamorous. In that context, it isn't difficult to imagine how the other diners will react. That attention may not be welcome. Particularly on a first date.

[Gochogirl]

No that's super cute!

[EmmaMary]

Ideal for a date on a street corner.

[StephanieGirl75]

Not appropriate top for a girl who's under eighteen to be wearing.

[Asker]

Sorry :/

[ManOnFire]

Mmmmmm. Not exactly slutty, but it is risqué for a first date, and for your age, yeah.

[jshm2]

Nah too shitty.

That sort of casual wear is not a good first impression.

[20yearsolder]

It's none if that's what you're comfortable wearing, if I was sitting across the table from you on the first date, the only thing I'd be looking at your tits

[20yearsolder]

Is what slutty

[Asker]

Meh msging him for rounds 2

[20yearsolder]

Why would you want a date a dude that said you looked slutty unless that's a turn-on for you

[slatyb]

Just be yourself. If he isn't happy with that, than he's not the man for you.

You look fabulous.

[HawkPerception]

Dress how you want. You're attractive. Flaunt it if you want. You will definitely have him eyeing you though. As long as you don't mind that you're good to go.

[HawkPerception]

Is what slutty? Your outfit? Not in my opinion lol

[HawkPerception]

I mean if I was in his position, I'd respect you for being up front and asking. You know you want to, so I see no issue with it. If he's disrespecting you for being straight up with him, then that's his loss. On to better prospects. You should always just do what feels right to you.

[Sixgunsound]

If you have to ask, your instincts have already given you the answer.

[Katya98]

If you feel comfortable, then don't worry :)

[yofuknutz]

It looks like you really want this guy well that's the way to keep him thats the way they're doing it nowadays. hey Mom can I keep this one?

[TheMajesticKing777]

For a first date, maybe

[Asker]

Okay.

[Dargil]

I said no, but it depends on the venue.

[JoyGirl]

🚪 🚶🏾‍♀️

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes it is too slutty

[Walamagicc]

No I love that top❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥you look good girl

[exitseven]

No, it is just slutty enough.

[Asker]

So its okay.

[exitseven]

yes😀😀😀😀

[Asker]

Ok (:

[elizamichale1]

No not really
It just says u r bold n confident of urself

[Jojolicious_w]

Yes, even more for an underage...

[Massageman]

Mmmmmm, yes- save it for date 4 or 5.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re well on your way to becoming a single mother

[Asker]

How so?

[Danny_dan92]

You’re a minor, dress and carry yourself like a grown woman, and are already dating… that’s why

[FinalFantasyBro]

I recommend you should try wearing an actual shirt save that for like date four or five or you know if you are dating at the beach or water park.

[gabby100]

Very nice, but a little too much..

[gabby100]

To your update. He may have called you a slut, but i think he liked the photo..

[Iron_Man]

I guess it’s OK

[Asker]

So no?

[Iron_Man]

It’s pushing the boundaries

[Asker]

Ok :/ sorry.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t be sorry it’s okay you’re learning it

[Iron_Man]

I am so sorry I didn’t know that you’re under 18 never paid attention to the age just now looked No you better not wear that

[Asker]

Too late :/

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean too late are you saying that you already worn it on your date?

[Iron_Man]

Or if you already bought it take it back that’s not appropriate at your age

[Asker]

Already on the date.

[Iron_Man]

You are on the date right now let me talk to the fellow and tell him to mind his manners kidding

[Iron_Man]

What the heck? That was supposed to be a date what are you talking about

[Iron_Man]

Hopefully you’re trolling me

[Iron_Man]

😡….

[Asker]

What?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that will give off the wrong message and make you look desperate too.

[Staximus]

I don't know why girls wear these type of shirts. Trendy or not, out in public everybody is just going to think bad things about you when you wear a shirt like that. Why would you invite that kind of bad treatment into your life?

[crmoore]

For me, yes. For others, maybe not. It just depends on the type of guy you're seeing.

[crmoore]

It's a little slutty but not as bad as overt sluts lol. I'm not saying I suggest you go out that way, but I don't necessarily view being slutty as a bad thing. (I'm not into slutty girls, though, just saying that there's nothing wrong with it)

[oldermale]

Nice top 😊

[Asker]

Thanks

[oldermale]

Your welcome 😉 you look very nice

[Asker]

Thank u (:

[oldermale]

😚..

[oldermale]

🤣🤣🤣🖕🖕🖕

[MysteriousDarkness]

@oldermale You directed two emojys (😉, 😚) to her that mean 1. May signal a joke, flirtation, hidden meaning, or general positivity. Most will take it as flirtation. 2. Commonly conveys sentiments of romantic love and affection. You are 53 years old and she is a minor you creep.

[DWornock]

That depends on the crowd she runs around with.

[Asker]

Huh?

[DWornock]

Is her crowd a Hell's Angels motorcycle gang or the Church of Latter Day Saints? That is not to slutty for the first but might be for the second.

[Gollum]

Looks cute.

[YesIWouldLikeFries]

Depends. What vibe are you going for?

Me personally I wouldn't mind it. Shows just enough but leaves more to the imagination.

Just be aware he will look. Multiple times. And it may distract him from the conversation...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's a bit edgy but not that bad. It looks good.

[boobliker]

you can show boobs or legs never both it look fine too.

[Pudsmucker]

To much show. It give out wrong signals for first date.

[RuthlessAggression]

So what happened with the date

[Nigjt]

I say no because ur only trying to show that person what ur working with so for me an I being with u it's a no.
Now someone else might think so I don't know.
God Bless

[Asker]

Ok thanks.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@nigjt Way to imagine yourself being on a date with a minor.

[Nigjt]

Ok well if ur now going to play the minor thing then u need to be one an also tell the truth about ur age because it say on here ur age is 18 not 17 so ur either lying about being 18 witch make's a minor or ur not now for the last part. I never said that I wanted u because it's obvious and the way you talk that your brain is not mature enough so please stop dressing like a hoe. God Bless

[Nigjt]

Oh buy the way that was for only the person who call's them self mysterious Darkness at the age of 50 . I do apologize to the other one who is anonymous that said ok thank's. But the mysterious Darkness one is an asshole. God Bless

[Nigjt]

Yes a little. God Bless

[IsoUser]

If you're meeting his parents for the first time at a formal dinner party, definitely way too Slutty LMFAO

[TallAnon]

No, looks cute.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Not just for dating but in general. But if anyone really likes to argue that they can wear whatever they want or if they think boobs isn't sexual. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have a problem if anyone compliments their hair, their face or clothes but would also make a big deal if their boobs get complemented.

[Paul09]

As long as you know you are dating immature horny boys, not men lol

[In_Trance]

Fuck ya

[Asker]

Ok sorry.

[OddBeMe]

Yeah, but in a good way. Wait are you under age? Put on some clothes young lady!

[anastasiank84]

lol.

[Asker]

My dad doesn't care.

[OddBeMe]

Not making me feel better.

[SignedAutographs]

Daddy issues, ga-lore

[Joker_]

no..

[Guardian45]

If you can't show yours or his parents, then it's too slurry.

[CharlieDMX]

Nah. It's fine. I am assuming you live in a hot place and that is why you wear that open blouse.

[PhotonicElectrons]

What the? sure it's not on upside-down or something? I mean talk about tantalizing.

[Charliefretz329]

It’s quite revealing… it kinda sets the tone for what can be expected in the future. It really depends on what you are trying to portray! The important thing is that you be honest and yourself.

[Charliefretz329]

You are on the right path then

[Asker]

I hope so.

[Charliefretz329]

Be day

[Charliefretz329]

Be careful

[driven159]

If you're not looking for sex the first date

[Guido]

You will have his attention and eyes glued to your chest. Not appropriate for under 18.

[Asker]

Sorry.

[LinkxPeach]

Nope, your just dressing to attract him.

[NYlatefun]

You’re under 18, so yes!

[Xtendable]

No, you look great

[Xtendable]

Just seen your update. So sorry to hear he called you that. He’s deluded

[Kuressento]

For a first date be more casual.

[nik4play]

You look tidy hun

[nik4play]

No, people are just jealous

[jimmy2]

No I go have fun dear