First ever bj: should I spit, swallow or have him cum elsewhere (e. g. boobs?)?

I’ve never given head before so I don’t really know. Spitting sounds weird (useless & unattractive?) but I’ve also heard stories about girls vomiting when they tried to swallow. If it’s my first time should I just not risk it and ask him to cum on my boobs maybe?
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I also would really appreciate a short (closed mouth) kiss afterwards just to feel like I’ve done it all well - although I’d never force anything if he was against it. Would spit/swallow/ cum elsewhere affect whether he will be too disgusted to give me a short kiss?
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  • Swallowing is my favorite. Some girls just think it's gross and that's why the might vomit. As long as you don't think it's gross he'd probably love for you to swallow and then he'd probably enjoy tasting it in your mouth. It's very erotic to the guys to taste their own semen in the girls mouth.
    As in anything else, the best way to see what he wants is to ask. I let the guys do it whenever they or their friends want. Swallowing is my favorite though. It's like a reward for a job well done. Enjoy!

    • I agree!!!

  • do not spit, that'd be very mean
    swallowing is the best choise but since it's your first time i wouldn't risk it; you should make him cum somewhere else and then you can lick off what's left on his penis and swallow that (so you get to know the flavour and it won't be new once you start swallowing straight up)

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  • He can cum on your face or boobs, I wouldn't recommend you to swallow but then he can cum in your mouth and you can spit it slowly like let it run from your mouth like water. If you want to swallow, from the moment he cums, you need to swallow immediately because if you keep it longer it will be harder to swallow after. If he cums on your face or mouth don't expect him to kiss you. A lot of guy don't do it.

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  • Take it on the chest, kiss him as you want then taste it to see if you can tolerate swallowing in the future.

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  • There's no one way fits all. Try it all and see what you like. You may surprise yourself... lol

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  • I love finishing on my girlfriend. Having her swallow is awesome but I don't know I just like seeing her face coated with cum after she's given head to me. Really cute.
    Spitting sucks, never spit it's like "oh yeah, this awesome-! What? No, no it's like this? Oh, well".
    I also definitely love to kiss my girlfriend after she's been really working it. She does the same. I can taste my dick on her breath and she can taste her pussy on mine after I give her head. It's real sexy. You really know she's yours after that.

  • I love my hubby to cum in my mouth and we love to French kiss immediately after he finishes in my mouth, that gives him an instant hard on again and that way we can fuck for long time after that. Really awesome.

  • If you want you can turn away from him and spit into a kleenex, or simply let it run down his diddly do.

  • Talk ot him about your expectations and fantasies.

  • Be brave and try to swallow lol I did it my first time as well and it’s not all that bad

  • If you love him, you'll swallow. Otherwise, spit and show him how much of a worthless piece of garbage he is to you.

  • Let him spit on your face.

    • Is that a turn on?

    • Sounds strange to me...

    • Swallowing is. At least for me.

  • Swallow is what men want. pull it out so he comes on your face is second. Ask h im what he would like you to do.

  • Every guy handles the kiss after a BJ differently. I love kissing after she gives me a BJ because it feels really intimate and romantic. Plus, I think it's kinda hot to taste my cock and cum and on her breath and lips. You might want to ask him how he feels about it though. A little bit of communication will improve your first BJ considerably.

    Have him cum in your mouth, and then swirl it around for a few seconds. If you enjoy the flavor and consistency, swallow it. If you decide you aren't a fan, just let it dribble down you chin onto your breasts.

  • You can kiss him as long as you don't swallow. It he loses it on your tits or elsewhere, go ahead and kiss him. If you swallow, it's not fair to expect him to kiss you until later. Anyway, I vote that you swallow so you decide whether or not you actually like it-- lots of girls love it, some don't. You can decide that for yourself.

  • Swallow

  • Get use to the taste...

  • ask him

  • Would be easier for you if he came elsewhere, but if you feel confident then you can swallow it. But you should work more on how you do it than how you end it haha

  • I'll tell ya most guys aren't that picky where it ends up as long as we don't have it anymore

  • Swallow. Swallow. Swallow. Nothing else is worth it.

  • I'd give her a kiss after a blowjob even if she spat.
    But it's not wasteful and kind of sexy if swallowed

  • Swallow!!!

  • Swallow like a whore

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