First hookup with an Asian man

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Yes, I never hooked up with an Asian guy although I grew up in Little Tokyo district. Used to be super chubby back in high school and literally no guy ever approached me except for one of my friends (which was a disaster). During and after college, I never saw myself with an Asian guy given the vast diversity of people living outside Little Tokyo. This was until about a week ago when I started talking to this Asian guy on Tagged.com and he came off really smooth. He's 30 years old (with experience) and just moved from India (but his English vocab was ridiculously good). He wanted to try bdsm so we chatted for 3 days and talked for like 2 before deciding to hookup. He picked my outfit (that's how I knew he has perv tastes) and we planned the date.

I'll admit he did not look too attractive to me, but he was really experienced in hookups and the sort. I drove him around since he didn't have a car and had dinner at a ramen bar. Neither of us were comfortable with doing it at our homes so we chose to do it in my car. I texted my bestie to let her know where I parked in case something went wrong. We turned up the heater and moved to the back seat. Lol freaking this guy pulled out hand cuffs, thigh cuffs, feather ticklers, and vibrating gloves from his backpack. Tbh its a surprise he was this prepared for a first time Dom. I took off my jacket before we went straight into it, and boy oh boy was he more than ready.

My verdict? It was pretty good^^ I mean he was great for his first bdsm session, and not a bad kisser either. Now I can confidently say I look past stereotypes, including ones of my own men.

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EmbraceThePain Guru
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To be 100% honest, I’ve had more white and hispanic/Latina women interested in me as opposed to Asian women.
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- myTake Owner
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  I developed a negative image of Asian men in college, and that could be a reason why those women aren't as interested in you than others.
- EmbraceThePain
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  Well, that’s kind of odd. I believe China has the most amount of people right? I also believe that the most amount of couples in China are indeed of the same ethnicity or race, so technically speaking, Asian couples are more prolific than any other types of couples on the planet. Just a random cool fact that is somewhat related to this question lol. What negative image did you have of Asian men?
- myTake Owner
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  Oops I should clarify I grew up in Little Tokyo district in Los Angeles, and not the one in China lol. Like most of them are nerdy and geeky. I went to college in Fresno, and my friend circles had no Asian guys in them. The parties we went to were mostly non-Asian as well.
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- EmbraceThePain
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  Honestly, I would’ve thought it would be the reverse for me, with a ton of Asian women being more into me, but no that’s far from the truth lol. Out of 100 women that are into me, maybe a few of those would be Asian I’m guessing. It’s weird because when you think of Asian men, you usually think of someone from China, Japan, and Korea with that certain eye appearance that characterizes Asian men and women. But for me, I don’t necessarily have those eyes and my skin color is darker than those men from those countries. So, I don’t think people picture or imagine someone that looks like me when they think of “Asian.”
- myTake Owner
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  Tbh despite your complexion I think you look very Asian lol perhaps Filipino? Fresno has a pretty large Hmong population and my bestie is one. She was big on inviting all her single girlfriends to college parties, but it just so happened many Asian guys weren't into partying. Socializing more definitely helps a lot.
- EmbraceThePain
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  Yeah Filipino lmfao.

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Kezzz Xper 7
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Glad you had a good time. Especially with a guy from my country (:
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COMMODOREII Master
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Cool. Lol
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- myTake Owner
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  My Heart, My Love, My Friend ↗
  So emotional 😢
- COMMODOREII
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  Thank you. *hugs* I'd like to chat sometime if you would.
- myTake Owner
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  Sure. Pls let me know if anything ever concerns you!
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- COMMODOREII
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  Sounds nice. I would like that. ☺
Navarro26 Xper 5
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So, You're into dom guys?
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- myTake Owner
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  Yes I am.
- Navarro26
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  Okay, That's cool. I can be dom or sub depending on my mood. Femdom is my favorite.
username4h Xper 4
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Do you swallow or not?
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Anonymous
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Did he shoot his cum inside of your bare pussy? If so, what position did he fuck your pussy in?
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- myTake Owner
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  Lol of course not. That's not something I would recommend either.
- Opinion Owner
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  So you made him wear a condom? Lol. Thought maybe you were on BC
Anonymous
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He is an Asian, wasn't his dick small?
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Anonymous
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I don't care what you did
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- myTake Owner
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  No one's telling you to care anyways so...
- Opinion Owner
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  Then what was the point of this?
- myTake Owner
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  I'm sharing my personal experience for those who care about stereotypes and my experiences? If you don't care then this myTake is clearly not for you 🙄
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- Opinion Owner
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  Or you just clearly don't write them

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