First sex with him. We agreed to use condom but during sex I forgot to remind him?

We had unprotected sex. It lasted for about an hour. He's good and can hold his cum. I drank wine before being intimate with him. I forgot to remind him, did he forgot it too or he did it intentionally? I don't know where I stand to him because we only had 2 dates. He kissed me in the forehead and even kissed me good bye.
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  • Sex with a condom is far less enjoyable for a guy and he probably did this intentionally. He did not respect yor wishes because you were just an easy fuck on the second date.

    • You're right. We went on a second date just to eat. Then he walked me to my car. Then he asked if he can kiss me. I said,"Sure". Then he said if we can do more intimate things together, and said be careful not to catch feelings. The stupid me said yes. And we kissed outside my car and both of us almost got carried away. Then on the third date we made it on his apartment. He was a gentleman the whole time and made sure I'm satisfied as well as I am new to this. It just hurts. I should've said no

    • If you want a guy to respect you, then you must respect yourself. I am not telling you to not have a sexual relationship, but don't rush into that. Make sure that the guy wants a long term relationship with you and you don't have any doubt about him just wanting sex. There is an old expression, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

    • I agree with you. If there's next time for us, I'll be honest with him and tell him what I really feel. If there's no next time, I'll just fade away in silence and will never look back. I only had sex with my ex boyfriend. I only do love making and never had sex randomly. I just happened to try this and will never do it again

  • Remind him? He should know that right away unless you’re on the pill and tested recently that is something he should automatically do

    • I guess so. He did it intentionally. He even gave me a hickey on my neck. When I looked at the mirror, I was like I need to hide this

  • This isn't something you forget. Everyone is different I guess, but it would be the very first thing I'd think about, drunk or not. But I guess if you're not worried about it, maybe you'd forget? You might want to use the morning after pill?

    • It's my first hook up. I trusted him too much. I got too nervous and excited at the same time. I just went blank. I attempted to take the morning after pill but when I went to store, they were out so I felt lazy store hopping and just rely on luck. I did get a panic attack two days after sex probably from overthinking things

  • Aw this is so romantic. 🤩