First Time Seeing Him Naked?

[Anonymous]

So my bf and I have done a lot. He's fingered me and has eaten me out a lot. I haven't even seen his dick yet. We are going out tomorrow and we've talked about getting naked. He said he just doesn't want to go all the way yet. I haven't even seen his dick yet and don't know what to do. I mean like really what to do I've heard about blow jobs and hand jobs but what should I do? He said he wanted to cum all over my boobs and then maybe again in my mouth. I really want to make him feel good but what should I be doing? I want to impress him too but i've never done anything like this before. I need help and advice!

[ds84reader]

Regarding hand jobs, some sort of lubrication will make it feel much better. You could use something like jojoba oil (health food store item, it is used for massage work). Dry stroking is uncomfortable. Picture dry fingers rubbing your dry clit to sort of get it.

Regarding oral sex, personally I like a hand around the base of my penis at the same time.

Everyone is different though. Ask him what he likes. If he is relatively inexperienced he may not totally know. For using your hand, just put your hand out and say something like "show me what you like".

Impress him by being caring and honest.

[ClauseViter]

So I mean I'm no expert but you gotta get the dick out of his pants. I know this might seem a little unconventional but trust me, this is the right way to go.

[Asker]

but like should i go right away and start sucking it? or should i lick it first or rub it? I just don't want him to look down on me because I don't do things the way it should go @clauseviter

[ClauseViter]

Ya well you definitely want to be playful about it. You know progress from making out to teasing him. Then unbuckle and proceed to engage. You wanna start with hand movement sorta just get a handle of things. Then you wanna work the tip with your mouth. Don't deep throat cause wow its disguisting. Yea focus on the tip with your mouth, use your hands too. Be sure to switch up the pace. And definitely use a hot voice. Watch some actual bjs for more pointers.

[LuvGun4u]

So how did it go in the end? Did he cum for you?