I am a gay man and an exclusive bottom who just loves being fucked in the ass. The key to success is physical and mental preparation. The physical part requires a clean hole and a lot of lubrication... The mental part is about relaxing your body and your asshole. Once your hole relaxes, it can stretch beyond your wildest imagination to help take your boyfriend's cock into you...
Although not absolutely necessary, a butt-plug may also help. This has been one of my biggest helpers to stretch my hole in order to be able to accommodate guys with really thick cocks. To that end, I'd recommend starting with a small enough plug that you can wear at the beginning. But, it should still be thick enough so you can feel the walls of your asshole stretching a little. After wearing that for a few days, you can gradually move to the next larger size, and then increase the size of the plug to really thick ones that you could not have accommodated at the beginning.
This way, I've been able to really enjoy humongous cocks in my ass. I sure hope you will, as well!..
If you have other questions, feel free to ask. Good luck!..
A plug isn't necessary, but you will need lube.
I'd recommend picking up a small enema kit aswell. Which, after using should leave you clean, for the most part.
You may want to use it a few times in succession, until the water you push out is as clear as it was when it went in.
Wait 20 minutes after using it - trust me, you think you're empty the first time, you're not.
Use a proper enema product or just regular water. Do not use any sort of non-enema soap. You won't sit right for days.
Yours, faithfully, GAGs resident degenerate.
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Do a poop first and make sure its firm. Buy some good quality lube not water based as it dries too fast. Get him to finger your ass with 2 lubed fingers to get the lube deep into your ass. I do like butt plugs but find they aren't necessary.
You shouldn't have to do "prep" work before... a simple bowel movement should be enough.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Plugs are definitely a good start. You can start small and work up. Where it under your close for a while each day. It will not only get easier but, you may coe to find you enjoy feeling it throughout your day. As for cleaning, you can by a home enema kit. Use lube on the plugs and during sex. When you are inserting the plugs or him, try pushing out and relax as he pushes in. Ihope this hhelps.
Get an enema kit or a douche, and clean yourself out with it, shower, and you should be good to go, otherwise just use a soapy finger. You don't NEED a plug no, although some beginner ass play beforehand will definitely help. You don't want to immediately start taking the cock. Work your way up, starting with one finger, then two. Make sur e to use PLENTY of lube, reapplying every so often, and take it slow! Patience is key to enjoyable anal.
you don´t need a plug but you definitely need some lube.
to clean your ass out you can buy a douche or you can just unscrew the showerhead and direct the water stream up your ass. be sure to have it as warm as you´d have a baby bottle and not too much pressure (if you can direct the stream under your tongue without discomfort, it´s not too strong). and just put water up there, go to the toilet and shit everything out and rinse and repeat... untill only clear water comes back out.
now for the actual anal: use lots of lube. also only let him use one finger at first till you get used to it. then two fingers. go slow. at some point you may feel some pain. just stop and wait. that´s your muscles complaining. when it subsides, you can go again and it will very likely not hurt again.
finally: if there´s very little blood, there´s no reason to worry but you should stop anyhow and wait for a whole weak till you try it again.
ps.: if you have hemorrhoids, then don´t do anal at all.
you'll need to train your ass to handle something inside of it. use plenty of lube. first get used to having your fingers inside your ass. next get an anal plug and start wearing it around so you can get used to the feeling. after that you should be ready just remember lots of lube and take it slow.
for him to be very gentle anyway you do it you can clean yourself out but still needs to be gentle this not a rough thing in the beginning more than likely he will get very excited and hurt you communication all the way
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