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  • safe words and don't try any of the hard-core stuff.
    Watch some bondage porn and see what you/partner are into.
    Edging can be fun, your partner can't do a thing about it, you keep getting them so close to cumming but then stop.
    After a while, you can make it last as long as you want to, you finally let them cum, but just remember whatever you do to them will possibly be done to you or worse when it is your turn to be tied up.
    My wifes record is 7 orgasms in 1 session, she was a wreck after the last few, couldn't even talk in full sentences near the end, but she didn't have a choice on it.
    She also likes being tickled esp when she is cumming, she says it makes her orgasms much stronger as it stimulates even more nerves, but it is hard for her to hold still when being tickled so bondage comes in handy for that so she can be tickled and have the vibrator used on her at the same time.
    You might find that either one of you enjoy being the sub or dom, or both, so as you progress you will figure it out.

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  • Safeword (ALWAYS!). Typical

    RED = stop everything now. Yellow - brief break to ask for something different, Green - back to playing.

    Find out what they and you like. (you can make a list, or go to mojoupgrade site or something). People can have very different ideas of what is fun bondage. Is it being tied up and having sex? Tied up and punished? dominated? Is it being teased extremely? Play-rape? All of these are completely fine as long as both people enjoy them.

    All good fun, but it will be much more fun if you are on the same page.

    Finally, remember that this sort of game is done for the sub, not for the dom.

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  • Take boundaries seriously…. the goal is to have fun, not have a painful experience ( at least that’s my goal)

  • Safety first, always keep scissors or knife ready.

    Use soft fabrics or soft rope, you don't want injuries, and never ever use wire.

    Stop whenever either one isn't comfortable

  • Make sure you have a safe word, and don't be afraid to use it if you two are doing something that's too uncomfortable.

    For your first time, I'm assuming you're going to tie him up so he can't move while you pleasure him. Make sure the bonds aren't too tight. Tease him all over his body, make the session last.

    If you're the one being tied up, same thing for him to do to you.

    Remember that the body has many erogenous zones. Feel free to find tyem.

  • It may not be a popular opinion but I think it needs to organic rather than scripted otherwise it is boring. I have seen it written that you should have a safe word when having sex in missionary which is pretty stupid in my view. NO meaning stop you're hurting me is really different to NO meaning keep on doing it.

  • Have a safe word?

  • Be careful and have a safe word and make a list both of you things you dont want and things you want to try..

  • Make a safeword. It should not be "harder".

  • wdym any tips?

  • Know each others boundaries think of a safe word then ask Google

  • My girlfriend who is 42 wants to do that. She told me a romantic one. WTF is that. So I did what I thought of was romantic in sexting it not quite this kind

  • ready for experiments. make proper plan.

  • Discuss limits in advance and have a safe word.