First time with FWB, would it be OK to wear lingerie?

I've never really had sex with my FWB, mostly what we did was make out. We've agreed to become friends with benefits though. Would it be OK for me to wear lingerie in a color he thinks is sexy the next time we meet? Or should I just wear my usual big sleep shirt, nothing special?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think the really great thing about FWB is that you can do whatever you want. You don't have to explain yourself, you don't have to wonder if he will like whatever you're doing, because who cares? You get to be however you want because this isn't a relationship. If you want to do lingerie because you feel like it, DO IT. I f you want to entertain him with your hair in rollers and a mudmask on, DO IT. You're not trying to impress him, right? This is an arrangement- the terms are already set forth which means you can do what you want as long as you honor the agreement. He doesn't get to feel any kind of way about a damn thing, and neither do you. You both get to put as much or as little effort in as you choose. It's all according to your whim... and this is why I like the FWB thing. Because I don't have to worry about Dude;s feelings- that's not my job. It's not his job to worry about mine. Our jobs are to f*** each other real good and then go away until it's time to Do It again. AWESOME.

  • Maybe I'm dense but why wouldn't you? I mean if you're comfortable enough to have him as your sex buddy, I don't see why there should be any sort of restrictions on what you wear. It's sex, so wear what you're comfortable with and what turns him on. I mean it's what I'd do!

  • No, don't do the lingerie. That's only for the special ones. lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wear what make you feel sexy. If you like wearing a sleep shirt then that's enough. If you want to feel sexy, and if you want to tease him so you make him horny for you, then sex it up all the way. It doesn't seem like he's terribly aggressive so he probably won't rip things off you, so go for it :)

  • It's quite okay. After all, you're wearing it for the sake of sex

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  • stick to normal stuff.

  • Stay with what you know

  • yes, sex it up