For all the couples in the lifestyle, and are still married or together, describe your best sex event ever?

BBC date night? MFM? Cuck the hubs? Long term relationship? Orgy, gangbang, swinger club? What is the best part of your lifestyle experience? Did it happen once? Is it something you do often or continue to do? Tell us your favorite experience in the lifetyle. Not really interested in couples that broke up, just those that are still together.
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  • My best sexual event ever.
    It was with a dance hall working girl. I did not have intercourse with her but had an enjoyable time none the less.

    I was on R&R in an exotic, East Asian country and acquired her time for a bath, massage and some oral therapy. She looked a like this. She was cheerful, efficient and a decade or so older than I was at the time.

    For all the couples in the lifestyle, and are still married or together, describe your best sex event ever?

    I was fighting fatigue and lack of sleep and the warm bath relaxed me. When she started "therapy", I got good and hard but then, I wasn't progressing. She tried some quick technique changes but I was running up on time and beginning to lose my boner. I tried to help out by streaming fantasies, but nothing was working. Not good.

    But then for the first time in my experience, she introduced anal/prostate fingering to the blow job. She was obviously very skilled at it. After my initial puckering surprise, my arousal rocketed up and I quickly rolled into strongest, body bending orgasm of my life to this day. After I came, I was in a daze and would have fallen dead asleep if she didn't have to end the session and see me out. I shuffled back to my room and slept for 12 hours. It was the best $40 I ever spent and I have zero guilt or regrets, just fond memories

    As it stands now, my SO is East Asian and I have introduced my sexual experience into my lifestyle. We do not role play, but sexually it is much the same except we have intercourse, I lead with oral on her either to get blown or as foreplay for intercourse.

    For the record, she does not know about my prior experience.

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  • Been married going towards 12 years now, but my wife and I are both quite vanilla and might bore you if you're interested in things like orgies and swingers. We're both deeply monogamous in terms of our values and ideals and skewed towards the romantic end that wants to see sex as something more abstract and poetic than "hard dicks pounding wet pussies" although that's certainly a pleasurable component but maybe not how we form our deepest memories and affections towards each other.

    Maybe the best sex I've ever had was with my very first love (third serious girlfriend). It wasn't my wife which might sound bad but my wife did match it. Yet I remember it's like I leaned down to kiss her at the exact same time she leaned up to kiss me from below, and we bumped heads and laughed and both, as if to jinx each other, asking if the other was okay at the exact same time. It's kind of like a feeling of completing each other's sentences, not through repetition but more like you're thinking the exact same things.

    I had a similar thing with my wife. The greatest moments for me were like that and less about the physical side, although it made the physical side a hundred times more pleasurable to me. It doesn't sound so hot and sexy the way I describe it but it's like I remember the smiles and laughs and sentiments more than I remember bodies grinding into each other. I always saw sex as the most intimate form of communication and so the best sex I ever had in my life was on par with the best verbal conversations.

    I am still a bit of a caveman inside though, so don't get me wrong thinking I'm all about missionary positions looking into each other's eyes all night and feeding each other cheesy romantic lines. My favorite position is actually doggy, but I tend to use that as a finisher rather than a starter.

    • As for continuing this, it's not quite as often as our honeymoon phase in the first few years. Yet I find it happening here and there on Holidays, vacations, things of this nature. My wife and I both seem to get most deeply connected through each other when we're going on adventures together.

    • As for the type of things you describe, I don't judge since I think whatever makes a couple mutually happy is good for their relationship! I also had this kind of side when I started out dating where I was so excited undressing new girls, seeing their bodies, seeing them trust me with that sort of vulnerability that accompanies it, and maybe even taking some pleasure in the idea of "conquest". But I found through that third girlfriend I described above that it made sex meaningful to me in ways I never thought before. I think it made me realize that I crave intimacy above all else.

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  • This is extremely difficult to answer. We do mostly hotwife and cucking. For me, anytime the lifestyle accidentally spills over into real life it's a rush. If I had to pick one single time though... It would probably be the first time we had an extremely dominant bull that cucked my husband for real. The look of jealousy and desire on his face made me insanely wet.

    • Luv luv luv it!

  • Being the center of attention with my husband and his buddy, in a hot tub.

    • Wonderful and agree...

    • I don't think you can talk about the "lifestyle" on this vanilla site. lol You will get nothing but hate.

    • Well, this post started off okay. Still looking to exchange with like minded people

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  • BBC stand for British Broadcasting Company? And what is this lifestyle you are referring to? Hagami, swingers, wife and husband swapping? Extramarital explorations?

  • It was the first time when I became totally comfortable with her kinks that that she asked me to do to her and things she wanted to do to me. It wasn't the first time we indulged each other, but, when we got it right was awesome.

  • It's always fun to have sex with others gfs & wife's... I'm secret sexual partner with couple of married woman. Married woman & oldies best on bed. 😘

  • Wifey and I are into the Fetish scene ( Latex, BDSM, Swing, FRR) must say best part of the "life" is when you find a "partner" you can share it with, and (low-key seeing how many locals you bump into 😉). We indulge frequently. My fave experience happens often, L, L&L parties are a blast get to see nice couples show casing the goods lol

  • My girlfriend usually is involved when i have sex with other girls or she isn't at all. This time she sat in the corner and watched. I could see her go back and forth between jealous and angry to really turned on. It was super hot.

    My girlfriend is super easy to please though, as long as i tell her explicitly what i want, she's very service oriented so she then wants to do that. She always cleans me afterwards and often cooks for me and my dates.

    Weve been together 1 year and I've had sex with three different girls. One i was seeing for like 6 whole months multiple times a week. One i was dating for about 2 months. One was a ONS basically.

  • Honestly I'd want to try the cuck thing, sometimes I'd want to watch, other times I'd want to participate, I think it my be hot.

  • I love to swing so any of those experiences would be the best ever. Specifically one time where all the other guys wanted to have a turn with me and by the end of the night when all the other girls were satisfied I had my very own gangbang :)

    • Mmmmm let's go sweetie, love it! Thanks for sharing!

    • Of course <3

  • We don't really have much difference, but we had sex after 8 months (had a baby recently) 3 days back and that was awesome, it was we were waiting to pounch on each other.

    • yummy thank you! :)

    • Anytime dear 😊

  • I fucked my wife's sister, then came home and fucked my wife without even showering in between. I did that a few times, it turned me on to have my wife suck my cock after it was in her sister's ass.

    • I don't believe you, your poor wife... but it does sound hot! :)

    • It was easy her sister is a total slut, she was always flirting with me. She wasn't as pretty as my wife and she was always jealous of our marriage. She got a thrill out of fucking her sister's husband. I just enjoyed all the extra sex and I felt awesome having them both. It was exciting to get away with it. I felt so free and untouchable. I wanted my cock to be dirty when I fucked my wife. I think she knew I was cheating and found it hot, but she didn't know I was fucking her sister.

    • My kind of couple