If a guy wants to cum on your face does that mean he just sees you as sex object? Is it possible to let a guy do that but also have a relationship or is it just a thrill and they will move on?
I'll say this for the hundred thousandth time - never base how a man feel about you by his behavior in the bedroom. How a man feels about you is reflected in how he treats you OUTSIDE the bedroom. If a man only thinks of you as a human sex toy, his behavior towards you outside the bedroom will make that very apparent very quickly, provided you actually pay attention and aren't completely in denial about obvious red flags. Likewise, if he has real feelings for you, his behavior towards you outside the bedroom will make THAT readily apparent also.
INSIDE the bedroom, things change. It's private. People have secret desires and kinks and find things exciting that they don't want publicly known. And as long as everyone involved consents, that's perfectly fine - and it doesn't reflect his feelings for you overall.
Example: my last girlfriend definitely liked things rough and kinky - and often REALLY rough. If you were to have seen us in the bedroom, you might have come away with the impression that I was an awful, cruel, abusive guy - unless she was being vocal or you were paying close attention to her facial expressions and nods. I was doing things to her that she LOVED, that made her cum, and that she desperately wanted and needed, and regularly told me so. She would download kinky BDSM videos and would be so excited to show me what she wanted me to do to her - "just like this girl."
Yet, if you saw us together outside of the bedroom, what you'd probably notice is that we were very physically close. If we had people over and the limited seating was mostly full, she would rather sit on my lap, or on the floor in front of me, rather than sit in a chair across the room, so she could be within my touch. We constantly held hands. On our free days, we went everywhere together. I went with her to get her hair done, and she came with me to get new tires or an oil change.
Which do you think spoke more to how I felt about her - my "in-the-bedroom" behavior, or my "outside-the-bedroom" behavior?
Now, here's something else: a facial for her WAS degrading - and that's what she LOVED about it. But at the same time, she loved to be "marked" by me that way - to have that "symbol of ownership, and being possessed" on her face. She didn't worry about me feeling "less" about her, because my behavior outside the bedroom showed that I didn't. And that allowed her to trust me, and thus to allow herself to let out her kinks, and to be shameless in front of me, knowing she wouldn't be judged.
I have no idea how your guy feels about you, or what he's thinking - you'll have to figure that out - but if you didn't before, you should now have the ability to figure it out. And there's nothing wrong with sitting down with him and having a conversation - I had those with my girl too.
I love my girlfriend more than anything, also I love to fuck her like slave. It's a link and Cumming on her face gives such a dominant feel to me and she loves it.
That makes me feel better because we were building something and I am willing to do try anything. I just don’t want to be tossed to the side
Guys are disproportionately attached to their cum. Most guys are very obsessed with where it lands, what happens with it afterwards, how she treats it etc etc.
Most guys have one or more preferred ways to deliver their cum. If you do with it how he prefers you will own his heart and soul (and cum) forever.
Some guys, yes, love to cum on the face of their girl. Just don't get it in the eye for God's sake
But I don't think you can say it's degrading or he'll move on. He probably likes the face. Some guys love if you swallow it. Some guys have certain preferences for HOW you swallow. Again guys love their cum.
Very good answer. Not only is it "possible" to have a relationship while having your guy cum on your face, if that's what he's into and the way he prefers to cum, then allowing him will indeed likley strengthen the relationship. A good honest guy will definitly appreciate a partner that fullfils his needs and expectations in bed.
Tricky question. Depends on the guy. Guys get off on exerting sexual dominance over us and facials are part of that. The degrading nature of it is what’s erotic to them. Mature guys can have a healthy loving relationship with a woman who does naughty things in the bedroom. However, there are some guys out there who maintain this outdated notion of their partner being a “good girl” and will only engage in things like facials with girls they aren’t serious about. So you’ll just have to discern what kind of guy you have there. I would hold off on it until you’re a little more sure about his intentions.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, you can let him cum on your face and still have/expect a normal relationship. Some guys might feel differently about it, but both are possible in a relationship. I definitely don't do it to degrade my wife, and I don't think she feels that way. She says she thinks they are silly and don't do anything for her, but also says they aren't bad. We've been married for close to 20 years, and we've included the occasional facial (maybe once a month) for awhile now. I think we have a healthy, respectful relationship in and out of the bedroom.
For me, it's a combination of things. I think my wife's face is sexy and I also am pretty visual, so I like to see it shoot out. I also like it for the sheer taboo/kinky factor. It is something different that not everyone does. Not sure this makes sense, but it is hot and makes me feel totally accepted that she is willing to do something messy just to please me. It's also hot knowing that everyone else sees her as innocent and prim and proper, and I know there is another side to her.
Both. You be surprised the creative ideas that guys can put together for cum usage as they “move-on “ as you put it. I hear these things but yet had…or dared to ask one of the women if true 🤷🏻♂️
I am opening to letting him do it if it’s a fun sex thing to do but I don’t want it to put me the category that he won’t be interested in me
That’s an individual thing. You get a turn too whether he likes it or not. It is only fair and the truth is, ultimately, you are in control. “Foot down” on some things. This would be one of them. There’s still a sense of Respect that needs to occur. “I did this not wanting to for you…it’s your turn to experience the same. You know, there’s no choice for you here, right?”
The choice of saying no if I don’t want to….
I have cum on more than a few female faces, and it can be a sexually submissive act, but not always. Some girls reeeeeally dig cum, and love to receive it that way and play with it. Others get turned on by the sexual objectification aspect of having a guy coat their face with his semen. So if he wants to cum on your face, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
Guys see that shit on all the porn they watch and think it is kinda cool. I have never done it unless asked to do it.
I don't think it's degrading at all, I actually think it's pretty intimate and I'm usually the one that asks for it anyway.
Both can have communication and please address how you feel about it.
It depends on the guy and on the setting.
Usually it's just a meaning that he finds you really beautiful and want to enjoy your beauty at the max. If he likes it, there might be a chance he also prefers facefucking over blowjobs.
Ofcourse if he is slapping you while doing sex, calling you degrading names, or being really rough and inconsiderate, then in his mind, facial could mean something completely different.
Your best bet is to just ask him what he feels "after" he give you a facial.
Both for sure! I treat my subs or partners pretty bad during sex, but they love it. During sex she's a worthless 3 hole slut and then we cuddle up, shower together so I can wash her, and then make food or lay on the couch.
Facials and other demeaning or taboo things can be fun but don't necessarily mean they don't care about you too.
I don't see it as just a thrill. I see it as an intimate bonding moment.
Porn makes it look that way and I'm sure it is that way for some guys but not every guy views it that way.
It depends. I've done it to a girlfriend. We were together for a long time. She liked it once in a while.
for me it was what she wanted the one and only time i did that.. I dont do things to degrade woman ,, I dont think it would be degrading unless the person getting it on there face does.. but to be honest it was fucking hot that first she wanted me to and that i did not something i thought of to be truthful.
There's nothing nicer than seeing your sperm on your girl's pretty face. It's not meant to be degrading.
I dont see them as degrading at all. It's a hot sexy act
just a thrill
Yes its degrading. But more so I just think a woman with cum on her face and smiling is so sexy. I mean even most dominant sex normally man dominating the woman is the most common type of sex. So sex in general can be degrading.
I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and I cum on her face often lol not for any particular reason, we both think it's hot
Hurting, defacing, and/or degrading something is not done to something you love.
Its only degrading if the girl says no and the guy cums on her face anyway.
Good question. I have never given a woman a facial, but if I did I would not look at it as a demeaning thing. I would probably see it as an intimate act. Like ejaculating on a woman's breasts only it being her face.
That being said it isn't something that I feel I need to do. If I were dating a lady and she wanted me to I'd go for it but other than that I don't have the inclination.
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