On one hand it sounds like he could be too shy to ask you out, but on the other hand he's brave enough to tell you he thinks about you while masturbating. He must be turned on by you if he masturbates thinking about you, and he must have feelings for you if he kisses you. Next time you see him you may want to ask him where he sees the relationship going. Does he want it to continue the way it is, or would he like it to become more serious. If he says he'd like it be become more serious, you could tell him you would like that too and the two of you should go out to get to know each other better to see if there is a spark.
Thank u so much for response, I will do that!!
👍🏼 Best of luck. Stay healthy an safe.
That's a smiling monkey covering their ears.
I don't think this guy wants to date you.
I think he wants to fuck. You've already kissed, but nothing more.
He's planting the seed in your head of how attractive you're to him sexually by telling he thinks of you whilst masterbating. This he hopes will grow into you imagining sexual thoughts of you having sex with him.
To help you, ask yourself:
Are you into him?
Would you fuck him?
That then determines how this plays out going forward.
I forgot to mention that we hooked up for the first time and then after that he told me he imagines me while he does his business. I'am into him and would want to make things more serious, but I want him to make the first move, cause I don't want to seem obnoxious or needy. And he texts me long messages while we chat, but I don't understand why he doesn't ask to meet up on week days.
That makes sense as to why he thinks of you whilst he conducts his 'business.' Good for you. That's not unnatural to do so, albeit some men would prefer women to just be up front and make the 1st move too! No doubt, he doesn't start with "Hi/Hey/Hello/WUUT/Wassup? etc." His long messages, in his eyes are there to 'impress' you. He thinks the more he writes, the more you'll like him. All he needs to do is K. I. S. = Keep It Simple. He maybe conducting many 'business' meetings during the week so isn't available? If in doubt, drop the super long, over the top, long winded, drawn out question of "So..." followed by whatever it is you want the answer to. For example, "So... Are you available to meet on week days?/What stops you from meeting on a week day? etc." Like I said, K. I. S. = Keep It Simple
No, he works 9-5 job and isn't that busy on week days. But, thanks a lot, you helped me figure out things that kept bugging me! 👀
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No, he likes to have someone to dirty talk to while he jerks off and you’re the first person to not tell him he’s a creep.
He's probably unsure of whether you'll say yes
I should wait and see how things go or maybe some tips on how I could know what he thinks?
No, the longer this goes on the more likely he loses interest. Ask him how he feels about you and what he wants.
Yes duh
But why he doesn't make a move and ask me out on a normal day not for partying?
Maybe he not smart
maby he want you to make the first move and ask him to meet again
I would, but I don't want to look dumb if he just wants to flirt and doesn't want anything serious 🤯
i don't think you will be dump if you just ask "want to meet again?" If he say "no..." and say his reson then you can say "ok"
Sounds like he just wants to get into your pants.
Well, thats a bummer 😄
I think that’s rather obvious, of course he does have feelings for you.
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