For the girls reluctant to have us guys go down on you, how can we help you get comfortable with it?

[RedInnocent68]

[SueShe]

You don't "help" because that kind of help is more a coercion than anything else. If a girl does not want to have oral sex performed on her, you simply don't try to persuade or force her.

Have you ever realized or given a thought about the potential health hazards such a practice can cause? You are potentially infecting yourself with Herpes Simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) or genital herpes. Once you have it, you can never get rid of it. Ever. Also, going down on a person, you can infect that person with Herpes Simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) or lips herpes. Both types are very distinct and different.

Why would you even want to go down on the genitals of a girl (or vice versa for a girl to go down on the genitals of a man) knowing that you are placing your mouth on a body opening that is full of bacteria and pathogens.

If a girl is uncomfortable with oral sex, then it is because she is aware of the high risk of health issues.

Simply accept the fact that she does not want to be the carrier of a health risk.

[Mansearching]

@sueshe. Not all true. I've gone down on every girl I've been with. All those diseases you said, I NEVER had. Half truths. Plus they've enjoyed it. Even if it was the first time they were gone down on. Most guys don't want to go down. Of course most girls won't go down on guys. Plus if guys won't go down on girls, girls won't go down. Only thing you said that is 100% correct is that the guy shouldn't force.

[SueShe]

@Mansearching It does not mean that you will never get them (or give them to the victims). When you drive under the influence of alcohol and you never got caught by the police, it does not mean that you never will...

[Mansearching]

@sueshe. I guess after 32 years of eating pussy, I've been lucky?

[SueShe]

@Mansearching I would use a different term for your irresponsible acts...

[Mansearching]

How is oral sex irresponsible?

[Little_Bumblebee]

First, you can talk about it with her.

Is she just shy, or worried about scent, taste, hair growth etc?

Or is it because she's worried there's an expectation of reciprocation?

Some women just genuinely don't like oral sex.

There's of course also a reason that involves the answer @sueshe came with.

But you shouldn't force her to do sexual acts she's not comfortable with. You accept the answer and respect it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You don't, you just find a different one that isn't so hung up.

[Nikki1989]

Who is reluctant? You must know some strange women.

[RedInnocent68]

Maybe? 😂 We’ll see if some shy girls comes out…

[Mansearching]

@nikki1989. by the way... i just found out I'm irresponsible for going down on a girl... LMAO

[In_Trance]

I think you lied about your age

[RedInnocent68]

Not sure what you’re getting at?

[Anonymous]

They like everything

[RedInnocent68]

Maybe. But say you like butt play. You never say, ‘not tonight, I’m just not comfortable with that right now?’

[Opinion Owner]

Not all of them like that