For the ladies, how does giving a blowjob feels for you (physicaly and emotionaly)?

[Anonymous]

[Mia-Wallace]

Well, this could be me, but I usually like and need oral stimulation when I am horny (or want to get horny). It's like (or is) the feeling of hunger/thirst.

Giving blowjobs quenches that thirst and the act of sucking on something warm, almost hot, is very soothing to me. I stop thinking and become focused. I also feel beautiful when I see him look at me top down while being pleased.

For me, there's also an aspect of psychological subspace to it (it's a BDSM term). I feel submissive, small, and in my rightful place under my Dominant's cock. It's a feeling of being protected, accepted, and deeply loved as a submissive being. Submission is scary, like jumping to the unknown - a leap of faith, and to remove the fear triggers a slight feeling of euphoria, mindlessness, playfulness, selflessness, and overall incredible joy in melting in your god, in your master. And blowjobs can trigger that joy in me to a degree, especially if I am also kissed and face-fucked.

I can't really separate the physical and emotional experience (emotions can only ever be felt). To say that, for example, physically, "it tastes like having a warm piece of skin in your mouth" or "it twitches and pulsates". Even when I'm not experiencing a slight psychological subspace, I feel horny or just enjoy the relaxing sensation of sucking and that twitch and turn and warmth and pulse. Feelings and emotions are always present.

[Asker]

That it's really interesting, all the psychological aspect, it's facinating to see how your mind works. And in the physical sensation, how would you said that is for you?

[Harleigh90]

This deserves a round of applause 👏😆

[Asker]

@Harleigh90 Because of the deep explanation?

[Harleigh90]

Because of the facts 🙌

[Asker]

@Harleigh90 Glad to know, it's the same for you too? Do you have more inside on the physical sensation perhaps?

[Mia-Wallace]

@Harleigh90 <3 I know the post is "deeply passionate... but I like it nice and balls-deep. And thank you! Asker - The physical sensation is just what I said, the taste of skin (unless you rub some Nutella on it...), the twitching and pulsating, the sensation of the soft and nice head in your mouth and on/below your tongue. There's also the sensation on the soft palate. I can't exactly describe it. But to me, it's related to inhaling with your nose while something is touching there. It's a decent sensation and makes me focus. Deepthroating is another story. It's more about total domination than its sensation in itself, at least for me. Even if you imagine it and feel you love it, you have to train your throat to get a nicer, smoother experience. In any case, for me, the feelings and emotions are never absent. There is a term called "demisexual", and even though I don't exactly know how scientific it is, it does seem to describe me. I'm not motivated to have any sexual activity unless an emotional connection is present. I don't suck a cock just to lube it for a later sensation in my vagina. That's like tolerating and trading. I give blowjobs primarily because of the feelings and emotions involved. I like it and find it rewarding in itself, without a promise of penetration/trading it for a physical sensation. (and no, that doesn't mean I don't like being penetrated). But that's me. Some other women do just tolerate and trade it. Some women don't even like it. etc.

[Asker]

Thanks for the anwser, it's trully fascinating to see how the psychological it's the most important part. So the physical sensation it's secundary

[mandyfire98]

Physically it just feels like my mouth is full. Women get no physical pleasure from having a dick in their mouth. The inside of the mouth is not an erogenous zone. The reason women like giving their guy head is because it's to give the guy pleasure. Yes, women can get turned on from seeing their guy feel pleasure from a blowjob but their is not feeling of physically pleasure we get from having something in our mouth. Put a banana in your mouth. You'll get the same amount of physical pleasure that we do with a dick in ours. That's why the answers you always get from women is "I enjoy it because my guy likes it" because it's literally because the guy enjoys it.

[Asker]

So you'll like it if you really like the guy?

[Asker]

I heard other girls said that they actually like that there is a warm sensation or that the skin is smoth but yeah, most of them also said that the psychological part it's huge. What's your opinion on the physical sensation, absolutely nothing?

[mandyfire98]

I mean it feels warm in my mouth but that's it. That doesn't cause physical pleasure. Heat up a banana and put it in your mouth, that's what we feel. I'm not even kidding, go try it. That's what we feel. Women aren't orgasming because something is in their mouth.

[Asker]

I actually try it, I kind of feel disgusting picturing that it was a dick in there lol 😂

[mandyfire98]

Don't though. Just think of it as it is. A banana. But it feels no different to women and a dick in their mouth. It's just warm and hard. That's it. Literally the only sensations.

[Asker]

There's a woman on the coment sections of this question saying that it feels good on her mouth

[mandyfire98]

Look again at what they're saying. You're not understanding this at all. They all say things like I feel good because it makes me feel sexy ( psychological) or I love the way he looks down at me with it in my mouth (psychological) none of it is actually "having a dick in my mouth sends a tingle down my body that gives me an orgasm" it's all psychological my dude. You are not pleasuring your woman by putting a dick in her mouth. You're not gonna make her cum that way. Yes, you have to eat her pussy. Just do it.

[Asker]

Thanks. So forget about the other woman. You like giving head to your guy cause psychological reasons?

[mandyfire98]

Yep because it's giving the guy sexual pleasure. Knowing that I'm turning him on is what makes it sexy for me.

[Asker]

That's beatiful :')

[Guy13]

In this day and time…that’s sadly aman question too…

[Guy13]

Especially with the skirts with male package 📦 .

[Asker]

I didn't undertand

[chrissykerdock]

i definitely feel hot sexy and beautiful... suck a hard throbbing cock sometimes dripping of pre-cum... sometimes just so hard and it feels good in your mouth... i like to be on my knees looking up at him and he doesn't have to be young or old handsome or ugly it's just a turn on to be on your kneees for a man... i like being in a mini dress and on my knees... i love it when they cum in my mouth as it gives me satisfaction... not much into if he returns the favor or not i just love to suck.

[Asker]

When you said so good in your mouth, what's the physical sensation of it?

[chrissykerdock]

cum it's not that it feels so good you just feel hot having cum in your mouth... physically cum is not much can be watery can be more compact than watery... tastes salty to bleachy to fruity like pineapple mostly it's a mental aspect of swallowing someone's cum... you just want to do it and it feels good to do so from a psychological standpoint... like a made this guy cum for me because he finds me hot and sexy.

[Asker]

Thanks for your anwser, it's trully fascinating :3

[Asker]

I didn't mean the cum I mean the dick

[Anonymous]

They wouldn’t do it if it didn’t feel good to them

[Asker]

Yeah I know, I was just been curious cause I saw and Interview in youtube the other day (Most women said that the main reason they like it was more about giving plassure to the other person, so I decided to conduct a survey of my own)