Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Okay I believe most women prefer average sized dicks. I listen to women talk, also I know it takes much confidence in yourself and effort to take a big dick. I've had at least five in my life and I know it's not for lazy or simple girls. With this I conclude it's not for just any girl.
But what if you really like a guy, like he's perfect, looks, personality, intellect, height, good job, nice hair and he treats you right, then you find out he has a above average cock? When I was a masseuse a hot guy came in for a hand job, I was new and when I went back around the back, the girls started laughing because they know he has a huge one.
They started wondering if anyone wanted him because to them it was deal breaker, and they think that's why he came to brothels. I have met two really hot guys online that I liked, when they sent me dick pics, it looks like they would be a lot of work in sex. One of them is my FB friends right now and he posts romantic stuff, we are same sign.
Do not get me wrong, sex with a well endowed man is possible, but as I said it's not for everyone and you maybe won't be able to do it everyday. Would you take a guy who lacks many qualities but average in size, or perfect in every other way but a lot of work in bed?
For women who prefer average sized penises, what if the perfect guy is too big?
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10 28What size range do you prefer? @azzntittiz
I want six inches and four. five girth, sorry my numbers don't work on this keyboard. Of course there is a little over average which is five in girth. Length is irrelevant but I want one long enough to look at and stroke, not too short because those can be awkward in sex and many times if it's accompanied with thinness it's useless.
Hmm..
Don't worry your body will form to accomadate, if he was small and you stretched you will tighten, you will soon be taking all he has to offer.
What do you prefer
A dick shouldn, t affect any relationship
But it does, if too small or too big it becomes a problem unless both of you are not attracted to each other.
If not attracted its just sex, if attracted it won't matter, I know
Im no virgin lol and I know what im talking about
I have been told im to much girth
I have big and thick dick you like it
Of course not
Hey bro, why did you remove your profile pic?
That was the last evidence that proved you're a female lol
I have a small one
I've never had a problem with my dick. Maybe I only ever get with sluts...
Being able to take dicks don't make a woman slut. I say this knowing men take misconceptions and project their false beliefs unto women. So don't go thinking that now or making them feel bad, also your dick might not be as big as you think it is.
Women's vaginas come in small, medium, large and extra large just like dick does. Sadly most girls are large and extra large so a good genital match with the average sized dude results in sexual dissatifaction.
@Margillard Stop the madness about small, medium and large, lmao.
Women like different size dicks, one everyday or a working dick, these are average quicky dicks. For the special occasion dick or the off duty dick, girl like a big dick... so that a girl can totally be dominated and completely disconstructed by dick... hit hard by the cock truck. This is why Negril Jamaica is the top sex tourist destination for North American women.
And I've see many tourists sex videos, their dicks are average. Where are you guys seeing the big dick porns because I don't search them. I've seen many cocks in my life, but I can only count no more than 10 monster ones in the 5.5, 6" girth region. I've only been with about 5 of them. When I see a huge cock in porn it's very rare, I've seen fake dicks attached to the man and of you look closely you can see, it tends to look awkward and you can tell the girl's not having fun, neither is the man because its a detachable cock.
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A 1996 study by Pendergrass et al. using vinyl polysiloxane castings taken from the vaginas of 39 Caucasian women, in the unaroused state, found the following ranges of dimensions:[3] lengths (measured using rods): 6.86 to 14.81 cm (2.7 to 5.84 inches); widths: 4.8 to 6.3 cm (1.88 to 2.48 inches); introital diameters: 2.39 to 6.45 cm (0.94 to 2.53 inches) A second study by the same group showed significant variations in size and shape between the vaginas of women of different ethnic groups.[4] Both studies showed a wide range of vaginal shapes, described by the researchers as "Parallel sided, conical, heart, [...] slug"[3] and "pumpkin seed"[4] shapes. Barnhart et al., however, were unable to characterize the shape of the vagina as a "heart, slug, pumpkin seed or parallel sides" as suggested by the previous studies.[1] A 2003 study by the group of Pendergrass et al. also using castings as a measurement method, measured vaginal surface areas ranging from 65.73 to 107.07 cm2 (10.19 to 16
10.19 to 16.60 sq. inches) with a mean of 87.46 cm2 (13.56 sq. inches) and a standard deviation of 7.80 cm2 (1.21 sq inches)[5] Research published in 2006 by Barnhart et al., gave the following mean dimensions, based on MRI scans of 28 women:[1] Mean length from cervix to introitus: 6.27 cm (2.46"). Mean width: * at the proximal vagina: 3.25 cm (1.27"); * at the pelvic diaphragm: 2.78 cm (1.09"); * at the introitus: 2.62 cm (1.03")
Azzntittiz unfortunately he can't be reasond with. He is a black supremacist through and through. All of him comments prove this.
Yeah I've been done with him a long time ago. I can't reason with someone who insists on spewing biased nonsense to support their non fact.
Hell all last night he kept spamming sources that contradicted what he said. Its like he never actually read through them. Rather he kept pushing the BBC nonsense and apparently ignored the fact that places like Jamaica are barely 6.5 on average. He kept insisting that the average black man (globally) was 7 inches despite such numbers only exsisting in the congo. Hell he has even contradicted himself. So either he is delusional or trolling. Maybe both.
I guess according to your logic, women that go to dating site like 7orbetter. com are women who can't get the more "desirable" 5.1" white dick so they have to settle for the large ones.
www.quora.com/Why-do-escorts-refuse-to-see-black-men
@Margillard i didn't say more desirable you illiterate dolt. Women tend to prefer 6.5 to 7. The guy who founded 7orbetter said that was the preference of his female friends. What i did say was your sources dont back up any of your claims, that you are a racist and that the average black guy isn't 7 inches. If it was every black populated place would have a higher average. But only the congo ranks that high and even than the report is probably false because it was SELF reported. Its common knowledge that men lie about their dicks. So even the congo might only be around 6.5 inches. The problem is you never even read your own sources aside from what you want to hear. You are clearly a black guy who is compansating by trying to push a certain narrative. So as i have said take your disgusting racism off of this site. Go back to tumblr. Hell one of your sources claimed 7 inches would make someone bigger than over 90 percent of men. Try actually reading your own sources before you continuw to.
Sounds like you are on a campain to save black guys from white girls. Black girls don't like whats left for them... white guys with a 5.1" dick. Clever girl.
@Margillard in your quora source only one mentioned dick size and said unless she was in a relationship she wouldn't be with a black guy because of the inconvenience. She never mentioned pleasure she called them inconvenient. 2 others called them pushy and annoying. But yeah they love black guys right 😒.
@Margillard the more you comment racist shit the more i can report.
@mr_mxy Go bury your head in the sand like an ostridge and hide, you oviously can't accept IR relationships and the fact white woman all over are going black. That is racist dude.
@Margillard no your black supremacy talk is racist. You have made broad claims without evidence. You have called all white men inferior on numerous ocassions and have contradicted yourself everytime you comment. You are a racist black guy with a microdick simple as that.
@Margillard also reported.
@Margillard also Azzntittiz is from Jamaica and even she is calling out your bullshit. You are a delusional black kid with a superiority complex who is obviously trying to compensate for his own shortcomings. You are wrong and you know you are wrong but you can't admit it.
@Margillard as for why they go on sec tours its not BBC. They also go to places like spain and even Vietnam. Your wikipeadia source is were i got that from. So clearly BBC isn't it. BBC is a fetish and a meme. And most women who go out to fuck black men do it because its frowned upon. Its like fucking a dog to them. Those white women fuck black men because it is seen as wrong. I have spoken with many people who have the same preferences both women who fuck black men and guys who are cuckolds. And even they call it a fetish and nothing more.
@azzntittiz I don’t know how it works lol. My dick is 8” long and 5.75” in circumference. I’m not sure what that means in terms of how women view size, all I know is I’ve never had one ounce of trouble with sex and my dick. Is that too big or am I good? Cuz it’s been like 2 years since I had sex and a lot of what I’ve been reading on GAG is mostly girls who say big dicks are bad. I heard 8” is big so now I’ve been a bit nervous about the next time I find a girlfriend or something. What if all of a sudden I don’t date the same kind of girls and I have trouble with my dick being too big? I’m legit scared, I don’t wanna get rejected cuz it’s too big. Which is why I replied cuz I’ve never had trouble and supposedly 8” is big. I don’t know lol.
Your girth is above average but okay, penis shape has something to do with it too. If you have a tip to help ease it in, that could be why there's little trouble. I think a girth above 4.5 is tipping the large stage but length pass 6 is just for aesthetic purposes. Length doesn't hurt a woman unless she has inflamed tubes or gas. But as I stated, you don't need to worry, if you've been fine so far no worries. I've been with men really huge that causes medical problems, that's why I asked this question.
lol damn how big does it have to be to cause medical problems? Most men wish we had a huge dick. I thought for a looong time my dick was small. So I suppose I and the rest of us are pretty paranoid about this shit. But then reading so much on here about dicks being too big really started to make me worry about being too big instead of not big enough. I guess us men are retarded. I’ve been working on just accepting my dick for what it is and not worrying about it. Thanks for your reply it helps a lot and honestly this whole question has been helpful.
Your dick is above average, as I have a dildo that gives decent stretch, when I measured, it was 4.5 anything over that i s above as most women are about the same size. All I'm saying of you've never had an issue before, don't over think it. Every man is different and so are dicks, maybe you know who to use it, maybe the girls are extra wet, maybe they have their way of handing it, or maybe their anatomy allows for better access. It has nothing with them being sluts are being loose. Sex is complicated, but if we're willing sometimes we work it out, this is why I'd never wait until the wedding night.
So me having 7 inches length is good?
I swear when I use my phone to type responses and then try to reread them, I sound like a retard. My phone hates me I tell you. 7 is definition more than enough, as I said as long as the man is at least 5 in length and 4.5 in girth, that should be enough. There are men doing a decent job with even smaller than the above, but that's a whole other ball game. I do believe women prefer average above below to be safe.
I’ve never though so much about penis and vagina and didn’t get horny before. Just sayin’
Do not do that, trying to make me feel bad. I did not do anything, stop overthinking that as I said, if it's not a problem for you, what's the problem?
No I mean it's so educational I'm not even turned on lol.
Oh I see :)
This is what women really think about dick:
https://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
Or you can believe a 21year old that know all about dick sizes, then asks if his 7" dick is big enough.
@Margillard What I grasped from that was women who had big dicks enjoyed it, it is quite a thrill and aesthetically pleasing to the eyes. A few have cheated to get that thrill again, but stayed with their partner. Most of them said they love their partners the way they are, meaning they are satisfied with his size. The poll suggests that the average these women have experienced is seven and above, that is not average therefore not true, where do they find these big dick men when I've gotten laid more than many women. At the end of the day it never told me they prefer bigger, it told me that they probably don't know what big is and claiming to measure it, what man sits there so you can measure him, that would emasculate a lot of men.
Women marry not because of dick size and looks alone, in fact for most women the social standing the male has, which would dictate how good a provider he will be, is first and foremost. Men with less testosterone make better fathers and easier mates to live with for the long haul. The bigger your balls the more testosterone is produced,... fun when you are a single girl. Ideally a billionare with a big dick would be the first choice, most women have to settle with lowered expectations or stay single the rest of their lives. As for where are all the big dicked clients you ask? Well they are getting laid and highly sought after by young women. It is easy to look at a guys crotch and if he is hanging plus 5" soft which is the same as the average guy is hard, he is going have a high number of sexual partners.
@Margillard I only met like 3% of big dick men in my life. Most are average to below. Average as in 5 long, 4.5 to 5 girth. These women can't use a tape measure obviously. You can't see more dicks than a stripper, cam girl, masseuse. SO big dick men stay away from me? I don't think so. I've had the same clients as many girls, and I know girls who exaggerate to look tighter than others. I was with three guys who chose me over other women, the women talked about how huge their cocks were and how it was for her to take it. Bullshit, these men were average to below, she wanted me to look like I was looser so he left her for me. I am one finger if you count being able to feel all my walls, two is a crowd in there. I laugh at those girls' statement, but I learn something every time. Maybe the girls in this survey is delusional because they're telling me they've seen bigger than I have, and they make it sound like they're a flood of giant dick out there, where?
Perhaps you are living in the wrong part of the country, there are some state with smaller penises compared to the other states.
@Margillard I am Jamaican.
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@Margillard and yet a 20 year old cry baby with a superioirty complex somehow knows better. You have contradicted your "evidence" many times. The fact you can't back up your own bullshit proves your false. I asked how my size was to get the opinion of a Jamaican black woman. Her views matter an infinite amount more than yours or your random internet bullshit. Ever hear the saying "dont always beilive what you read on the internet." Hell you are even stupid enough to tey and use wikipeadia and youtube as evidence. Go back to your little bubble of delusion.
@Margillard i never said i know all about dick sizes thats been you the entire time. I merely pointed out that you are insecure, racist and have contradicted yourself many times. Meanwhile you keep throwing a tantrum.
@Margillard take a look at that poll again moron. Most women said that they enjoyed their partners size. The second largest said that while they would prefer slightly larger but still liked their partners size. So once again your "evidence" contradicts your argument. Also tell me how many women actually took the poll. If you can't give numbers you have no evidence.
@Margillard once again do you actually read the things you post. That map said at the bottom "most men regardless of race average the same" your evidence once again proves your racist claims of black supremacy are false.
@mr_mxy Look, a lot of people do not fully understand sex as they are forever leaning to their own beliefs. I read online a woman who wrote a blog about kegels which are exercises that helps you to achieve tightness and strong walls. I have observed men loving sex with me, compliments and reaction, plus a lack of ability to last is what I experience with most men.
She warned women it's dangerous and how it can cause you to become loose and destroy your walls, I have never heard more load of crap in my life, as it's merely contracting and releasing the vaginal muscles, it also happens involuntarily when I cum, it's healthy just like squats are good for your thighs and ass, also squats give you stronger pelvic floors thus strengthening the vagina. I suspect people post misleading contents online to support their secret agendas. Perhaps this woman hates that some women put effort into their bodies and want them to accompany her in not giving a damn.
Good point. Glad to have a lady with experience. Your opinions matter more than a cry baby like miligard. And honestly with what i know about you it wouldn't surprise me that most men have a hard time lasting lol
So not everything you read online will make sense, you have to consider your sources, sometimes something is off about the content. Maybe the set up of the page or writing skills of the creator. I can always find contents to support incorrect beliefs because there are independent content creators online who might not have a single clue of what they're saying.
Thats what iv been calling him out on.
@mr_mxy If one individual can be better than another, then a group of individuals can be better than another group of individuals. The only issue you'll have is determining the criteria to decide who is better, but certainly one is better than another, depending on how you want to look at it. Also, calling me all the names you have called me, is an ad hominem fallacy. People who lack rational arguments resort to personal attack as a substitution for a legitimate argument. If you can't keep it civil, that means you're losing the argument.
@mr_mxy I've had only one man not improving and so we just stopped seeing each other. But most men eventually started lasting longer later on in our relationship, sometimes it's a matter of getting used to the girl. I heard that it can also train his pelvic muscles, as he learns to hold his ejaculation, so it's a win win for both. The guy I am seeing now surprisingly hasn't pre-ejaculate with me, at first I was offended then I was impressed.
@Margillard you have never kept it civil. Remember when you called me "the little dicklet police" so by your logic you have never had a valid argument. Your logic doesn't work. Individuals are different than entire populations. That is a massive fallacy. Some individuals are better than others but its a different criteria. Thats true. But groups are different. Unless of course you wanna say every group is the same. The problem is you have made racist claims of black supremacy without any evidence. Everything you claimed as evidence has either been lacking or has straight up contradicted you. You are a black guy with a superiority complex and a less than average dick. That is the only reason why you would be pushing this agenda. That much is clear. Your opinion means nothing when compared to the actual woman here who says your wrong.
Yeah can you just block this guy so he can't post anymore. The ignorance is getting annoying.
@Margillard Okay don't harass him anymore, because at this point it's harassment. We get it that you're a big dick advocate, if a girl prefers said size, she'll go find it. At this point the conversation has strayed off topic.
@mr_mxy If he continues I'll have to block. I don't agree with him but don't want him to say I'm biased. But if he keeps attacking you I will do so.
@Margillard by your logic whats stoping me saying white people are supperior. White women are desired by most men and white men have basically ruled the world. Frankly in terms of true power black people would be at the bottom. Even if black men are slightly bigger than doesn't stop women from choosing white men. Hell in the poll you posted most women said they were perfectly happy with their current partners size. So if we are going based on which group is better and following your logic black men lose overall. A good dick will only get one so far in life. "A doorman with a giant dick could be just as unhappy as a billionaire with a small one. Albeit for different reasons" so if all black guys have going for them is dick size and nothing else than they are far from superior. Of course non of this i actually beilive but since you do you must accept this as truth.
Considering he blocked me he would have no ground to claim your bias without being a massvie hypocrite. Which he already is but still wouldn't help him.
Meanwhile ill just keep reporting his racist claims.
Hey y'all, I'm not sure but I think that margillard guy is a 'sph' or 'small penis humiliation' connoisseur. They often troll around the internet talking about big black cock and how it's superior to white cock. It's pretty common and they are getting more and more creative in sneaking their fetishes into comments and blogs and articles. It feeds their sexual fantasy.
Yeah, it's kinda suspect how passionate he is about big dicks.
Hell thats what iv been saying the entire time.
@Margillard so by your logic you have been losing tue argument since day one as you have used personal attacks against me when unable to refute my claims against you. So glad to see you admit defeat.
@Margillard also claiming the other person is losing is a clear sign you dont have a rational argument. Just because you claim you won doesn't mean you actually win. In fact its only further evidence that you lose. Your entire argument has been contradicted by your own sources.
well damn, from what you said it looks like I was made for you lol
I wish my dick was longer than 6 & thicker than 5 but honestly I would hate not being able to put my whole member inside while banging
Interesting. I think it would hurt if it was too big. But I would hate to leave a guy I love for sexual reasons. Its a tough question to answer.
This came to mind because a guy on FB who is now my friend, was before he unfriended me when I told him his dick was too big from the pictures he sent. He is my friend again and pretending to not remember who I am. It's freakishly large and he's too hot to be single, obviously I struck a nerve to make him unfriend me when I said that.
This is very interesting. I’ve only had 1 partner, my husband, so I can’t answer this. But I’m wondering, doesn’t the vagina stretch eventually? Sorry for my basic question, but I am practically a virgin too.
It stretches but everything has a limit. Years ago I met a guy who told me I would never be able to handle him, so I challenged him. It took us what felt like a whole hour trying to make it happen, when it did, I ended up seeing a doctor. I kept seeing him and my problem got worse. If someone shoved a chair up there you'd surely die and trust me having sex with one of these men feel like a near death experience. But guys on the larger size of average are fine, women would call them big too, like Ginuwine's leaked nudes, I'd call that big but no where near as the ones that could have you sore for days or make you feel your butt and vagina tearing into one.
This is so sad my goodness. I can’t imagine what it’s like for these men. Do you think there’s women out there who could handle them?
I have read the stories of women wanting to leave or leaving their husbands. In my country a man with a penis too large raped a child killing her and then dropped her stories through a window because no grown woman wanted him. Of course I didn't witness this myself, but a classmate did and told is about it. As for my experiences, I've been with one that had me seeing a doctor behind his back, the others didn't send me to the doctor but I screamed bloody murder every time, I don't know how the cops were never called. I guess they were maybe just a little over average but still really thick. You can never have discreet sex and you are always sore for days, my vagina is healthy so I know it's not me, they were just too big. I know many women would not handle it, they'd get cheated on or the man would end up being miserable.
Where you a prostitute? Would oral be easier with these men? What about a really large woman, would she not be able to take a huge one? I’m sorry but I just have so many questions!
I was an escort, stripper and now a camgirl. But before that I was quite active and had enough experience. I think a woman who is large needs to tighten up and get healthy, a huge vagina is a health issue so it would not be an advantage in this case. Plus her walls would be weak which I imagine to not have the best feeling, so even the big guy will feel like he's not having fun in my opinion.
You have so much knowledge.
I would hope you leave that industry for your own sake and find a more self respecting job
@Markasaurous I am quite fine with my life thank you.
I have a very religious background and until recently I started watching porn because I don’t think my sex life is that great. Before this I always thought your souls were lost, but after some thought I see that a lot of women in these industries really enjoy sex and like what they do. I can respect that especially after I feel like my life had a lot of missed opportunities for having waited for the “right guy.” I used to master bate as far back as I remember and knew I had crazy hormones and I thought that once I started having sex I wouldn’t be able to stop. So because of that and my faith I waited. Having said that I have an off base question, would you do porn? Why or why not? Have you ever met a woman in my situation who said fuck the traditional life and go all into the sex industry? How did it turn out for them?
Look, I have watched porn before and realized that is something that isn't fulfilling and I need to wait for something real. Pleasures of this world won't fulfill you! Sex will not fulfill you in the end, and I hope you leave this thought alone! The porn industry is terrible, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, abuse, death, disease, why do you think some pornstars left! You don't join if you don't have to! You have a good life! Do not worship sex! Do not have a fear of missing out.
You don't have to go into the sex industry to enjoy sex. Sex can destroy a person or improve their way of life, this is why you have to be very careful. As for your sex life, I thought the way you did when I was younger but I was not from a religious background. I went to church but it was my decision to wait as I was very conservative. I was very horny like you and used to do kegels until I climaxed and thought that sex before marriage would be bad blah blah, long story short I got raped and had my virginity taken away by a stranger. People would say this is why I'm the way I am, but no, I was always sexual, I got into the industry because all else failed as men kept seeing me as sexual object. Instead of being a hypocrite and taking sexual harassment, I ended doing the only work I could do in peace and earn, sex. I got more respect when I became a whore, ironically.
Giving into your desires won't help you, it isn't addressing the problem it is ignoring it and burying it under the sand, you need to face your issues not cover them with pleasure.
@markasaurous please go away. Nobody wants to talk to you. @azzntittiz I’m sorry that happened to you. I felt the same as you that I would only be used for potential sex. I was molested as a child by a group of boys and maybe that’s where it stems from. I feel you’re right I guess that sex can destroy someone. I just so frustrated with a lot of things right now. I really appreciate how real you are. God bless you.
It's okay, we are put here to make the best of life. Not to let things destroy us, so whatever you chose to do make sure it's in your best interest, and that you go about it to safest way. Like I didn't allow the sex industry to change me, I don't look in the mirror and not know myself. I adjusted to the life handed to me but was never eaten up by it. I refused coke and ecstasy, didn't get tattoos, but piercings were always my thing, so I got rings. Just be careful as I said and don't let frustration get the best of you. Do what you have to but don't destroy yourself.
Lol how did I get here?
I don't know, go lose your virginity and come back in two years.
Um. Why two years?
I learned a lot about sex about two years after being active, but still I met people mostly men who stayed naive into their fifties. I think you should give yourself at least two years of experience before you talk.
Okay. I guess I’ll go get laid...
Be safe and don't get aids.
Lol I will. Thanks internet lady!
Oh you're under eighteen so I don't expect you to go have sex now. You are too young for sex at least wait until you're eighteen. Early sex is bad for boys and girls, it will ruin your life.
Ok I can wait