Forced eye contact during sex with FWB?

My friends with benefits and I have been on and off for almost a decade but the last time we met up, it was much different than normal. He kissed me for a majority of it, held me really tightly and even dug his fingernails into my back at one point. But the thing that confused me the most was when he grabbed my head a few times and made me look at him. When he first grabbed my head I thought he wanted to kiss me, so I leaned in but he moved my head back and just stared into my eyes. This actually happened more than once as well. He also told me he loved me but I think that was more of an "in the moment" thing (I doubt he actually loves me). I get eye contact is a part of sex, but why would he force me to look at him like that?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • When men looks into a woman's eye during sex that usually means confirmation of intense satisfaction (meaning a major turn on for men and making sure that the woman is satisfied in a dominant or control way) towards the women. Love doesn't always play a role sometimes in that experience but it's better if the woman had already know first hand that the man love her in then you have that experience because it increases the pleasure experience.

  • It doesn't sound like his "I love you" was in the moment? I'd never say this and not mean it. I think he's developed real feelings for you and maybe wants more. Talk to him about it and find out. Be direct and just ask him how he feels.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He wanted it to be more romantic.

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  • Serial killer. Get out now

  • He loves you... May be he wanted to see the same passion and feeling in your eyes...

  • WTF xxxxxxxxc

  • That's cute, kissing is loving

  • WTFF