Forced sex, domination?

Who knows, how can you explaine that person is into forced sex? what it tells about this person's personality? I ask because this last year i'm clearly into forced and being submissive turns me on, especially the idea of being taken. Before the biggest turn on was oral and being adored and worshiped, more soft. Any idea about psichology aspect about this?
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  • Actually this kind of thing is a grey area, many people have a strange view about what bdsm Is or should be. They fall in to a couple different groups but be careful as a lot of guys that say they are doms are not interested in or respect what women or their subs want. Remember as a sub, it is you that is REALLY in control. You have to set the boundaries and trust the dom to respect them. Giving yourself to someone in this way is very powerful emotionally so make sure they are in it for the right reasons

    • Ofcourse i trust. This domination only takes place during sex and its careful and nice. I mean the idea of man taking me is very hot for me, but sure i get respect and trust to do this things. its like a role i think. im not into degradation and very rough stuff so i try to meet accurate guys.

    • You know at some point. That specific kind of Dom you are looking for is either going to stop wanting to Dominate you or he will want to test your boundaries... The first one is less likely

    • what do you mean, to test me?

  • You're getting to know yourself better. Some of us, like me, are Doms. Others, like you, are subs. It's just who we are. If you have a bf, tell him about your fantasies. Pick a safe word so he'll know that even though you may fight and cry out stop or no, he can safely keep going unless he hears the safe word. If he hears it, he stops immediately so you can talk.

    Make sense?

    • Yes sure, im not into that rough sex but thanks for the idea

    • I'm confused. How can forced sex and physical domination not get at least a little rough?

    • What's so strange? For me is a no No:strangle, spit, gag, degradating words slaps or biting until bleeding -this is rough. The rest is ok.

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  • being submissive really turns me on too. well it's more of a guy being dominant and aggressive. like the fact that he wants me so bad that he's just going to take it. also it's like manly to me when the guy is dominant. like even if I said no he still wants me and my body so badly that u can't even stop him. it sounds kinda scary haha now that I'm saying it but as a fantasy it really turns me on.

    • The same) only i wanted to know what it means on the psichological level. I mean manly/submissive it's pretty obvious.

  • Their the general behavior you see men act kike alphas but i don't think that relates to your type of dominance. People lie about themselves all the time meaning that if you want it rough just ask for it because if you're waiting to find traits it's like reading minds and that impossible. I may be wrong.

  • I love it but I don't know how I would explain. It's not wrong as long as it's safe sane & consensual

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  • You just be upfront and let a guy and let him know that you are a bad girl that needs to be controlled and forcibly taken, Some guys are not into that, but the ones that are will understand you and force you.

  • that's calle... rape

    not a good thing

    • No it's not rape. You clearly don't know what role playing is.

  • forced sex= rape
    if a person say a no the other party refused to listen and act on it it is rape.
    is that ur definition of forced sex?

    • No wait, my man knows that i want it that way. Its like a game i guess, where he is dominant and takes me whenever he wants and this is what turns me on.

    • ok i understand now. i like to be submissive in the bedroom too. it shows the manly side of the guy

  • Please, stay away from me.

  • Girl, ur gonna get raped.