Found a condom in her purse? what does that mean?

I've been with my gf for almost a year and we rarely have sex, like twice in our whole relationship. So today i give her a ride to work and she forgot her purse in my car, it was slightly opened and i peaked a little, anyways i end finding a condom! im not sure what that means, i dont think its for me as we rarely have sex and im not sure what do? is she cheating? should i confront her about this? im just pissed and dont know how to handle this
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  • Only sex twice in a year, but has a condom?

    I would definitely ask her about it.

    The key is to NOT listen to her words so much... but gauge her reaction. Read her facial expression and body language as she responds (or doesn't respond) to your question.

  • There are only two conclusion:
    1- it is for you
    Or
    2- it is for the other guy.
    You rarely have sex. She might be horny girl who might (heyyy not guaranteed okay?) have been getting banged by opportunistic guy.

    Do you use condoms?

    • And bro... you have to dump her immediately after getting unsatisfactory answer when you ask. Don't text.. Ask face to face. Girls are over smart and it doesn't take time for them to fool innocent guys.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why aren't you having sex? Isn't that a problem?

    I don't think she's cheating. It's probably just a left over one from long ago and she never cleaned out her purse.

  • Most women carry a condom just in case so it might have been in there for a long time. I'd ask her about it if you're really concerned, but don't freak out.

  • The only way to know is to ask her if not think back on what's been going on. Has she been different lately?

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  • All you can do is ask. I think most girls carry one in case. Doesn't mean it wasn't for you, but you may want to say you are concerned since you don't often have sex.

    • by the way you could check the date on the condom to see if it's recent but it's still not going to give you a definitive explanation.

  • You only had sex twice in a year? Yeah, you have issues, dude. She is likely cheating.

  • It means she carries a spare in case you 2 get it on in your car

  • Dump that whore.

  • I found a condom inside her purse today. She was given a bag of condoms two days ago at the clinic.
    Honestly we have sex everyday without condoms and we live together. Well she had to ran some errands with her family and I as well did my personal stuff to well everything was going well until we met up face to face while still in good senses but what got my attention is that she had money from somewhere to pay for some classes etc. Right so she open her purse in front of me and that's when everything went to good to unpleasant moment that I confronted her about it she didn't had asutiable for me and the principal of carrying it around on her while she not around me is what eats me inside.. so I asked why her response was a weak one and so I kept on talking about it doubting her of why and she got aggressive her tone raised and started saying that I'm always mind fucking her but honestly I'm a major observer and always be waiting on the next fault or mistake my close ones are bound to do.. but she gets verbally agressive puting me down making me feel guilty of confronting her kindly about a red flag situation that she is showing she don't care about self control or not even maturing emotionally.
    But whenever I'm at fault I have to hear her perspective and all that her delusional mind has to offer she is super jealous for ex. We go to the nearest convenient store and if there's some random female that I didn't see and lift up my head to see where I'm walking , and boom make eye contact by accident with them not even contemplating on lusting nor gazing at no one else she gives me hell in front of everybody cursing me and at the random female I always handle her tantrums humbly I try to explain the true fact that I'm innocent of her delusional mind distortion I always have to soak it all in but yet she is difficult to make understand her insecure personality gets in her head etc... But I'm concerned of finding that condom in her purse today and the fact that she had money on her and other dudes been calling her cellphone everyday but only answers when I'm not around etc. Has anyone been through this I need advice please I love her but I feel like she does anything she wants her why and got to abide in it and worship her or else all hell raises..

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  • Ask her about it. Tell her her purse feel over