Found out husband has been sexting and exchanging pics with his ex for 15 years what to do?

Husband had a fiancee before he met me. They dated for 2 years and then she broke up with him. He was devastated. He met me we have 5 kids married for 10 years and I found his secret emails to this girl spanning 15 years. They would always sext and exchange revealing pics. He said he misses her and thinks about her when having sex with me. Does he still love her? What should I do?
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  • Tell him is a pig and he will no longer have any sex from you or hot food. If he want divorce he will need to pay for kids (5-that will be a big FUCK, for him)
    My advice is to not brake up that you 2 are a family and have olso kids, but he need ne learn from 0 what is the respect. Afther 10 yare whit a woman who give you 5 kids and you decid to marry her you should know what you want (husband).
    What it whas if you whas doing the same?

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  • Sorry about your situation. But not a lot, only thing you can hope for it doesn't end up him having sex. But I can understand my first wife. was on to her Fourth boyfriend , before she walked out.
    If it's just sexting, he may well get bored or remember why they split up in the first place...

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  • You have been living a lie for the past 10 years. I would be quite enraged!

    However, you have five children, obviously all in their most tender years. Maybe he will respond to an ultimatum, but he may also find a better way to hide his tracks.

    • Do you think he still has feelings for her

    • There's no other reason to stay in touch with someone under these circumstances.

    • But she hurt him. He hated her.

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  • Yes he still love her, but he have sex and have children only with you, so there's that.

  • The right thing and divorce him... You can't build anything of distrust and lies

  • That is cheating and you both should see a relationship counseling professional.

    • How is it cheating?

    • The cheating on is true by virtue of the intimate time that he has been giving to the ex which is time stolen from your relationship and the guy is still sharing his body with her because of the pictures he sends to her. Those sweet words of seduction are not for anyone but his wife of so many years.

  • i think you should drop him, he deserves to be alone

  • You will have to make a decision. She was being the sidekick, you still had your position al the times.

  • Umm I think your marriage is safe and you should not worry about it. He will not cheat on you

    • He already has cheated on her.

    • @DeeToPlay it can't get any worst. Past is in the past

    • Oh but how wrong you are. Not addressing this issue will only have negative results because one must be aware that sweeping this under the rug and hoping it will go away never got good reviews. No matter how hard it must be fully addressed for the health of your relationship.

  • Make a copy on a flash disk then cut off his dick

  • He may not have ever gotten over her

  • That’s the same as cheating, I’d dump his ass.
    That’s not how you respect the girl that respects you!

  • Divorce him...

  • You should make happy yourself as well, you can't do much about it..

  • That’s really strange, they shouldn’t have broke up then and I wonder if she has someone and doing the same, it’s because he wants what he can’t have is the infatuation, if he got back with her it wouldn’t last anyway , you have more with him than anyone else, probably should go to counseling