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Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.

Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.

I have read statics that fewer than 25% of women ever have an orgasm from intercourse and that both fingering and oral can improve their odds of finishing. Oral requires time and an intimate setting but fingering can be done more casually. Some guys, especially those new to or inexperienced in fingering substitute finger(s) for the action of a penis...simple thrusting, and don't take full advantage of what a hand can do, which is to simultaneously reach all three pleasure points.

Clean hands, clipped nails and adequate lube are assumed. Insert your index and middle finger into her vagina, bent into a "C". They will pass in more easily if they are stacked, rather than side by side. Once inside, spread them side by side laying them behind her pubic bone as shown in the illustration. That's her G-spot. Your thumb will be pointing up and will be resting on her clitoris. Your ring finger will fall near her anus. Ease it in to the first knuckle. You are now ready for action.

No need to be rough or aggressive. She will be getting so much sensation that short, soft strokes are all she needs. Just repeatedly draw your fingers together a little and then press them back in again. This will massage her clitoris vertically, stroke her G-spot and re-penetrate her anus with each stroke. You can add side to side motions at her clitoris and G-spot. When she starts to buck and breathe erratically, you can add pressure and speed but don't lengthen your stroke. If she takes your wrist and guides you, do what she wants and don't overrule her.

When she comes (she almost certainly will), be even more alert to what she wants. Some girls will want you hand "outa there" so they can press their legs tightly together while they come. Others will want you to keep going. If they do, you will feel her orgasm as both vagina and anus clench your fingers. by the way. Doing this may give a girl a "need to pee" feeling. It will probably be a "false reading". Tell her not to pinch this back because it will retard her orgasm. Even if it isn't, any guy worth his testicles won't mind that sudden warm feeling in the palm of his hand.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I just learn soo much from 2 minutes of read this... Thank you

    • Yes I agree. Different strokes for different folks. I have found that gentle back and forth strokes with an index finger along her outer labia to start with before going inside is a must unless you are both hot and she’s already wet. Many women like simultaneous clit stroking and a finger inside. There is one thing the article misses that is that when you find pressure increasing on your finger while stroking her g spot and you feel her getting really wet push your ring and third finger up behind her pubic bone and start an up and down motion vigorously and feel every movement she makes. Don’t be in a hurry, You’ll feel her body stiffen and jerk exactly like ours at the point of orgasm and she will squirt a clear liquid. Heaven! It took me some practice but eventually I got it and now I do it by popular request over and over. But remember guys this is mainly for her pleasure which she deserves as much as you. Take your time, be ultra sensitive to her movements and have a great time. If God had meant us to do this he would have given us a penis and her all those bits.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I swear to god my boyfriend read this.

    • @cxxlin read it or needs to read it?

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  • The g spot location is different on this diagram than on ones I've seen before but aren't there technically 3 or 4 of them?

  • Interesting... Lmao sounds like that one i made about the 18+ guide haha

  • Do you accept disciples? Can I call you sensei?

    No, but really, I learned so much! I didn't know there even were techniques like this. Thank you sir for saving me from ignorance.

    • It's all about giving her the pleasure that comes so easily to us, Kōhai.

  • Good take!

  • Makes scene to me

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