Four Ways to Mandhandle Your Girl (That Most Will Like)

Disclaimer: Use at your own discretion. These are things submissive (traditional female sexuality) are turned on by but this may contradict a woman's political beliefs and/or her uncommon desire to be the aggresor/dominant one. Also, this is only for girls who already are attracted to you but you are feeling you're not being dominant enough to turn them on sexually.

Here are four manhandling techniques you've probably used when you were really really into a girl but can be duplicated on any girl in order to give her a feeling of being dominated by a strong, sexual man.

Pin her against the door/wall

When you think the moment is right push her up against the wall or the door as it's closing and then start making out/groping her passionatly as if the moment just overcame you. This can be cheesy if done too frequently with the same girl but is generally a good way of tapping into one of the few reasons girls abandon their "rule" of waiting--they secretly or not so secretly love feeling loved. If she's having a bad day or just got dumped by her bf/etc. they can often jump shallowly into sex with someone they don't even like. Hopefully for you this is a girl who actually does like you but regardless a good pin against the wall can be VERY sexy to a girl psychologically who likes the guy taking such control.

Four Ways to Mandhandle Your Girl (That Most Will Like)

- Your sweetheart that you think only has sex to make her man happy

Rip her clothes off

Again, this is simply something to do if you're already having sex with a girl but just want to make it a little more sexy for her (sad i have to say this but apparently some guys have thought i meant any random girl on the street) If you've ever bought your girlfriend sexy underwear you know it's actually not generally too expensive. As such, ripping her panties or thong off with one quick, decisive pulll can be very sexy and dominant to a woman. It's best to do this with a woman who's already excited to be having a sex with you not a woman who's hearts not in it as she'll be more concerned with her clothes than your dick. Also, pay for whatever you ripped in the heat of the moment afterward--like I said it's not that expensive.

Four Ways to Mandhandle Your Girl (That Most Will Like)

Spank her

Probably the one you thought I'd start out with, but let's break down why it's effective. First, it's psychologically a turn on to a lot of women. I've seen countless women who take me to task on everything in conversation enjoy being put over my knee and spanked and then be confused why they liked it so much. Yet again, if the girl is really not into it don't push it but if the girl is giving you the lead then consider trying it out. Another thing to consider: ass slapping is more psychologically a turn on than a physical turn on because of the loud sound it makes while at the same time not causing much physical pain because of all the fat cushioning. The sound makes her feel dominated but even if you leave a hand print it probably won't hurt her. Again, judge every situation on a case by case basis but every girl i've been with has enjoyed it immensly and never said it was too hard.

Four Ways to Mandhandle Your Girl (That Most Will Like)

Pulling her hair

The key here is again dominance. By grabbing her hair at the root you can control the direction her head goes (usually want it up.) Many girls enjoy having that control taken away by a guy who's in strong dominant and in control of the situation. The problem of course is both us men as well as women are told that this is wrong on a political level so approach it with cautious however again when a girl is getting horny she's a different woman than when you're out to dinner at her favorite italian restaurant. But yeah always pay attention to if she's enjoying it and if she's not stop immediatly.

Four Ways to Mandhandle Your Girl (That Most Will Like)

So, there we go. Nice guys especially should pay attention. Good sex is 95% psychological stimulation (tapping into what she personallly THINKS is hot) and 5% what actually feels good which is why studying a million books on how to eat a girl out doesn't really give her orgasms like being a strong dominant male in the bedroom. also don't feel like you have to be dominant outside of the bedroom if you don't want--a woman's sexuality is different from her regular personality. Oh, and this is obvious but if she's digging her nails into your back you're doing something extremely right.

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  • Spanking is a must. Any girl who has sex with me knows that I'm going to do that. It'll happen. Maybe not consistently but it'll happen lol. The rest might or might not. Not that much of a rough sex person, but I do like some aspects of it.

    As far as your last statement I think it really depends on the girl. Do plenty of girls like rough sex? Hell yeah they do, but there are some who don't like being roughed up too.

    Her digging her nails into my back? 👍👍👍

    • good man haha

    • Look who's here. How about deleting this comment too?

    • i'm lost... what are you talking about?

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  • I approve of all of this. Rough sex is great and everything you mentioned is spot on. I especially like hair pulling, biting, spanking, and even some choking. It's a huge turn on :)

    Like you mentioned though, some women aren't into rough sex so the guys who want to try these things should just make sure the girl they're with is okay with it beforehand.

    • wow choking good to know! def something you have to be cautious/careful about but i bet is great

    • Oh definitely. It requires a lot of trust for sure but yeah, it is great :)

    • I llike pinning my girl or spanking her, and it gets her hot, but I am intensely repulsed by choking in any form. If I do the others but not that, would that be enough?

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  • I love everything except being spanked.

    I have never, ever found the enjoyable.
    Unless it is literally a pat. And then what's the point? There isn't much of a sound at all. I don't like any inkling of pain, at all, whatsoever.

    Just make sure your partner is okay with what you're doing before you do it! You should never do something that makes your partner uncomfortable or in pain. A conversation should always be had about it. You could even ask right in the moment.

    • I've just never liked rough sex. I like all of those things toned down a couple notches :P

    • :p you're fragile nothing wrong with that

    • ha! very true :P

  • All sounds good to me

  • Yes, please. Wish I could get my guy to be a bit more aggressive some times.

  • hmmmmmmm,,,

  • no. none of that feels good. sex should actually feel good. him trying to get pff feeling macho by doing unpleasant things s not a turn on.

    i like inning but either way. being pinned or pinning him. its tiresome everyone attaching 'dominance' 'aggresion' to things that can just feel good bc of the impact and intimacy and adrenaline rush.

    also the one who's doing all the work is not dominating. think of slaves carrying their masters around doing whatever they bid. obviously with sex you only do what you're allowed to do-or else its rape- its not true control. just the illusion of control. while really you're just aiming to gain approval.

  • Great MyTake. I love these things so much.

    • thanks!

  • Everything but the hair pulling - reminds me too much of grade school... and it hurts... o. O

    • What if the hair pulling is real light? Not hard or anything like that?

    • @LittleSally good example of why discression is needed. If that is shown, he might have figured that, maybe because he mentioned it in an earlier conversation? Also know of girls who'd freak out (not in the good way) from spanking, because of previous corporal punishment. just an example.

    • @dartmaul15 You're right...

  • mmm mmmm MMMM! 😈

    • damn so many lowkey badgirls in our midst

    • u have no idea. 😏

    • I don't understand the downvotes.

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  • I'm not into spanking at all but the rest are fine. They're basic moves that are fun when done right (of course with the right person). Of course, I want to do it all to him too! I don't know why guys ALWAYS have to be in charge, lol. I am a switch.

    • lol you're a futuristic lady. i bet a lot of guys would be into switching around but would never ever want a soul to know

    • I too am a switch, it's not as fun when your partner is always Dom. or Sub.

    • I think there are more guys who are into switching than we think. I even see it on this website with posts made by some guys (most are anon though). Crap like 50 Shades of Gray have just enforced the idea that men are dominant and women are submissive and there's no in between or whatever. So people are afraid to admit that they don't fit the perceived "norm". @Jager66 I think that would get boring after awhile.

  • good take! all things i like very much, but more than that i like how you talked about what your partner actually likes, and how it's more of a psychological turn on than physical. pretty true!

    • thanks!

  • Everything but spanking =perfect

  • But... won't having your back pushed against a wall when you're boning be really cold?

    • if you're really into it you won't notice but yeah maybe a little : )

  • I haven't ripped clothes off. I haven't soanked yet. But I have done everything else including biting her inner thighs.

  • This is just perfect ❤ I almost got turned on by this take 🙊

  • Amazing mytake 😊

    • that means a lot coming from Brazil! thanks!!

  • ... yes please! :)

  • Oh I would so be into that.

  • I'll take "Pinning her against the wall".

  • Actually, yes. If I wanted a girl in bed, I'd be a lesbian. So guys, don't be afraid to be men

    • what's that "actually" about? hahah

    • I was referring to everything in the article, because it is just too true. Whoever tells guys to go gently, don't believe it, lol. Just slam us against a wall, we can handle it

    • "Whoever tells guys to go gently, don't believe it, lol." Do you really want to be encouraging men to ignore what their partner says they want? What if someone took that advice and went against what she said and ended up hurting her or making her feel violated?

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  • Man!!! the old wall pinning move. It's an odd turn on when she looks up at me with those doe eyes as she pressed up against a wall like she's cornered then kissing her neck and her ear then whispering "your so fucking beautiful" then going at her... such a fucking kink for me

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