Friends with benefits acting really weird, is he about to break it off?

My friends with benefits has been wanting to see me more. Three times this week. Usually it’s twice a month. The last time we were together, it was more intense. Lots of tongue kissing (we never kiss) during missionary after us both doing oral and me riding him. He just now text me at 1:20 am asking me how my day has been and I told him and ask him how his was and he said long he just got off work. I said oh you need a back rub them thinking he just wants to hook up and he told me sounds good but he’s about to go to sleep. I’m confused lol I feel like he’s trying to get up the nerve to tell me he doesn’t want to see me anymore because he’s getting serious with someone else. Should I bring it up or just ride it out and see what happens? We’ve been hooking up for 3 years.

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  • Maybe catching feelings?

    But it does seem like he wants more sex or just is trying to find the time to break it off.

    Did you text him we need to talk? Going to end it? My heart would hurt not knowing

Most Helpful Guys

  • You think he's reading out to you more because he wants to end it? That doesn't make sense. Most likely he's catching feelings for you.

    • After 3 years? I’m not sure it’d take that long.

    • There are no rules for how long it takes for someone to catch feelings. 3 years is a long time and I'd bet 100% he has, at least, some feelings for you. You'd have to be heartless to NOT develop feelings for someone after being intimate with them for 3 years. People also grow up. He may be ready to settle down and sees you as a good option since there's already a well established relationship (yes friends with benefits is still a relationship).

  • If you had sex 3 times this week it does not sound like he wants to break it off.

    • I kind of feel like he’s trying to see me as much as he can before he does.

    • Well maybe just ask him?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He really likes you!

  • If he does, I don't think you'll be able to make use of it anymore.

  • He wants to go more further!

  • People your age are into friends with benefits too? Get a life woman 🤦‍♂️

    • Yeah after two long term terrible relationships. If you don’t like an irrelevant strangers content then scroll your miserable ass on by idiot.

    • Hoe calling me miserable 🤣

    • I hope you don't fuck your kids in few years

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