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Friends with benefits asked to cum inside...?

I've recently met someone that I have begun a sexual relationship with. It is extremely complicated and although the time we spend together is limited, it is of high quality. Last night he asked me if he could cum inside and I agreed. What would be the reasons for him asking this? I understand it is primal, but given the type of relationship we have (FWB) and the complicated nature of it, I was somewhat surprised. Interested in your thoughts.
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I agreed because I was in the moment, it felt right and the connectedness of it all. I like him a lot, but it isn't going to end well, so I want to enjoy the experience now I suppose.
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  • I'm more inclined to know why you agreed. As for him, what better place would there be to cum than inside of the girl. He doesn't have to pull out, he doesn't have to stop having sex with you before he cums, there's no mess to clean up. Outside of the fact that it can get a girl pregnant, its the best place to cum.

    • I suppose it was more about the moment for me. It felt right and it's a pretty nice experience to watch a man cum and enjoy it when it is inside.

  • It feels better than any other type of orgasm there is, and yes its primal. You could do everything else sexual there is but its the pinnicle of satisfaction and after a while I'd get bored of oral and ejaculating elsewhere

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would just be careful w/ that situation since I don't know how the trust level is or w/e, but it would def only get more complicated if it got more intimate u know? The only reason I can think that he asked u that is b/c he's a guy, haha. But he could also have feelings for u too.. def should talk it out :o)

  • It's a lot better for the guy to cum inside because he can keep having sex while he cums instead of pulling out. My friends with benefits guy asked the same thing and I let him.

  • Can you still get pregnant? If so, I would take the chance. It can be as simple as being primal.If wants, so he asked, and you said yes. Its a Win for him

    • No, safe other ways. Both of us would not want that. It would create a disaster of a situation.

    • Ok its primal and it feels better for both parties. If you both trust each other and clean, I say have Fun, but I wouldn't try too much into

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  • I agreed SHOULD HAVE BEEN - OK, so long as we get married IF there's a baby
    otherwise, you just agreed to being a single Mom
    so you both could enjoy a feeling, as if it were an exotic cocktail

  • What would be the reasons for you to agree?

    • For me, in the moment, the connectedness, the experience.

    • Probably those were his reasons too. He felt like doing it.

  • That's how you get pregnant, ladies and gentlemen.

    • She could just abort the pregnancy

    • Obviously, but not remotely what either of us are thinking and not what the question was either.

    • Or use contraception aka pills. And morning after pill, but that's not good for you regularly - more like once in a while.

  • Suprised that he asked or suprised he wanted to?

    • Surprised he wanted to.

    • Idk, maybe he wanted to feel more intimate

  • lets hope you were on the pill

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