Friends with benefits blocked me cause I texted another guy to pick me up after sex. Was I wrong?

[Anonymous]

[BasedBaeBecca]

It's important to remember that everyone has different expectations and boundaries in relationships, including in friendship with benefits situations. If your friend with benefits feels like texting another guy was crossing his boundaries, then it's best to respect his decision to block you. It doesn't necessarily mean that you were "wrong" per se and you both might have different ideas about what's acceptable or not in a friends with benefits situation. It could be wise to communicate with your friend and clear up any possible misunderstandings before coming up with a mutually respectful and comfortable agreement.

[NuitBlanche]

You didn't have any obligations to the other one. So no. You perhaps shouldn't told him. It is private what you do

[Asker]

I didn’t tell him he just asked if I was meeting another guy, I’m assuming he seen over my shoulder and was watching my phone screen

[Billlewis]

No, you weren't wrong at all, and he should have recognized that the fact that you had another guy pick you up after you'd just had sex with him is actually a very revealing gesture on your part -- because if you're using the other guy exclusively for a ride home after you've just been fucked by the first guy, you obviously don't view him as a viable lover. I wish I could have been the second guy; it would have turned me on tremendously to give you a ride home after you'd just finished having sex with your friends with benefits's.

[ohsheeT]

Hey is that first guy I wasn't going to give you a ride you need a ride so what else were you supposed to do should have just called me damn it girl friends with benefits

[summiter]

Your friends with benefits needs to know it is just about the sex. He does not own you. How is the sex with him? Is it worth it if he is acting weird like this?

[MementoMori777]

i believe the whole friends with benefits stuff is wrong but according to the rules of society, no you didn't do anything wrong, he must have just gotten jealous

[MikeTheBartender]

Depends... Was he gonna have sex w you too?

[ProbablyClueless]

you weren't "wrong" per se, but that was a pretty foul thing to do.

[Asker]

I didn’t tell him though he seen over my shoulder. Still foul? Is there any way I can get him to talk to me I did text on a different app I was blocked on but he ignored it

[ProbablyClueless]

Still extremely foul. lmao On the upside, you might be able to talk with your friends with benefits again after you've given him time to cool off, but you can't rush that situation

[Asker]

Should I apologise or give it more time (this was 4 days ago)

[ProbablyClueless]

You might wait a few more days and try apologizing then.

[CantMissIt]

There's no such thing as "just sex" no matter how much people try and justify it.

[Sharkstealth]

I wish I was your friend

[kellytheman]

Nah if he just a friends with benefits he should have no reason to block you just cause you had someone pick you up. friends with benefits is just sex and nothing else but he might be developing some feelings or thinks your in a relationship where you guys only can have sex each other and might think you having sex with the guy that picked you up.

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

I think you're just using men

[Mangospacho]

First you’re the bad guy for daring to ask him for a ride home from his place. Then you’re the bad guy for getting a ride home from someone else after he refused to drive you home? Great guy, this friends with benefits is.

[In_Trance]

serves you right

[OddBeMe]

No, it’s benefits not marriage. Plus I’d be hard just thinking about that cuck picking you up while you’re filled with my cum. Lol

[Dantezam]

If you were friends with benefits, he should not react like that, I mean you don't have any commitment to him

[Asker]

Right? Also he’s free to do the same he said he’s not seeing anyone else I can even check his room I told him I don’t mind. That he’s free to do that as we are in a relationship. Guess he doesn’t understand the idea of a casual situation.

[Asker]

Not in a relationship ***

[Dantezam]

Apparently he thinks you're committed to him lol. Hope you let him know that isn't like that

[Asker]

He blocked me. I did text him but he ignored it. Is there any way I can rectify it?

[Yellovv]

Why you didn't tell him to take you home instead of that guy?

[karekaaaa]

I think he like more
Or thought that the other guy is better
I don't know tbh