Friends with benefits etiquette?

Going to hook up with a friends with benefits for the 1st time but I don't know the proper post hookup etiquette- should I cuddle? talk? sleep over? just get up and go? not text him the next day? GUYS & GIRLS what do you think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This is a point of contention. Some want the friends and the benefits at the same time. Some don't mind them served separate.

    If you're at his place ... cuddle briefly. If you want to leave, leave. If not, just tell him to let you know when you should head home. If he wants you to go he'll give you some excuse and just go with it. Just make it so he know's your receptive and cool to talk to about it. If you stay take his lead with what happens.

    If he's at your place. Once he cums and pulls out, look him in the eye and say "now get out". Say you're kidding. Then do what you want. Give him an excuse if you want him gone. If you sense he wants to go, let him know that's OK.

    In any event you should text him within 24 hours just to say you had fun.

    • Asking if you work tomorrow, or when you need to get up, etc, is a clue saying you should go.

  • Whatever's best, whatever works. If you wanted a bunch of rules, you would have gotten a boyfriend; this, you negotiate on the fly.

Most Helpful Girl

  • With FWB it is usually just sex. You don't cuddle after, not really talk too much either. Guys are usually affraid of falling for the girl so keep contact other than kissing to minimum.

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  • Depends on your comfort zone and how far you are willing to go.

    • whats your personal opinion?

    • I'd assume any guy would want to go all the way (sex) and maybe some cuddle/talking. If its a fcuk buddy type of scenario then you can contact him whenever you are horney. If its more or a friends with benefits, then you might want to text within the day after up to 3days.

    • sex cuddling talking.. how is that not a relationship? / generally friends with benefits is a misnomer and people treat friends with benefits as f*** buddies- meaning they just f***. you are not expected to do anything but f***. anything else is up to you. why not discuss his comfort zone with the 'friend' himself- so you do not alienate him or you by accident?