Friends with benefits wants us to take a shower together?

We've been friends with benefits for 3 months now and each time we have sex , he goes in an shower by himself. So yesterday at work I got a text from him saying "I wanna see your thick ass, I wanna take u back to be my place so we can take a shower yfm". I don't know what to expect also I don't feel too confident in my body he's seen me naked a lot of times but when we have sex the lights are dimmed or the blankets are over us so I'm kind of worried about that.
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Superb Opinion

  • If you like they guy and are having sex, I don't see the harm in showering together. In addition to wanting to see your ass, he may want to have sex in the shower. If you're not comfortable, do a striptease instead so you can control the lighting and cover your ass quickly if you're not feeling confident.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't fret, just do it! i'm sure he's fully aware of your body proportions after 3 months... despite light dimming.

    Go.

    Have that shower.

    Get your back blown out :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • You've had sex. He knows what you look like, he's into it.

    So if thats your only worry, id say go for it. Just remember you're free to back out whenever you need - if you get there and get too nervous, just keep it to the bedroom.

    • What she said

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Seems he likes you enough.
    Don't be insecure.

  • Guys don't worry too much about the same things girls do and I'm saying this to help ease your mind. You'll be fine.

  • If you are already having sex frequently, you might as well shower with him. As for your body, women way underestimate how much a guy likes their body.

  • Go ahead and do it.

  • Go for it. Have confidence in your body! Clearly he likes it.
    And besides, dim lights don't hide as much as you think :p

  • You guy fucked naked right? Just take a shower with him. There's nothing to be upset about it's just two adults taking showers cleaning yourself up 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • Sounds like fun to me, stop worrying about letting him see you naked and just go for it.

  • If you're having sex with him, he wants to/ likes to se you naked.

  • He clearly likes your body more than you do so I say go for it!

  • Do whatever you are comfortable with.

  • tell him... only if, the only light in the bathroom is 1 candle, until you get more comfortable and confident... and Hubba-hubba, have fun

  • Even if you don't have sex showering together is great

  • shower together its fun

  • Don't think too much
    Anyways he likes your ass
    Show it up

  • go for it

  • If done right shower sex can be loads of fun
    Just try to enjoy it

  • do u really have thick ass tho?

  • I feel like these friends with benefits agreements are confusing because they're a half assed version of a relationship. Kinda like pretending.
    I don't know how you feel.
    I never had a friend with benefits, just a wife.

  • come on, go with the mood, what are you afraid of?