FUCK THIS SHIT. I WILL NEVER MARRY A WOMAN.

[Jamie05rhs]

What women look like on the Inside.

I'm done. I'm literally done. I am NEVER getting married. Hell to the NO. Not happening!!

Once again, it has been proven to me beyond a shadow of a doubt that women are not worth dealing with. And certainly not worth living with. I would rather get tied up and dragged behind a truck on a rough gravel road with fire ants in my shirt, leeches on my face, and piranhas in my underwear.

I wasn't even trying to DATE this chick! I was just trying to be her friend! But she is such a CUNT! She is IMPOSSIBLE to be friends with!

"Why, Jamie?," you may ask? Why is this individual such a cunt? What did she do to turn you off of women forever and for all eternity?

…Well, thank you very much for asking! Let me tell you!

First of all, she is SO negative! She complains about every little thing. And even things that haven't happened yet, she whines and complains about them, anticipating what MIGHT go wrong!

…But let me give you a little bit of a background here, to bring you up to speed. This is a friend of mine who I met at a large gathering several years ago. We hit it off there, and we had some great conversations, so we decided to keep in touch. I went to visit her in her city a few years ago. We had a great time. Now she's coming to visit me.

But between then and now, something happened to her. Either that or her true character is just coming out now. Regardless, there is something seriously wrong with this person.

When she asked to come visit me, I enthusiastically said Yes! I am a very hospitable person, and I love having visitors. However, when she said that she wanted to practice witchcraft when she was staying at my home, I politely informed her that I would not be comfortable with that. So I arranged for her to stay in a cabin at a campground.

(Yes, I know. That should have been my first sign, you will say. But I'm a libertarian, and I always try to be accepting and tolerant of everyone, no matter what their beliefs are.)

Now, the cabin is modern and fully furnished. And it has a grill outside. So she told me that she would like to have a cook-out and cook supper on the grill. I told her that was a great idea!

This is where the insanity begins. About a week after we had agreed on having the cookout, she informed me that she doesn't even know HOW to cook food on a grill! I asked her, "Why did you want to have a cookout on the grill if you don't even know how to grill?" She said, "I assumed you would know, since you're a country boy." I said, "The hell I am! I'm from the suburbs, bitch!" (Just kidding. I didn't actually say that. But it sounds better when written that way.) Anyway, she apologized for stereotyping me, and I thanked her for her apology.

Later on, though, I was thinking to myself, and I was like, "Fuck it. Okay, maybe I don't know how to grill. But I can learn!!" So I put my thinking cap on, applied myself, and pulled myself up by my bootstraps. I learned how to grill.

This is where things start getting really weird. I told her that I had learned how to grill, and I explained the process to her and everything that it entails. I THOUGHT that she would be happy. But no…. Not THIS woman! The first thing out of her mouth was negativity and complaining.

"I'm worried. This is going to take too long."

"Well, that's why I'm going to slice it long-ways in half into thinner pieces so that it will cook more quickly."

"But it's going to fall through the grill."

"No, it isn't. It's a large, broad piece of meat. It's going to be resting on at least four bars that will support it and hold it up."

"But it's going to get black gunk on it."

"No, it's not. Because I'm going to clean the grill first."

"But it still might get burn marks from the bars."

"So we can lay foil down to protect it."

"But I want it to have the "grill" flavor."

At that point, I was fed up. I said, "Okay. Now I am thoroughly confused. What exactly DO you want?"

"I don't know…"

I said, "You know, if this is going to be too stressful for you, we could always just cook the food inside in the kitchen."

"No; it's going to be too hot. It will steam the place up, and I will be sweaty and uncomfortable."

So I said, "Well, we can have a cold meal, then. I can buy cold cuts from the Deli and we can have sandwiches and a salad."

"Nooo. I really wanted to cook a meal."

"Well, if you can't cook it outside, and you can't cook it inside, then where do you think we're going to cook it?"

"I don't know…"

Then I said, "Hey, I have an idea! You know what? I can just cook the food at my house before you arrive. And I'll just bring it over."

"NO! *I* want to cook it! [Skreeee!]"

So I said, "Well, I don't know what you really want me to do."

(F.F.S. Is eating really this hard?? Really...)

(...I mean, if it's that difficult for someone to plan a simple meal, how difficult must it be for them to function in other areas of their life? It really makes me wonder. 🤔)

Anyway, I finally convinced her that we can do the cookout and everything will be fine.

And then she's like, "But what if it RAINS?!"

"[DAMN, JACKIE! I CAN'T CONTROL THE WEATHER!!]"

(I said it in a nice way, of course.)

But seriously, though, lol: I said, "Well, we'll just make a backup plan to account for that contingency. I'll buy some cold food as well; and if it rains, we'll just eat that. And I'll put the other food in my refrigerator and save it for later. ….And if it doesn't rain; vice versa. …It's no sweat off my back. I need to buy groceries anyway."

And even after hearing that completely logical solution, she still whined. 😐 🤦

…BUT WAIT; THERE'S MORE!! 😯😮

All along, since the beginning of this planning process, she had been fussing about being anxious to get to her cabin as quickly as possible to check in and get settled. So I tried to work with her as much as I could, and I had arranged for her to arrive and check in at 4 PM. But she said that wasn't good enough. Because she wanted to get there at THREE PM! I said, "3 PM is the *start* of check-in. They don't even LET you check in before that time. It's not like you're going to be late and miss your chance if you don't get there at 3:00 exactly. You have plenty of time."

"But [waaa waaa waaa]."

…So anyway, I came up with an idea to help get her to the cabin earlier. We were going to go to the grocery store to buy the food after I picked her up and before I took her to her cabin. Well, lo and behold, I discovered that the grocery store has a free online order ahead and pickup option. 🤯 What a perfect solution! 😃 We could order our stuff, they would have it ready for us, and we could just walk in, pick up the bags, and go!

But No….. That was apparently not acceptable to Miss Prissy Princess. She rejected that idea. She said, "I want to walk the aisles myself, because I find it relaxing." (Bullshit. It's not relaxing. I guarantee you after we get out of the store she's going to complain that she's tired. Such a load of crap. SMH.) She said, "I want to get acclimated to my surroundings." (Bitch, it's a GROCERY STORE! You don't even live here! You're only going to be there once! There's nothing to get acclimated to! 🙄😑😒)

Anyway, as you can see, this is the shit that I've had to put up with so far. (And she's not even here yet!!) For someone who is JUST a FRIEND! I'm not even getting pussy out of this deal – not now, or any time in the future! So I don't know why she's making things so difficult. There is absolutely no reason whatsoever to act this way to someone who is graciously hosting you and taking 4 days off from work to entertain you and show you a good time.

Plus I'm picking her up, and dropping her off afterwards. And I'm providing all of the food.

But that isn't even all of it. You want to hear the BEST (worst) part? The cherry on top?? Wait until you hear this. THIS takes the cake!!

While we were chatting and conversing and talking about our plans, she suddenly went into a violent rage and started YELLING at me. Completely unprovoked! You want to know why? Because apparently she wanted Bone-In chicken. And I was going to get boneless chicken. And she went off on me, saying that I was disregarding her feelings, and "you never listen to me. You think you know everything, because you're a Man."

Well, first of all, I didn't appreciate the gendered insult. And second of all, she NEVER TOLD me that she didn't want boneless chicken!! (WTF??)

And she kept raising her voice and interrupting me, while all the time I was speaking calmly and trying to have a mature conversation about it. (But it was very difficult, let me tell you. I was tempted to hang up on her on at least 3 occasions. Due to her rudeness and lack of manners and common civility.)

CONCLUSION: Simply put, this woman is a psycho. And I'm going to go through with this visit – because I'm a man of my word – but I am never inviting her to my home ever again. EVER.

And this whole experience has left such a bad taste in my mouth, that I think I do not ever want to get married to a woman. Because, just imagine, fellas. IMAGINE having to put up with this shit, on a DAILY BASIS, for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!

NO, THANK YOU.

I was already on the fence before this, and I was leaning towards just remaining single. I had always wanted to get married, since I was a young boy; but I had been skeptical as well, for many years. That is why I haven't done it yet.

Well, now my position is even more solidified.

Women are toxic. We should stay far away from them. And whatever you do, don't EVER live with one. I can assure you that you will regret it.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

Have a lovely day.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Damn, that was quite a read, and I'm sorry you had to go though that - it must have been frustrating and embittering.

I say, this woman is a closed case. Fill out the last obbligation with her visit, then goodbye. But I also encourage you to not give up and realize not all women are like this and certainly there is THE woman for you out there.

I have a friend, the guy from this question Consent is needed for marriage, not divorce - agree or disagree? , who recently managed to divorce his wife. He, he like you, put all his effort and soul for a woman who didn't care and didn't appreciate. When he asked for a divorce, she opposed it. Now he found a woman who appreciates him, and the ex wife is crying bitter tears and regretting throwing it all away.

Like him, you don't need to stay away from women - you need to keep away from toxic women.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sun_Kim-Ai This is a very well-said statement, sir; and it is much appreciated. I think I'm going to give you an MHO for that.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

You are too good with me my friend. Don't waste time with women who don't appreciate you, because there are women who will.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sun_Kim-Ai Thank you so much. I really appreciate that.

[Lucy68]

As a women I want to go ahead and apologize. Not all of us are like that. As for me, I would have grilled, in the south it's one of the things females are taught from a young age😅

[Jamie05rhs]

Thank you, @Lucy68. :)

[Lucy68]

No problem, @jamie05rhs there's some good women out there.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lucy68 Thank you for giving me hope.

[Lucy68]

No problem

[Lucy68]

Thank you for the MHO @jamie05rhs

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lucy68 You're welcome!

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lucy68 @Sun_Kim-Ai @Lliam @Lightbulb27 @SnowedIn The saga continues: I found a whole organic chicken for her. She said that's not good enough. She said "I wanted a QUARTERED chicken." So I found her a package of chicken leg quarters. She said "Those are only legs. I wanted one with wings and breasts included." I said, "I can buy these, and I can also buy the package with breasts and the package of wings as well." She said "No! I want one package with everything together." So I find her a package with a whole chicken, cut into 8 pieces. But that's not good enough for her, either; because she said she's afraid that the pieces are going to fall through the cracks of the grill. (COMPLETE NONSENSE!) So then I tell her that I have searched 9 different grocery stores and this is the best thing I have found, but if she finds something that she likes better then she can show it to me and I will buy it. Then she says, "I really didn't have time for this. Please just don't find obstacles where there aren't any. It's chicken. They're everywhere." 🙄😐😑🤦😤😖😵‍💫

[lightbulb27]

was she clear up front as to what she wanted?
Seriously... where did you find this person?
I'd just call her up and tell her it's not worth it, bye.
or else end up like this.

[Lucy68]

She's a piece of work eh

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lucy68 Indeed she is!

[Jamie05rhs]

@lightbulb27 She told me what she wanted, but she wanted ME to search for it. And I didn't know what the hell she was talking about. So I tried my best, but whenever I would show her something and as "is this it?", she would say, "NO! That's not what I want!". Like, I don't get it. Why can't she just search for the damn chicken herself?

[Jamie05rhs]

When I buy chicken, I just go to the meat department and get some chicken and take it to the cash register and pay for it. And then I take it home and eat it. I don't give a f what KIND of chicken it is. It's chicken, FFS! 🤷. Honestly, it's not that complicated. I don't get all of this madness about wanting a particular body part attached to another body part but not attached to the other body part. Lol. Like, wtf? Who cares?

[Lucy68]

Im the same way. I prefer the chicken legs though 😅. But would eat the breast and t wings

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lucy68 I'm so glad you're normal. Lol

[Lucy68]

Thank you 😊

[Rosexøxø]

Instead of being a baby and yapping to us about it-

be a man..

sike-

men MATURE

and tell her what you think and/or end the relationship tie with her.

Do you realize how many men I have talked to, who have given me crap? I deserve to say men suck bison balls 🦬, but you make a whole statement and say that you’re done with women and just oh so done because of this woman? This ONE ☝️ woman?

You’re even immature because you can’t even see that her issues are not even gendered, but something mentally-related. It makes me question you, how you could pick her as a friend, even. I would never be friends with someone with that level of “bougie attitude.”

She seems to have a mental disorder. Thing is, I always had a feeling you’d go the alternative lifestyle. You talk feminine and seem to have low tolerance yourself, and seem to praise men anyways. So: short temper, and idolize men. Doesn’t do a thing for me, but I did see this in my feed, decided to read, and got pretty annoyed from the first sentence and title.

I’m annoyed at both of you. The only person you should be upset with is yourself for even making such hospitable allowance for a gir- individual like that.

Entitled, she is. And confused.

For someone very upset, you also have impeccable grammar/ punctuation- like I can actually see the effort and appreciate it, but clearly you didn’t rant to us. I wonder if this was made up or if your account is a fake.

Anyways, if it’s real- sorry you allowed her to stay with you and chose her as a friend? 🤷‍♀️

People like that, no doubt stink.

How you handle everything will be entirely up to you, you just happened to display it here for us. So naturally we can comment and would feel obligated, somehow.

All your come-backs to her seemed logical as well. If I had persisted with anyone with the likes of her, I should be sure to take those same approaches/comments OR just tell her/him to leave.

Honestly, whether anyone stays single or not, is not going to affect anyone. It may change the population numbers, slightly, but that’s about it.

Good read (in the context of story-telling/ expression).

[Jamie05rhs]

@Rosexøxø Your point about choosing toxic friends is a valid one. I don't know; I think maybe I just gravitate towards the lost and the outcasts, because I have empathy for them. Not everyone is well (mentally, physically, spiritually, etc.), but I don't think that means they need to be completely ostracized and excluded from society. Also, I'm sorry that I focused on her gender, if that was not the cause.

[devilish-cutie]

Im sorry you got fed up w dating and women but you well know there are good women out there and i wouldn't let one woman affect you so much to give up on them. This woman is not a representation of all women nor are we all the same, personality is very individual. Obviously you didn't get to know this woman well and now that you did you saw how she really is. Also friendship is a lie as you wouldn't get this annoyed if that is the only thibg you wanted. Second, obviously your true colors are coming out in this post as well, cause all the nice and good guys aren't really just like that. I dont think nothibg badly about you from this, im just poibting out to ypu that you also as everyone have your own demons.

[Jamie05rhs]

@devilish-cutie No; I genuinely do not want anything romantic with her, and I never have.

[Jamie05rhs]

Friendship is not a lie. Because men and women CAN be friends. Well, at least I think so. I know that is a huge debate here on GAG and that question comes up multiple times every year.

[devilish-cutie]

yes, i definitely think men and women can be friends! I just dont see why would you get so upset over someone who isn't even a true friend if it wasn't a love interest... and i see no point putting all women in one basket based on one woman you say you aren't even romantically interested in...

[Jamie05rhs]

@devilish-cutie I'm upset because she is my friend and she was treating me like an enemy. And I'm also upset because I was beginning to heal in some ways and beginning to believe in the goodness of women again. Partially due to the help of friends like @AmandaYVR. But this incident has set me back tremendously.

[Jamie05rhs]

And yes, I do understand that not all women are bad. It's just really hard when you think that someone is a good person and then they turn out not to be. It makes you question your judgement and your ability to discern between the two types. And that's incredibly frightening, because that makes me doubt if I'll be able to pick well. And if I don't have the ability to pick well, then THAT means that the entire venue is not worth the risk, because the risk is just too high.

[Jamie05rhs]

("venture," not venue)

[AmandaYVR]

Jamie, what are you doing? You're mixing all of this up. This woman is annoying as fuck. She doesn't seem capable, she's not self-aware, she doesn't put on a brave or optimistic face for the sake of others. You have every right to tell her that she cannot practice witchcraft in your home (especially with your religious beliefs. But she would know how you would feel about that, so why did she push for that?) But I know you. And you've painted one side of the story. You are not that flexible. Sometimes you are, and sometimes you're not. You won't turn the A/C on, even when it's hot. You cook what you cook, and they have to eat it, even if it's the same meal over and over. (I presume there are exceptions for guests/travellers.) You have rules, codes of conduct, which you make up, but may not be others'. But I have sympathy for you in this situation. You've listed no positive attributes of her (because this is a venting mytake, which is fine.) But you shouldn't be bitching about her, but also still have her come. You're really angry and fed up with her, but you're still going to go through with it? Why? You say it's because you're "honourable" and you "keep [your] word", but you get hung up on things, things that aren't important, or necessary, or and are subjective personal opinion. If you feel this strongly about this woman, end it. End all of it. Why put yourself through it. Or her. It's only prolonging yet another relationship that is not good for you. There's something else going on here. Maybe you're angry now, but know you will calm down later, and want her as a friend, still. Maybe your fixation on closure and completion is the real reason why you can't stop this collision from happening.

[AmandaYVR]

But the main thing, here, is that you just said, "Women are toxic. We should stay far away from them. And whatever you do, don't EVER live with one. I can assure you that you will regret it. FUCK THIS SHIT. I WILL NEVER MARRY A WOMAN." You're always swinging from hot and cold about women. Everyone has shit experiences with people. There are no exceptions to that. I know you're had some rotten experiences, but this woman is just one person out of billions. You should not make her significant enough to tip you into concluding that all women are toxic. There's toxic, annoying as fuck people all over. It's even worse when they're in your family. You can be angry, you can vent, but don't go around making these blanket statements about all women. It's inaccurate, and it's offensive. You mixed two things together, here. Next time, I suggest you keep some perspective and don't lump every woman into the deplorables basket. We're not your enemy. And many of us want to see you happy. But you will have to learn who to invest in, and who to throw back into the ocean. This girl is a junk fish, not worth your time.

[devilish-cutie]

Jamie dont worry, even if you sre bad at judgement you will get how people are soon enough if you are just being honest to ysf n listening your gut. You found out how this woman is without really knowing her too much. I also read what Amanda said n i think you need to accept that you want woman in your life and that is ok n normal human need dispite gettibg fed up w that need...

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR "But she would know how you would feel about that, so why did she push for that?". I know, right? She knows where I stand. I don't even know why she would think that would be a possibility. "You won't turn the A/C on, even when it's hot.". You're right; I won't. Does that make me a bad person? I don't think so. "You cook what you cook, and they have to eat it, even if it's the same meal over and over." That's absolutely false. I don't know where that came from, but certainly not from me. Absolutely preposterous. "You have rules, codes of conduct, which you make up, but may not be others." Again, what is this? Why are you making up random bullshit? Did you need to release your creative energies? I don't mind you writing fiction, but please don't write it about me. "but you get hung up on things, things that aren't important, or necessary, or and are subjective personal opinion." I do not appreciate the way that you are characterizing me. It's completely false. "If you feel this strongly about this woman, end it." There's nothing to end. Because nothing ever began. And this is not a relationship. "There's something else going on here. Maybe you're angry now, but know you will calm down later, and want her as a friend, still." Duh. Lol "Maybe your fixation on closure and completion is the real reason why you can't stop this collision from happening." It's not a collision. Everything will be fine. If I thought that it wouldn't, then I would cancel.

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR Your second comment is at least somewhat reasonable.

[Jamie05rhs]

@devilish-cutie Thank you. I really appreciate those words. I will take your advice to heart. 🧡

[AmandaYVR]

As long as I've known you, you've been swinging between complete defence of women, and then the polar opposite, and calling all women toxic and whores. I didn't make anything up. Everything I said is based 100% on things you have said.

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR You must not know me very well, then. Or you must not have been paying attention. I am very specific in the things that I say. If someone is a whore, I will call her out for being a whore. If someone needs to be defended, regardless of whether they are a whore or not, I will defend them. I am fair and impartial. If that is too hard for you to understand, then that is probably because you have started off by making the critical mistake of putting me in a box. (And you've already admitted that you can't put me in a box. But sometimes you forget that.)

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR And you made a lot of things up. And I called you out for it. And there's a reason why you can't defend your statements: it's because they are indefensible. The facts are not on your side.

[DizzyDesii]

So one woman swayed you like that. Okay whatever. I dont let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch but do your thing

[Jamie05rhs]

@DizzyDesii I'm sorry; it's just hard. It's hard when you encounter one person that is just so obnoxious and yet evil at the same time. It makes me question literally everything.

[Lliam]

LOL That was a great story, Jamie. The way you told it was hilarious.

Tell me that you at least fucked her until her eyeballs rolled back in her head and she started cursing in Latin in a demon's voice 👿👹 when she climaxed, and then walked funny the whole next day. 🤣🤣🤣

Do you think that psycho represents all women? I never had a girlfriend like that. And my wife certainly isn't.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lliam. Lol. That's inappropriate. Yes, I'm annoyed by this woman. But I'm not going to speak disrespectfully about her.

[Jamie05rhs]

Plus you know I would never do that haha. I'm waiting for marriage.

[Jamie05rhs]

And we're just friends anyway.

[Jamie05rhs]

(by the way, thank you for the compliment! I appreciate it! 🙂 )

[Lliam]

I was teasing, bro. I know you. I just got that humorous image from the way you described her, especially when she wanted to practice witchcraft. Not that I think witchcraft is malevolent. I just thought the image was funny.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Lliam Oh; okay. Lol

[musicbrain5]

She sounds unhinged and crazy. Drop her from your life. Don't let her be a poor representation of the rest of us.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Thank you, @MusicBrain5.

[MotherEarth2020]

My own sister is that kind of cunt

[Jamie05rhs]

@MotherEarth2020 Wow! I'm sorry. 💜 Do you want to share? (This is your opportunity to vent. You have a friendly crowd. Lol)

[MotherEarth2020]

Not much to say. My sister fits the type of woman you describe. She does that shit to men and to her own family

[Jamie05rhs]

@MotherEarth2020 I'm so sorry. You have my sincerest sympathy.

[OlderAndWiser]

I can't tell if this is a legitimate response to an event in your life or a parody based on fiction.

If this is real. . . there are psychos of both sexes. Most men should not be judged by women's experiences with psychopathic men and most women should not be judged by this borderline bitch.

If this is parody, it was an amusing read!

[Jamie05rhs]

@OlderAndWiser Thanks. Unfortunately it was real!

[hahahmm]

I once walked into a house where a guy I know was with a bunch of his female relatives. Grandmas, wife, wife's best friend, wife's mom. Everything was quiet and calm. I said to him, "must be fun to have so many women here". All of those women went off like grenades & started raging at him about stuff they were unhappy about. From little things like, 'you moved my soda' to other stuff. Each one yapping as if they couldn't hear the others talking. After a minute it all went out like a flame being blown out and it was calm again.

Women are like wild fire. A man is supposed to be the like the rocks that surround a campfire. So my friend didn't react to them. He just weathered the storm.

That said, don't waste time being friends with women unless she's YOUR woman.

[Jamie05rhs]

@hahahmm Yeah; I would only put up with her shit if she was MY woman. But then again... there's only so much a man can take.

[Jamie05rhs]

(When I say "her," I mean that generally. I'm not talking about this particular woman. I would NEVER, EVER, date her.)

[lightbulb27]

Witchcraft? Hillarious entertaining read, thank you man!!! You just made a bunch of us thankful for whom we are with!

Congrats... that really is a female, I have no doubts.. or maybe an alien, but probably a female. A high anxiety one that appears to be dancing around some other issues by being disagreeable. As well, it is possible you just experienced some 'mild' PMS.

It should not be "that" difficult, but it can be challenging at times.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsobF4mJJgA/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D

p. s. don't get sucked in, that one is too much for you:) Choose better...

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, @Lightbulb27!

[lightbulb27]

you so should have said regarding "witchcraft practice"..."yes", as long as I can do voodoo on your voodoo doll now. I mean, what could go wrong. It's hard to say if she was joking, fliring, etc.. The primary questions being answered in her brain... "am I secure", "does he want me", "am I loved". everything goes through that filter. she doesn't care about the food...

[Jamie05rhs]

@lightbulb27 Unfortunately she wasn't joking. And I never joke about things like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

And nah; she definitely cares about the food. She has some kind of weird obsession with it. Like it has to be perfect or something. It seems really OCD.

[lightbulb27]

and you never met her, this is first time... and she's staying a while?

[Jamie05rhs]

@lightbulb27. No; we've met before.

[lightbulb27]

only meet in public, not your house!!!

[Jamie05rhs]

@lightbulb27 Don't worry; she's not coming to my house.

[lightbulb27]

I think go find a decent, well trained Asian/chinese/filipino with two parents. much more sanity...

[Jamie05rhs]

@lightbulb27 I think Filipinas are very sweet. Sadly, I'm not attracted to them physically.

[Apple1996]

Haha took you this long to figure out that women are crazy 😆 fun read tho so thank you for sharing. Maybe you'll have better luck with another women but no lie most women act like this sometimes so it's something you'd have to get use to. I will say for the first time meeting up this is extreme. After awhile a person might get comfortable and get a bit bitchy but first few times most want to make a good impression

[Jamie05rhs]

@Apple1996 Yeah, fuck that shit. I'll let you repopulate the country for me. You're good at it. Lol

[Apple1996]

Lol next baby is for you then 🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

@Apple1996 Lmao

[SnowedIn]

Jamie, I'm sorry. And this is well written. Like, entertaining. I know you didn't go through that experience just to entertain, but, well, there it is.

Sorry man.

Not all women are like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, @SnowedIn. And I appreciate the compliment!

[BoopBoopBeep]

In the wild she would have been eaten as a cub.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol.

[Sevenpointfive]

i wonder if she's going to put a spell on you?

[Jamie05rhs]

Shit, I hope not.

[RealMarek]

Well, you certainly figured out that this particular woman is not a good match for you.

[Jamie05rhs]

Correct. But I don't think she'd be a match for anyone, tbh. She always tells me how she doesn't have any friends. Now I know why.

[Lliam]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[goaded]

OK. Enjoy your life.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, man.

[soulbabe]

Um are you sure she isn't on meth unlike you I wouldn't go threw with it fuck that

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, @soulbabe. And nah; she just has issues.

[soulbabe]

Sounds like my family honestly and in Truth I've met some actually stable women so not all are crazy no I'm not counting myself I'm aware I'm off my damn rocker

[Jamie05rhs]

@soulbabe Lol. You're fine. You're one of the good ones.

[exitseven]

I bet she turns you into a newt. I had a year or so when I dates several girls. Some were bimbos but some were very nice. None of these relationships were going anywhere. I was getting really sick of dating and getting sick of women in general. I was dating a girl I met at the college where my best friend went. I thought she was pretty and at first she seemed nice.

She used it make these veiled insults at me. I was getting sick of it but there was a concert coming up at that college so I told her to buy the tickets and I would pay her back later. I was really going to see the concert and than dump her. So that was the day I was going to give up dating forever.

Ironically it was the next day I met my future wife

[Jamie05rhs]

@exitseven You never paid her back?

[exitseven]

Nope, it was all part of the plan.

[Jamie05rhs]

@exitseven That was a really fucked up thing to do.

[exitseven]

Yes, I am not proud of it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Good

[exitseven]

However we dated for about 3 or 4 months and we went to two other concerts, one was pretty expensive and I paid for them both.

[Jamie05rhs]

@exitseven Okay. That's a lesson to the next generation of men: Don't pay for dates.

[DiegoO]

"While we were chatting and conversing and talking about our plans, she suddenly went into a violent rage and started YELLING at me. Completely unprovoked! You want to know why? Because apparently she wanted Bone-In chicken. And I was going to get boneless chicken. "

Obviously something is wrong with her. I don't want to rush with saying what it is. The only thing I can say is that don't let anyone compromise your mental health.

Also, people change. Maybe she is not the same person you knew years ago.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DiegoO Yeah, man. Good point. Thanks.

[AmeerX]

You know my male friends can be this much picky about food and choices.

Usually what we do is, for example; when I host someone I decide what to cook and eat. If you are hosting her and going to make the food as well then you should not listen to her at all.

Except may be drinks. Just cook whatever you want and she is not going to complaint at all

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, @AmeerX. Yeah, that's basically what @Staximus said as well.

[Jamie05rhs]

(Technically I disagree. Because I still want to provide people the food that they actually want. But at the same time, I do get your point.)

[AmeerX]

James, you don't have to do that for them. That's basically them being a bad guest. Imagine a person living in Asia comes to Europe. Food is different right? Of course, you don't want them to eat something totally not for them like non halal food or blood or alcohol. But cooking style should not make an issue here

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmeerX No, it's perfectly normal. :). That's what we do here in the U. S. Because everyone has different dietary preferences. So we try to accommodate them as much as possible. It's just being courteous.

[Sparkie460]

You're dating the wrong women. Where do you find these crazy women, the circus or the insane asylum? Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sparkie460 Touché, my friend. Touché.

[Sparkie460]

Come visit me and I'll help you find a normal woman

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sparkie460 Sounds good! I'm down.

[Staximus]

You can't judge all women on a bad experience you had with one that is not happy with anything. Since nothing is good enough, just show up with a pack of hot dogs, buns, and a bottle of mustard. If she says "I don't want hot dogs with burn marks or mustard" you say "well, too bad. I tried to plan a nice meal but nothing was good enough for you so hot dogs it is!"

[Jamie05rhs]

@Staximus Great idea! I love it.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Staximus You were right, man. I told her off today. She got butthurt and left and went home. I'm relieved.

[Mangospacho]

I’m sorry. I got to the part where she’s a witch and couldn’t read the rest because all I could see was….

[legalboxers]

you dodged a bullet... as once told to me on here

[Jamie05rhs]

@legalboxers Yeah. Thank you.

[Jamie05rhs]

At one point when she was yelling at me over the phone, she said that she might just cancel the trip and not come. And in my head I was thinking "I wouldn't really have a problem with that."

[Fuentes]

The block button exist for a reason after the first I don't know, what I want, that's how she gets blocked.. that's why it's so much better to. smash out these chick's then trying to figure them out.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Fuentes Yeah, I know what you mean about the block button. (Even though I don't agree with the rest. ... But it's okay; we know where each other stands.)

[Joker_]

fun read

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, bro. 👍

[Joker_]

thank you

[Jamie05rhs]

Welcome

[msc545]

You dodged a bullet brother. Remember this experience. There will be more bullets.

[Jamie05rhs]

@msc545 Very true. I've dodged bullets in the past as well. Several of them.

[msc545]

Stay on your toes!

[Jamie05rhs]

@msc545 Yes, sir.

[msc545]

lol!

[MattStoney]

You associated her behavior with her womanhood... but she's just a negative person... you didn't associate it with her personality... Do women treat u badly occasionally and thus the reason u attached this behavior to all women?

[Jamie05rhs]

@MattStoney. Hmm. 🤔. Well, when I think about it, it is true that women are the only people I have known to act this way. I have never known a man that was like that.