Guys, friends with benefits cums in me now and then?

Does it create more of a bond? Do guys only cum in girls they trust/think is attractive?

Also so while I was on top having sex he asked me who I was hanging out with afterwards cause I said I was going to the beach with a friend because he said he had to go to his mates at 12... I said just a friend and he was like ohh a boy? Anyways I said you think too much and left it. After having sex he asked so who are you hanging out with and I laughed and said a friend why? And he acted like he doesn’t care but why ask during and after sex?
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • It really depends on the guy. For some, it "means" nothing at all, they do it for pleasure and the feeling and worry about nothing else. Some are different. I personally consider it more intimate for sure and would only do it with someone I trusted. But some guys see it as nothing at all. It has nothing to do with how attractive we find you.

    But communication is very important in this situation. Ask him if he likes you, especially if you like him to. If he is developing feelings for you, you need to address it right away! Otherwise this could go very wrong.

    • Yeah that’s true. Thanks for your reply. Also could you answer the bit where he asked me that question?

    • That's why I say communicate with him. It's a bit concerning lol. It could be just curiosity on his part, but maybe he's getting a little "invested" in you. Or could also be jealousy? I think you need to find out! :)

    • How do you build romantic connection we have physical attraction and after sex we can talk for hours about religion friends and talk about one another’s travel plans but what builds a romantic connection from a guys point?

    • Show All
  • Just jealous and really...
    It does matter but more to the girl.

    If your down for some more fun. I'm sure that I can make you so wet with my words.

    • Why do you think he asked? Especially during and after sex? He kinda was like are you seeing a guy and I just said I’m seeing a friend... afterwards he asked too but he acts like he doesn’t care but is that all an act? I can’t tell with this guy I’ve been friends with benefits with him for over 2 years now

    • Its all an act since you two are just friends with benefits. He wants to be cool but is wondering

    • Wondering as in what way? Like who she fucking or fuck maybe I do like this girl so I’ll ask but act cool? Thanks for your reply :) we always end up going back to each other too so it’s like hard

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Guys Said

(12)
  • Guys, friends with benefits cums in me now and then?
    • Lol?

  • Coming inside always feel better than pulling out, that has nothing to do with bonding.

  • Caught feelings probably.
    Just because a guy cums inside you doesn't mean he cares about you. Obviously it depends on the guy. There are those out there who are very reserved but for the most part, bonding has nothing to do with it.

    • The thing is he talks to me like he sees other girls and that’s fine and I act fine but I never do but when I’m saying I’m hanging out with a friend he just assumes it’s with a guy and to ask during sex if it was another guy? Why do you think he asked me then haha

    • Beats me - you'd know him better than me.

  • When I blow my load inside the girl it usually means I have some sort of feelings for the girl. And him asking that question proves it.

    I just don’t know why he’s trynna act like your boyfriend when he’s just a FWB’s.

    That’s why I think the concept is stupid af tbh 😂 someone’s always bound to catch feelings

  • "Does it create more of a bond?" No.
    "Do guys only cum in girls they trust/think is attractive?" These two things (attractive and trust) are not related, for one, and two, no.

    It feels better. Don't let him unless you're on the pill or he's in your mouth or ass. Babies are gross and pregnancy, especially unwanted, is bad.

  • Do you use birth control pills

    • Yep! Also why do you think he asked me that question?

    • Then if were him, I wouldn't mind cum inside you Curiosity, wanting to know what kind of guy you'd like to date, also worried about you having a relationship means you stop having sex with him

    • But I didn’t say I was hanging with a guy he just assumed and kept asking... during sex too? Thanks for your reply!

    • Show All
  • It's up to you if you like him finishing inside you. Personally I wouldn't have a problem with it

    • Yeah I don’t mind! I like it. One time he said I’m going to do it and today I saw him and I said to do it... he knows I’m on birth control but do guys only do this with fwb/girlfriends?

    • Well not really. Any girl I've been with I finish in them. If I was to squirt on her face or boobs it would be to much over her so I hide it by inside her.

  • Probably he was marking "his territory" with his cum. Cause he doesn't want to share you with another guy and giving him seconds.

  • Cumming in you is always better.

  • He cares and wants a relationship with you in guessing the cumming part I'm guessing he trust you and did he ask if it was OK to get off in you

  • Show more from Guys (2)