FWB rejected me but now seeks attention?

This guy and I have sex for the past 6 months. We had amazing sex did a lot of cuddling afterward and spend nights together. I didn't want a relationship because I had a crush on another guy. My friends with benefits was aware of this and I thought all is cool since we said only sex without feelings. After a while he started to become very jealous when I was going out with my platonic male friends. We see each other on a daily base and he is going hot and cold on me while I just wanted to be normal and friendly. No matter what, his jealousy continues. Whenever we are drunk together he asks if we are okay and how I feel about the other guy I have feelings for. a while ago we were drunk again and I made a move on him. He rejected me for the first time and said the most horrible things, like he hated me and wasn't into me at all and how he would rather have sex with anyone but me and how he was disgusted by me and he wanted me to leave him alone. After that I completely ignored him for a long time but he seems to be seeking my attention even more now and stares at me a lot. why does he want my attention while he was the one rejecting me? And why did he reject me so harshly?
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  • Sounds like he has feelings for you and wanted more and maybe it was something you did or said to that really hurt him.

    • Thanks for your response. Yes a few months ago I told him during a fight that I didn't want to continue and that the attraction was gone anyway. But he seemed to take it well then so I never expected this.. when I said that I did not mean it..It was more a way for me to end things as this can't go on forever. However I do have feelings for him and his words hurt me like hell!

    • Telling him that the attraction wasn't there was a blow to his self-esteem. And since it was said during a fight, he took it seriously even if he looked like he took it well. On top of that if he does have feelings for you then he values your opinion of him. If that's the case then I'm sure he's hurting just as much as you are.

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