Gaping after anal sex?

I have had anal sex a couple of times now and although I have yet to have an orgasm or anything I have found it pretty pleasurable. However after a while my boyfriend will take his penis in and out a few times during before reentering and going back to the rhythm and at the end I can feel my ass kinda gaping? I have asked my boyfriend and he said it is natural for it to open for a few seconds after and during but it's sexy? Is it natural or damage?
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  • Natural and very, very erotic. Learning how to keep it open for him will likely really turn him on. I'm a big fan of clear glass butt plugs. They let me look straight up her ass. I even use a penlight sometimes. Since I'm kinky and into S&M, she gets spanked for being a naughty tart, of course.

  • I think it's hot. But I'm really into anal. As far as damage, me and my wife of seven years frequently had anal sex and she's fine.

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  • Its natural. If you was pleasure during rub yourself or rub a toy on your clit or in you. Anal can really enhanced vag stimulation.

    • wohhhoo too gud

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  • It is perfectly natural but I trust that you are doing anal only as on occasional variation and not as your routine.

  • natural

  • natural and common, if you spend more than a few minutes at it.

  • No clue, ask ur doctor

  • Its natural. After a few minutes of anal sex your muscles in your ass. begin to relax so that sex is more pleasurable. As long as it tightens back up shortly after there's nothing out of the ordinary.

  • No it will return to its originaal size might take a day depending on what you were doing

  • Ewww

  • as long as it goes back I don't think it's causing damage

  • its natural, too much penetration streach it wide.

  • natural

  • did anyone call the plumber for filling any holes?

  • gaping only happens if an extended stretching session goes on

  • you are all so gay... you are a guy... clearly.

    • Why am I a guy? Because girls don't have anal sex? You are a idiot

  • it is natural

  • It's natural, but the muscles that holds you hole closed WILL get more relaxed the more you do this. Have you noticed it gets easier and easier to insert each time? You can expect your asshole to get slightly larger and looser in general. It's not dangerous or anything, not if you only put something the size of a penis in there.
    The gaping is totally normal, and I find it sexy. It's just your muscles getting more relaxed and trained to be penetrated.

    • Oh right okay well I have only had it a couple of time but yeah I felt more relaxed the second time and it was easy to be penetrated. Can I ask why do you find it sexy?

    • I don't know why. It's just that it is a hole, and it has been dominated. I guess a lot of men like that. Just like I assume you find a penis sexy. Can you explain why you find a penis sexy? It just is to us.

    • Haha I am not having a go I am just curious why haha. I guess you are right yeah...

  • its totally normal. keep taking it up the booty, everythings okay