Getting older and being a virgin is starting to bother me?

I have literally never sexted or flirted with a girl. I'm trying to save myself for marriage but I'm starting to feel like a loser for being this old and still a virgin. Even other virgins sext with other girls and receive nudes from them and masturbate with them. I haven't even done any of that. It didn't bother me before but now it's starting to. I feel like a loser at times. How do I get over this mindset?

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  • That's because you are judging your situation and a woman's perception from the perspective of the modern woman... and most modern women are of the Jezebel spirit, rather than the godly one. Thus your solution is simple, be a godly man that seeks only a truly godly woman. The mistake most men make are that they reside in the middle, reject a lot of the current traits that the jezebel demands from a man, while still trying to acquire a Jezebel type woman. You said 'Even other virgins sext with other girls and receive nudes from them and masturbate with them.' Does that sound like godly behavior? choose a side...

    Seek God and through Him, seek a godly woman.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Get off this site, I can assure you that the lust in this site can consume your positivity on the path you are on, it's happened to me before and I can assure you that if you take a break from the bullshit on here and you get off for a day or two and distract yourself with thoughts that aren't lustful and more positive, you'll gain your strength back

Most Helpful Girls

  • In the days when people saved themselves for marriage they would get married at age 18 or 20. Now people say they're saving themselves for marriage but don't get married until 30 or 40, so they've missed out on all the best years of sex. It wasn't meant to be that way.

  • Why dont you meet a woman? Use a conservative dating site? Get married:)

    • Thank you for MHO

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Do you think you'd enjoy having an oral only arrangement with a woman, while maintaining your non penetrative sexual status? Honestly, I'm extremely jealous of you for being a virgin at your age.

  • A lot of women like virgins and want to be their first, just be open to meeting women and don't be shy about kissing and stuff, you'll get to where you want to be

  • Ask a woman you know out on a date. Then, ask another woman out. Pick a woman you'd like to know better and date her, several times. You'll eventually get over your "don't like being an old virgin" feeling.

  • Well you can always start to be sexual with girls whenever you want to and are comfortable with it. If you have the desire to be, do it. Don’t let one rule ruin your life and make you miss out on experiences you want to have while you’re young. Plus who knows when you’ll get married? What if it’s in 20 years? Then all you’ll feel is regret for not having enjoyed yourself. Don’t worry you can still be a good husband and not a virgin.

  • Saving yourself for marriage. OK, what are you doing to find a wife?

  • It's not for everyone but it seems to work out well for plenty of guys by going to an escort or sex worker or just paying for sex but like I said it's not for everyone