Getting over the best you ever had?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and realized that he never treated me that well to begin with. I'm over the relationship but I'm not over the sex. It was insane the best I ever had, and pretty sure the best I ever will have. I'm meeting other guys, that actually respect me and are interested in a genuine relationship. But, I dont really want to sleep with them because I know it won't be as good as me ex. It just a sad feeling that I never will feel that good again, at least not sexually. What do I do?
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  • nah totally wrong, sex with the ex won't compare once you find someone you really connect with, make sure before you date that he will satisfy all your needs before he is allowed to cum himself...
    I tied my boyfriend to the bed and blindfolded him, I told him I was shy and wanted it this way till I was comfortable, I made him eating me out while he got nothing in return for 6 weeks. After this point I knew he was a keeper and he always puts what I want 1st

    • Yeah, im not going to sleep with someone before I'm over him. It seem unfair to me to sleep with someone if you are going to be thinking about someone else the entry time. But, on the other hand I really like giving, I love it. It just suck because when you enjoy giving you can easily get used.

  • Rent a male escort if all you're looking for is a professional hot and amazing fuck.

    • Don't have the money, and honestly I feel like the secret ingredient to sex is love... But thanks.

    • Oh, maybe find another guy who will treat you like shit so you can love him first before you fuck him.

    • Yeah, I think that's the plan... And I can proably find it, the idea that I'm not going to feel that way in a really long time is just fuck sad.

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  • It will always hurt. A broken vase will always have a crack.
    xx
    ~ Mrs Manson

    • Yeah, I just don't want to view myself as broken.

    • eh im broken too its not that bad xx ~ Mrs Manson

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds like you just need to sleep with many people seeing as sex seems to be priority to you. Eventually one will be a respectable himan. Make things clear you aren't looking for anything too serious and eventually you'll find someone who can do what you like

  • How do you know you will not feel the same way sexually if you don't try it out? Based on what?

    • When you are saying best you ever had... does that mean you never had sex with another man? And your ex is your 1st and only man you made sex with?

    • Because you have a sense of a guys sexuality from talking to them. And because i got drunk at a party he was at yesterday and told him how I've never experienced anything like him in bed before. And he admitted that maybe 10 girls have said the same thing.

    • I've had sex with a few, but he is my first long term boyfriend. The first guy who body I really got it know, and the first one who really got to know mine.

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  • Why do you think it will never be as good as with your ex?

    • Because you have a sense of a guys sexuality from talking to them. And because i got drunk at a party he was at yesterday and told him how I've never experienced anything like him in bed before. And he admitted that maybe 10 girls have said the same thing.

    • and... maybe he's full of shit... you never know, he may never of heard that before band took advantage of a time to brag. I don't quite understand why you would think that out of 3.9 billion men in the world that this guy is the only one that can pleasure you the way you like?

    • It's true, but he was kinda a nympho... like one day before we became offical, we had sex for some thing like 8 hours, like 8 hours with in 24 hours. Then I had to go and shoot an episode for a show I was doing. And he went to town and picked up other girl, and banged he too... im fairly certain the he is something out of the ordinary.

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  • Give yourself time to heal properly before dating again.

  • Just try giving the other guys a chance because who knows you might have better sex with them