Girl cums in seconds and everyone is happy, guy cums in seconds and he’s the worst human alive?

Why does this double standard exist?

Someone post earlier about her boyfriend coming to quick and how she could stop it but if it was the other way around it would be a good thing.
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  • The way you frame it, it appears to be a double standard.

    There is such a thing as the orgasm gap. It’s the fact that, in heterosexual relationships, men have orgasms more often than women. There are a lot of reasons for it, and not all of them are necessarily the man’s fault, but selfishness and laziness definitely are.

    So making sure your female partner is satisfied is a good thing. If you cum too quickly—hey, it happens—it shouldn’t be game over for her. A considerate lover will make sure she is satisfied regardless… oral etc.

    A lot of women can keep going after an orgasm. So it’s just a difference in physiology. That said, I’ve never seen a woman cum “in seconds”. It takes more effort to get a woman off than it does a man.

    • I’m lesbian relationships they do fun in seconds, but I think the orgasm gap and the pay gap come from the same place

    • “In lesbian relationships they do fun in seconds.” You have a lot of insight into those, do you? “The orgasm gap and the pay come from the same place” You mean, like, evidence? There are real, explainable, rational reasons for both. Nobody is blaming you personally. Why are you taking it so personally?

    • You should know that non of this is personal, it’s the internet, you can just say things and hopefully we can have a reasonable explain and see who right and who’s, why does everything we say have to be PC and personal?

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  • It's because guys and girls are different a girl can orgasm many times and carry on a guy can't.

    It doesn't make him the worst human alive I expect you exaggerate because its happened to you too, its an issue but no guy should be victimised for it.

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  • Because men cannot usually continue after they have orgasmed, so sex ends.

    And that generally means the woman won't have orgasmed either so what does she do? Nothing? Masturbates by herself?

    -OR-

    Maybe, they can both work on her orgasm first using hands, mouths and toys before coitus begins...

    then not as disappointing if his orgasm is fast?

    But you're right, it's not like there is total control over it for the guy. It's not like it's a disease or something.

    • It’s not disease but premature ejaculation was seen as disease which tells you how messed up the human mind is cause animals don’t have sex for more than a few seconds.

    • Oh, animals widely vary in length of coitus. Human men can vary greatly. What makes it seem most "premature" is that in a lot of heterosexual arrangements women are offered very little in the way of sexual gratification otherwise. It's a paradigm of coitus that both men and women uphold.

    • Either way I don’t think the way men naturally orgasm should be labeled as “premature” it’s like labelling a girl with no ass “gludiusly challenged”

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  • Because girls are blessed with having the ability of multiple orgasms. They cum one and can keep going. A man isn't blessed worth it. They cum and roll over and fall asleep. No fin at all. That's why its pretty sucky if a guy cums fast because it that point masturbating would have been more worth it.

    • Yeah but lesbian relationship don’t have this issue and there isn’t a dick involved

    • What do lesbians have to do with men?

    • Lesbians according to statistics reach orgasm more often than heterosexual women, and there no penis there, you said once the man cums sex is over. But women can reach orgasm with out a penis.

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  • I wouldn’t say that he’s the worst human alive, but it isn’t much fun to be on the edge and he finishes. That’s why foreplay and afterplay are so important.

    • I used the term worst him alive, because if someone is a premature ejaculator it implies that there is something wrong with him. But it’s stupid because if the girl cums in 3 sec and the guy cums in 5 secs he’s not label a premature ejaculator. So the term is inherently reflective on how long the girl take to cum

    • Of course, and that’s why I said foreplay and afterplay are important.

    • Yeah but I was just talking about how messed up the society is that thinks if a guy cums fast it’s bad. But girls using vibrators can cum just as fast and no one shames them

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  • Because generally speaking, women need more sex to cum and so it's only considerate to make sure she gets hers since we can get ours most any time.

  • Cuz guys obviously just can't keep going, girls can

    • I can keep going on sex I cummed already 😉

    • @Cristian97 yeah my guy use to be able to but recently hell stick it back in and get soft in me lol I have came with his softie in me before tho

    • He has low testosterone then. I have high testosterone and I still get hard after I masterbate

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  • Because she was not happy as she haddent finished yet if your girl finished and u didn't and then she stopped sex u would be equally as upset

  • A guy goes soft after he cums generally so you can't carry on until the girl cums as well. If a girl cums first you can carry on until the guy does.
    Would you be happy if sex stops once your girl has cum and you don't get to?

    • Lol you do realize that that lesbians cum more often than straight women and there’s no dick involved, so yeah

    • Yes of course I know that. I also know that most guys don't want to use oral on a girl they have just cum in

    • Lol yeah that nasty guys aren’t like girls we don’t taste our own cum

  • No, not at all. Just get her off before you do. Then everybody is happy. ;)

  • 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Can be but it's what the guy does. Does he make sure the girl has her orgasms and she is happy this is where oral comes in. The guy has cum so should the girl...

  • That's good you brought that up. You have a good point

    • Wow that’s a first

    • It is true tho. That's why I always come nude Of before sex so I know I will last.

  • l can last a long time

  • She can keep going he can't always keep going

  • LOL Thats true!

  • Your only argument is lesbian relationships and since you aren't part of the lesbian relationship, that doesn't apply to you. Every reply from you I read is "lesbians..." and its like a broken record. Two females having sex will bring multiple orgasms because females orgasm a lot, I've came 4 times in a row. Guys cum one to two times tops and they have to take a break to prevent over stimulation. Therefore, if a male cums before the girl, sex is over and the girl gets to get herself off unless the guy cares enough to get her off afterwards. If the girl cums first, she can keep going until the guy gets his.

  • As long as you finish the job, then it shouldn't matter.