Girl feeling a guy is on a boner in nightclub?

[sausageman]

I am talking about if the girl feels a guys boner when making out in night club, when you are in close dancing or grinding etc. I have been embarrassed by this and while I have wanted to hold the girl in tight, I kept moving back hoping that she wouldn't feel it but this destroyed it. As she moved in I moved back, she must of thought I wasn't interested. I am sure she probably did feel it. this happens often. Is it normal to get a boner so quick? How would you react as a girl? have you noticed this?

[Anonymous]

honestly its weird, as a teenager at dances I thought that shit was so much fun. Then I got older and realized how mean it was because the guy knew he wasn't getting any. Although as I've gotten older I think thats the point in the club and even at dances. People go to see who can get their juices going. A lot of my fellow females dislike it but I if you don't like it dont freak dance, stop twerking on a guys dick in the club. Me personally I try to watch what I'm doing dancing wise and how I'm presenting myself so that a guy knows how far to take things. Seeing how you backed away as courtesy is pretty cool because some guy are different and get a bit perverted once they get... you get the point but that's why remember what I'm doing because if im backin it up on I can't get mad when things happen=)
by the way it doesn't freaky me and depending on how attracted I am to guy I'm dancing with determines whether I enjoy it or not.

[sausageman]

Whats weird though? and what bit is mean? Why do your friends dislike it? whats perverted about it, I was super turned on so many times but I tried to hide it, if she backed out for one second that would be it but if she was staying in should I just let her feel it? How would you like if I was to say "that I am really turned on right now" or would that be absolute nono.

[Opinion Owner]

Its weird that I use to like teasing guys dancing on them and leaving them and thats a mean thing to do. They dislike it because they feel it's perverted and like a guy is copping a free feel. They think (but it has happened before) like a guy is just dry hump them until he nuts that's what's perverted. let her feel because if she doesn't like it she'll tell you Google this song called Too Close by the group Next it explains a lot. If you're turned on that's cool it happens its natural.

[crazyincalifornia]

A hard man is good to find! I like stuff like that as long as I feel like I'm in control, and safe. I won't ever let some guy grind on me on the dance floor in front of strangers though. No way!

[Anonymous]

If a guy got a boner, while I was making out with him, I would be super flattered, and turned on :)
A boner is a huge compliment.

[crazyincalifornia]

Yea!

[BROKENselfie]

Well being the grind style dancing is exotic in nature. This is more then natural, and I'm sorry girls more often then not, know what their doing, and I'm sure you're both over the age of 18 and have had sex education. She knows; and your reaction of backing away could come off in two ways. Shy, or timid. If it bothered you so much next time you got two options; walk away or let it happen and see where it goes. If she doesn't want to touch it she won't.

[sausageman]

Cheers I am a bit shy in these situations. Should I pull her right in and continue, she would feel it pushing into down their every second we danced. I feel that I would be basically dry humping her, would girls enjoy this? If the girl was only kinda into me I would be quite embarrassed to continue doing this, how would I know? I would really like for some girls to give me an opinion on their experience, Please comment, please pretty please...

[jmailhot93]

HEY BRO!

Who cares what they think. They SHOULD take it as a compliment, and they're the cause of it. I mean, THEY dirty danced on you, you didn't forced them!

If they take it like you're weird, just go NEXT !

[cassiecool3]

Honestly, it depends on the girl. If they dance and make out with you like crazy and grab your dick and let you do naughty stuff, then she will enjoy it. Most girls do enjoy it.

[blazer1025]

Personally it turns me on even more cause then at least I k I don't look like a n idiot and he's actually enjoying it

[SuperWomen18]

The whole point if grinding is to turn you on. If you don't have a boner then that's a let down to us girls cause you're not enjoying it.

[BeccaSarah]

I find it so hot I dnt get why guys get embarrassed

[IDGAF97]

I would enjoy it haha

[AverageWhiteBoy]

Of course girls feel it, but is it really a big deal? I mean if a girl is grinding on you wouldn't it be disrespectful to not get a boner?

[Anonymous]

happens, I would assume he is happy to be with me :)

[Anonymous]

i will certainly feel flattered that because me u got a boner! some may find it weird though like think that u r perverted... but most of them would feel flattered! the most category can be identified by her behaviour with any guy!

[sausageman]

That bit of thinking it was weird or the perverted is what I am afraid of. Also I feel that a girl could be laughing at me over it especially if she was not really into me. I get the impression from some of the comments that I should maybe embrace it and make sure that they can feel it. Thanks for your opinion :-)

[Opinion Owner]

ur welcome! and yes not like "make sure" but ya I mean if they notice it gr8! lol notice"it"! enjoy ur life! ;-P

[Anonymous]

If she's grinding dirty on you then that's probably what she wants. That's the whole point of dancing dirty I think. She can't expect you not to get a boner when she's grinding on you. Most girls like it and would probably just turn them on. It's a compliment to them. That's how I feel about it at least lol

[Nananabatgirl]

it is indeed a compliment a reassuring one at that

[Anonymous]

Don't be embarrassed. Its a turn on. It shows us that you like what you see and are enjoying urself