Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
This shouldn't take too long.
So something I've noticed with mind-numbing frequency while here on GaG
is how often there are posts from females where they elucidate (poorly) their concern that their husband/boyfriend/guy is watching porn, or has watched porn, or porns all over the porned porn. Porn everywhere. Porning the place up. And they think that porn is bad. These questions are usually finished, al terminado, with "What should I do?" or some similar variant.
...Yawn.
Um... you don't *DO* anything, other than get over yourself.
This is part of a really unhealthy mindset whereby people think they are supposed to, or are even allowed to, own their partner and what their partner wants, does, and desires. Even sexually.
Girls... your guy is going to watch porn if he wants to. It really doesn't matter if ahead of time you let him know that you don't like it "and he did it anyway." Again, refer back to the ^ last paragraph. You don't own him, or his eyesight. Your personal insecurities are not his fault. If it's really that big a deal for you, yes, PLEASE break up with him, please dear God, so that he can find a different girl who is not batshit crazy and overbearing and controlling.
It's normal and natural for people to want to have sex with, and be sexually attracted to, many other people rather than just one, and yes, that often is why we watch porn. Get over it. It's human nature. YOU may not feel that way (though many girls do also watch porn), and bully for you. Obviously, if he's watching porn, he doesn't feel that way.
And accept the obvious truth: You aren't going to find a guy who actually allows you to dictate whether he watches porn or not. Enjoy being alone, if you do think you can do that.
~ Thaaaanks. Hugs and kisses. #getoverit
What Girls & Guys Said
13 15Why not MAKE PORN FOR HIM?
My wife can flash a nipple in a picture and that does more for me than a whole website of other women.
... Okay
Let me guess, you've never actually loved a woman.
ever hear of that calendar for married men? Same picture every month...
I won't for religious reasons.
Uh... okay
Good take i agree.
True. I do not have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn.
Girl... you have an obligation to TRY to get your guy to stop watching porn... if you really care about him.
Are you dumb? Serious question.
No, I have the physical capability to speak. Oh wait, that's probably not what you meant. "Ignorant/stupid" is most likely what you meant.
Uh... sure man. Good one.
Finally someone said it.