Girlfriend agreed to do an mfm (straight) and she wants me to find the guy, what should I look for?

So my girlfriend wants to do a straight mfm with me and another dude, and she wants me to select the guy, but I'm not sure who to pick, what to look for, etc.

Can anyone offer advice?

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  • Well never done it so hard to know but probably someone you think you can get along with and is fun I would think. I'd say outgoing, personable and easy going. That's a big step so you want someone that isn't going to make it weird or stressful. Just talk to her about what she is looking for and then you can still find or choose the other dude. Just gives you an idea of what she is comfortable with and a starting place for the search. Make sure you talk about boundaries...

    • That's really smart! So should I go looking for a guy we don't know or someone who is a friend? I'll definitely ask her about what she's attracted to!

    • Alright so again never done but if it were me I would not look to friends because if something gets awkward then what? Know what I mean?

    • Yeah I get you, maybe I'll look online for someone who's experienced with this kind of thing who's also had positive experiences with it, I really want my girlfriend to enjoy the experience as much as possible and don't want it to get weird, I was thinking about maybe going out of town to meet the guy, like find someone we will never really run into

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  • Pick a guy who isn't squeamish about another guy's body. I'm not saying you have to touch but chances are you will if only by accident. Make it a guy where you two can be mature about it.

    • That's really smart!

  • What kinds of things are you interested in engaging in? Do you only want him to have sex with her or do you want him to dominate you, as well?

    • The focus would be on her, with us taking turns and sometimes probably going at once

    • That shouldn't be too hard to find. I think you should start advertising.

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  • I have a lot of ideas.

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  • Look for a guy with a huge dick

    • Haha I wouldn't be opposed to finding a guy like that for her