Girlfriend always wants to give me oral?

[Anonymous]

It's normal that my girlfriend always wants to suck me off?
At first she didn't do it much but now she finds every excuse to do it.
I don't complain, but I wonder does she really like it so much?

[Anonymous]

... you’re making this sound like a bad thing...
I’m not too unlike her, in the way that I warm up to going down on a guy as time goes on. For me oral sex is a bit more intimate, I can’t explain why but that’s just how I feel about it. I might be more likely to have sex with a guy on the third date but blowing him is going to wait a while. However, once I feel comfortable with oral sex with him... yeah that’s going to happen a lot. I enjoy giving oral very much and you’re good at what you love. Lol so I’ve never heard anyone complain. 😂
Her reason maybe different but I don’t think it’s exactly unusual for not being so into it at the start and being way more into it now.
Based on what I’ve heard women here and my friends say, if she wasn’t into it then she wouldn’t be doing it. She would find every excuse to avoid it.. so... yes she much actually like doing it.

[Asker]

I never considered it a bad thing 😂 It's just that it seemed strange

[Susan_in_charge]

Presumably you have a lovely cock. Is this as well as, or instead of, vaginal sex?

[Asker]

Together with vaginal sex. Would it be for her, we'd have it every night and we often do

[Susan_in_charge]

As long as she is happy. If she wants to suck your cock it's your responsibility to let her. Are you shaved?

[Asker]

Yes, for comfort reasons

[Susan_in_charge]

Good. Just carry on letting her use your cock as a sex toy and be grateful.

[Asker]

I am grateful, and if that makes her happy and satisfied, I'm all for it.

[Susan_in_charge]

Good boy.

[Asker]

The exact same thing she says lol

[Susan_in_charge]

Hopefully, she'll buy you a collar and leash soon.

[Asker]

I'm not sure about that

[Asker]

but if she would ever want to do it I'd agree I guess

[Susan_in_charge]

Of course you would! Do you think she is dominant?

[Asker]

I think she is. She initiates it almost all of the times, she's almost always on top, and I'm fine with following her directions. It may be because she's slightly older than me and she's my first girlfriend, I'm not sure

[Susan_in_charge]

Whatever the reason it's how it should be.

[Asker]

Well, I do enjoy it that way. I know there are a lot of people that says that "the man should be dominant", but it's not really our thing

[mrbobz]

As great as it sounds, underneath there could be some psychological reason, she might be worried about loosing you and is doing it in the hope/thought that it will make you always want to be with her.

Maybe casually bring it up and ask how she feels about the relationship, is she worried you are going to leave her

[Asker]

I had asked her, and she said that nope, she just likes doing it, plus she knows I'm going to return the favor

[AustinMan]

Just ask her. Some women learn to love giving head. It's a complex mix of dominant and submissive.

[Asker]

When I ask her she just says she loves doing it and it turns her on

[AustinMan]

Just take her at her word. Her objectives are probably several but one is probably to get you to cum. Think of something sad to distract you a bit from feeling the full intensity until you're ready to cum. Does she swallow? That'll make a difference.

[Asker]

Yes, she does. I try to last as long as I can generally

[AustinMan]

Some comments to another GAG user when she asked a similar question for the female perspective, Yesterday, I saw the guy I'm dating and I gave him a bj. He kept apologizing for finishing too fast? ↗

I'd be interested in why as that'll color my answer. I've talked to a number of women who love giving head about why they enjoy it so much since it's not as intuitive as sex. Some of the reasons were:
- He loves it so much and I want to please him.
- It's a very submissive act and I love to feel his dominance through his big, hard cock.
- It's a dominant and submissive act. I have his pride and glory in my mouth with my teeth and it's only through an act of will that I don't bite him but at the same time I'm on my knees with him standing over me, sometimes controlling the movements.
- I love to see the look on his face when I look up into his eyes, open my mouth, show him the big load he's just gifted me with, and how he glories in my swallowing it all and looking up with a proud, loving, and adoring look on my face.

[Nivinxus]

Maybe she likes the taste of your dick? Don't read too much into mate and be happy your girl loves to do it.

[Dargil]

Because she flat old likes doing it. Your reactions. The naughtiness. The kinkiness of body responses. Her satisfaction with pleasing you. Her own sexual excitement. Its just all good.

[KendraDelov]

Maybe she prefers giving you oral over actual sex with you?😮

[Asker]

Not really, would it for her, we'd have it every night and we often do

[Rogzi]

Hmmm. Never thought I'd see someone ask this question.
I fully expect oral. What's there to question?

[BobbyC65]

Lucky boy you.

[19irish76]

It’s her fetish

[Nachowedgie]

I'd say you're one lucky dude lol

[Anonymous]

She must have done that often

[Anonymous]

Most girls have a great innate capacity to suck dick... just like they have the capacity to have kids... must be biology.