Girlfriend caught me watching porn while FaceTiming her. How do I fix this?

So before i say anything, let me just say porn was playing before we started facetiming in the other room. My girlfriend is away in another country.

So before we facetimed, i had porn playing before i showered. I left it on in the other room while i was showering and almost forgot it was even on. And it kept looping through videos as the previous one ended, so it stayed on.

I got out of the shower and my girlfriend facetimed me while she was away. i picked up, and decided to go to that room where the porn was playing because that room had better lighting. while we were talking the porn was still playing silently (I don't know why i didn't close the computer screen while we were talking. VERY stupid of me, I know!).. But then she noticed in the reflection of a girl on my screen, it was the porn and she's like "Whos that girl?". Stupidly I denied it out of embarrassment, and she hung up on me, but then i called her back and told her the truth and said, yah it was porn.

Now i don't know how to fix it. Like, when she is away, I had urges and fantasies so i turned on porn. When I watch porn, I think about her, it's not like im thinking about other people. But now she lost my trust, she's pissed at me, and she doesn't want to talk to me. she never said it was over, I just know she's really mad at me and doesn't trust me.

Please help me fix this
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  • Experience says: Excersize self-control. This is a learning curve my friend. And she is holding you to a higher standard. Apologize, and tell her you miss her, have urges, but will work towards not using porn as a vice. Less emotion, more steadfast action. Be deliberate, it's not worth loosing her. ❤

    • Yes you are right

    • You may need to evaluate your personal goals. Sex, porn and fantasy can become an addiction. If it consumes your mind or rules your thought life, this is dangerous.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ok, so you learnt a huge lesson on porn and never leave it unattended. Now, just tell her you miss her, you love her, she is sexy and you have urges. She isn't there and you start to think about her and just need to release yourself.

    • Also I messaged her a few times and she hasn’t responded to my messages about the situation. And it doesn’t help that she’s on her period right now. I basically told her “youre probably busy and probably don’t want to talk to me right now, but message me when you can. “ Do I just let it be for now and Go about my day until she responds and let her take her time? Or should I attempt to call her?

    • You already reached out and tried to make amends, so I would just leave it. The ball is in her court.

    • Any updates?

  • There's nothing wrong with watching porn while in a relationship. Everyone has needs and if she can't understand that, you need to take a good look at the relationship and make sure this is what you want.

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  • Should have just told the truth lying is where u fucked up