Girlfriend doesn't want sex, im not sure if I can live like this?

Anonymous

We‘ve been together for 2 years and it was always kinda rare that we really did it but now she's basically saying she probably won't ever want to do any of that ever again. I've asked if i did anything wrong etc. but she really just seems to be ashamed and disgusted by the topic. We are probably going to move in together in a few months and im not sure if i can do this forever (no porn too, which is understandable and im also pretty disgusted by porn atp but its an addiction so its still difficult not to watch it)

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1 mo

Im scared that breaking up is gonna be a huge mistake. What if everything goes good and i‘d have a family with her? Im also her first boyfriend she didn't dump in under the first week so im basically her first and she's my first. I feel like thats special and i can't imagine myself being together with someone that has multiple ex‘s. We like the same things, she might not be perfectly my type but i find her reasonably attractive and im not someone that should talk about being attractive lol

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FunkyMonkee Master
1 mo
Might as well dump her, now! I wasted over 5 years of my life with my ex-fiance who stopped fucking me after 4 years!!
A relationship is supposed to be give and take! If she don't wanna take what you're giving, time to bail!
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- FunkyMonkee
  1 mo
  How do you expect to have a family if she won't fuck you? It's best to just bail! Who cares if your next girlfriend has fucked anybody else before you? Her pussy's still gonna work just as well as if you were her first fuck. You just won't get to pop her cherry!
- Asker
  1 mo
  She said she wants kids so ig we would have sex when we‘ll be trying for a baby. Also the thought of someone else fucking my girlfriend (no matter if im together with her or not) is like literally the worst thing i can think of
- FunkyMonkee
  1 mo
  Well, maybe you should tell her it's time to put out. I never think of my ex's and how much they're fucking. What's the point?
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- Asker
  1 mo
  I guess i really should just break up. I kinda knew anyways i was just being delusional and scared of breaking up.
- FunkyMonkee
  1 mo
  There's TONS of single women out there and more and more are being born every day..

Most Helpful Guy

inhua Yoda
1 mo
are you first guy she's ever slept with? if so, then you should stay committed to her
if not, then say your goodbyes. don't play by stupid rules that put you in a box
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Most Helpful Girl

Anonymous
1 mo
you cannot, you will have to get another girlfriend
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OlderAndWiser Editor
1 mo
Is this what you want for the rest of your life?
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- OlderAndWiser
  1 mo
  How are you going to have kids with her if you never have sex?
- Asker
  1 mo
  She said she wants kids so ig we would have sex when we‘ll be trying for a baby
- OlderAndWiser
  1 mo
  You are afraid that if you break up with her, you'll never find anyone else?
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- Asker
  1 mo
  Kind of. Im not sure how many women are out there that have had few to none sexual partners and how many i would be compatible with. I also never go out except for work so im not really out there also i have 0 social skills ngl
- OlderAndWiser
  1 mo
  You develop social skills by dating. It doesn't just come to you in a dream; you learn from experience. This girl sounds like she has a life of misery planned for you. And I know you may not see that. There are people who go through life looking for joy, and there are others who live their lives in misery. Which one is she? And do you want her to be the role model for your future daughters?
Iron_Man Master
1 mo
Get married first
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Anonymous
1 mo
Break up with her and find someone you're compatible with
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